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why u guys sorry? :S this was just a discussion...just cuz we supported ragini..we need to be sorry? :S wow!

i dont think anyone ganged up really!! if ragini fans post in her favour...thats called ganging up? but if ppl post for sadhna...than its fair...no ganging up ther...is that so/?? why r u guys so biased here..m sorry to say but this is horrible...

n i feel terrible..cuz i happen to love both sadhna n ragini... i happen to be a big fan of both the jodis... n the FC u r talking abt is salekh n ragvir's FC...its not only ragvir's FC..that we wud gang up n post... if we only loved ragvir..we cud have made a separate FC for them..that wud have been easy...isnt it? but no...just cuz everyone of us ther loves ragvir n salekh equally...still we get these warnings...for what? u talk /discuss in a nice manner...n u get threats that ur warning levels will be increased? thats really too much... show me one post wher we supported ragini n went over the top? or said rude things??

i am sorry but this always happens...n i cant always keep quiet...
u can increase my WL... thanks.. but no one listens here...n we have to listen this all the time...

Originally posted by: *Kruthi*

Well talking and doing are different things, Sadhna really went out of her way to help RR out. What if Sadhna just talked abt getting RR together, but never really did anything about it? RR wud still be at square one, on the phone still not knowing who each other on.

Even before her wedding, Sadhna has been looking out for Ragini. Right from when Saket liked her and not Ragini, she has made so many sacrifices for her. She's even had to face Mama's flak for marrying Alekh. Shes never even needed a chance for helping her out, Sadhna has been sacrificing her happiness for Ragini's most of her life.

Everything Sadhna has done for Ragini has only brought misery upon herself, she even married a schizophrenic man, just so her sister could have a better life. Now since Ragini has gotten married and gotten a full blown chance to help SA, I really hope she does more than talking and actually starts doing something constructive. Its time Sadhna has some happiness in her life too. Anyway, guess we can just wait to see if/when Ragini is going to do anything for her much-sacrificing matyr of a sister.

So agree with you Kru, and i am sure RR will try and do something, but with the things now being shown with the stress on "sisterly bond" remaining the same, then Ambika as well as Mamiji expecting Sadhna to make all the sacrifices to keep their sisterly bond the same makes me feel that Sadhna will be making more sacrifices in the near future as well, now this is just my POV, and i hope i am wrong.

This also is a feeling that the sisterly bond b/w Sadi and Ragi will become strained and as always Sadi will be blamed, but i trust on the creative that they will always love each other.

Originally posted by: ManaliS

why u guys sorry? :S this was just a discussion...just cuz we supported ragini..we need to be sorry? :S wow!

i dont think anyone ganged up really!! if ragini fans post in her favour...thats called ganging up? but if ppl post for sadhna...than its fair...no ganging up ther...is that so/?? why r u guys so biased here..m sorry to say but this is horrible...

n i feel terrible..cuz i happen to love both sadhna n ragini... i happen to be a big fan of both the jodis... n the FC u r talking abt is salekh n ragvir's FC...its not only ragvir's FC..that we wud gang up n post... if we only loved ragvir..we cud have made a separate FC for them..that wud have been easy...isnt it? but no...just cuz everyone of us ther loves ragvir n salekh equally...still we get these warnings...for what? u talk /discuss in a nice manner...n u get threats that ur warning levels will be increased? thats really too much... show me one post wher we supported ragini n went over the top? or said rude things??

i am sorry but this always happens...n i cant always keep quiet...
u can increase my WL... thanks.. but no one listens here...n we have to listen this all the time...

Originally posted by: napstermonster

I think personally, I feel quite protective of Sadhna, because there is no one to protect her. Sara plays a character that is inherently very gentle, but who has put herself into many situations where her love for her family has overcome her fears and her pain.

She does not stand up to people because thats not in her nature, so she cannot scream and yell at Vasu for putting down her family any more than she can decide, okay, Kaushaliya will never be a real mother to me, so I wont care what she thinks or does with me. While a more "mahabharat" type character might do both of those things, for Sadhna, its just not in character. I dont expect that, so dont presume thats what Im saying.

Sadhna gave everything for her family, the very house they live in is a gift from her, not to mention the happiness in Ragini's life. Obviously Sadhna sacrificed herself without anyone' knowledge or consent.

That is admirable, not because Ragini ever asked her to dump a flower pot on her foot, or marry a crazy guy, or pretty much sell her future for their house.Naturally Ragini would not want her to do any of this had she known. But the root of love here is sacrifice, more so because she gets nothing in return, and ASKS for nothing in return.

Im not saying there is a quid pro quo, that to get love you must do this and that, or that there is a balance sheet between the sisters. That doesnt mean, though, that Sadhna should always be the one giving and sacrificing, right? Id like her to have more, and Alekh, NOT cured magically by Ragini, but brought back slowly to normalcy would give her happiness.

She is admirable, Thats why we, in the audience, feel that she shouat least get a chance at happiness, and those who care the most for her, Ragini and Ranvir, should try and help make that happen.

very well said, and i hope Sadi does get her share of happiness and i feel she truly deserves it.

Why are we fighting??? Before Rajan Shahi creates a rift between the sisters, here we in the forum have already started creating the rifts....please stop it...

So far, Ragini had been the underdog because her marriage was broken, and Sadi was always the beautiful one....so Sadi had a chance to do something and sacrificed.....Ragini was not even in a position do it...and when Mama ji said, " Sadi has sacrificed more, because of her beauty", it summed it up all....

Finally, Ragini got Ranvir and is no longer the underdog...now she is in a position to do something..and I am sure she will do everything for sadhana...remember the Mukh Dikhai scene, it was RagVir who sided with Aalkeh to do the mukh dikhai..which made Sadi happy.....they also talked about Sadi in the suhaag raat....and now they are taking SaAlkeh in their honeymoon...because of RagVir, Saalekh is experiencing all this happiness....

Mamiji was always rude to Sadi, but it was Ragini's love that kept Sadi going...and Ragini always had to face harsh words from outsiders,and it was Sadi's love that gave her support....

So they are one heart in two bodies...please don't forget the basis of the show, i.e. love between the sisters..and have patience.... 😛 😛

Very true what everyone is saying here, Sadhna-Ragini share a beautiful bond, def something that cannot be measured.

Bini: I would just like to clarify that Ragvir fans weren't the one who started any 'fights' here. We all made the same points that you have just mentioned here as well. I have also only been talking about the love and understanding b/w the sisters which is the main message of this show anyways.

Bini... we were only discussing in a nice way...never started a fight.. no one ganged up really! we r being accused of things we never did...
n i agree 100% with whatever u have said... i love both the sisters too! the bond b/w the sisters is one of the main reasons why i watch this show!

Originally posted by: nureat01

Bini: I would just like to clarify that Ragvir fans weren't the one who started any 'fights' here. We all made the same points that you have just mentioned here as well. I have also only been talking about the love and understanding b/w the sisters which is the main message of this show anyways.

Did I say that RagVir fans created the fights...or did I say that SaAlekh fans created the rifts....I just wanted to say "We"- we all who love Bidaai, for what is it... at the end of the day it is all of us together.....and Bidaai wouldn't be compelte with outh Saalekh or Ragvir....

I think we shud just leave all these fights behind us and continue with the wonderful discussions taking place here. Sadi-Ragi's bond is def the USP of the show, and as Bini put it - thats what always keep the both of them going, the love for each other.👏