Sadhna Too Emotional-Mods Note Pg 4 - Page 2

Well talking and doing are different things, Sadhna really went out of her way to help RR out. What if Sadhna just talked abt getting RR together, but never really did anything about it? RR wud still be at square one, on the phone still not knowing who each other on.

Originally posted by: *Kruthi*

Now since Ragini has gotten married and gotten a full blown chance to help SA, I really hope she does more than talking and actually starts doing something constructive. Its time Sadhna has some happiness in her life too. Anyway, guess we can just wait to see if/when Ragini is going to do anything for her much-sacrificing matyr of a sister.

OMG...Aap sab lad kyu rahe ho ????

You know what, guys, i do stand corrected-its like the creatives did the Ragini/Kaushi/Sadhna scene to prove me wrong!~ Dont get me wrong, I absolutely love Ragini's character, but its Kaushi I have problems with-time and time again, she has been proved incorrect about Sadhna. Sure, today she smiled for half a second, but just wait till she hears about the reception issue-Sadhna will no doubt again be to blame.

Sadhna has hurt herself in every way possible to live upto Kaushi and do what Kaushi wants her to do, and she still is misunderstood constantly. I feel frustration seeing a character who circles around the same notion, and who makes Sadhna pay for being beautiful as if that was some way a crime.

I dont doubt Ragini's love for her sister, how can anyone? Its palpable, and very moving. I just wish it was less passive when it came to Sadhna tolerating everything for other people' sake, but I agree, thats just her nature, to some extent, and not knowing whats going on in ohter cases.

I agree, of course, that Ragini has never really had a chance to do anything for Sadhna, but now they are in the same house, we have the lovely Avni and Naveen ready to do stuff, maybe the sisters will find out each has the strength the other needs.

But say what you will, Kaushi will never be a good mother in my eyes. I know step mothers who are just like her, and nothing and nobody changes their inherent atitudes to those not of their blood. They can be the world's best mothers to their own child and still treat the orphan in their lives woth emotional and psychologial abuse, which Sadhna has been seen to have suffered throughout Bidaai.

I guess Im being impatient, but I do agree that Ragini and Ranvir have a wonderful chance to do what they can for the Salekh pair coming up, and I believe they'll rise to the occasion. The reason I love this show is because there are so many characters in it you can actually recognize.

I dont think Ragini and Ranvir are selfish, FAR FAR FAR from it-im a Ragvir fan! Sadhna gave everything for her family, the very house they live in is a gift from her, not to mention the happiness in Ragini's life. Thats one hell of a sacrifice, and no, i dont think Ragini needs to sacrifice X amount to measure up.

Im just saying Im saying there is a chance that if in the future they dont do everything for the Salekh pair like Alekh and Sadhna did for them, there can be problems. Its Is not a wish to see them becoming selfish, its a hope it doesnt come to that. My worry is that in being as blissful as they are, they might forget the pain behind Sadhna's smile. The good news is, judging from this episode, the creatives will show the transition shifting towards the so far incomplete Alekh/Sadhna track quite soon.

Nobodys asking for magic or Ragini to do exactly what Sadhna did, but Ragini to be a strong pillar for Sadhna now, since they both are together at the Rajvanshs. Not only there, she needs to begin to stand up to Sadhna when her mother goes off on Sadi for every single thing. I'm sure that will be a good start at making Sadhna's life better. And I'm double sure that Kaushi wud begin to change if she realized that her actions are hurting Ragini... atleast for her sake she might be civil towards Sadi.

Oh and guys, this is a discussion, no need for sarcasm or jumping down each other's throats for opinions, right? Lets be civil. I didnt say there was a magic wand nor did I suggest i want Kaushi to become Ambika-I prefer Kaushi the way she is, so I can be mad at her! Great stress relief, that one.

Yaa even I feel sad when I see her...😭She has gone thru such a lot

Originally posted by: jiya25

what exactly would you like to see ragini do exactly??? start giving alekh lessons on love? may be tell her mother to stop being rude to sadi, oh wait!!! she did that today!!! ok, what next, may be try and give saalekh more romantic opportunities......well if the upcoming episodes are an indication, that's what's going to happen...............as for sadi being a Martyr...........Ragini has never asked sadhna to do anything for her or help her out in anyways, if sadi chooses to be a meek martyr, then how is that ragi's faulth....yes sadi did everything for ragi, but she made her own choices, and ragi is not even aware of half the stuff...and in as much as possible, ragini has supported sadhna's choices and decisions every step of the way........EASE UP!!!

Originally posted by: napstermonster

Oh and guys, this is a discussion, no need for sarcasm or jumping down each other's throats for opinions, right? Lets be civil. I didnt say there was a magic wand nor did I suggest i want Kaushi to become Ambika-I prefer Kaushi the way she is, so I can be mad at her! Great stress relief, that one.