horrible conniving manipulating sorry excuse of a woman - Page 3

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

@bold: In all, I only want to say there is a difference between treating your own daughter and treating someone else's daughter. When Ahem did not allow Meera to go anywhere alone within the city, what is he going to allow her to stay alone in Mumbai. It is not safe for a girl to stay alone anywhere in India, especially in metropolitan cities like Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkota, Chennai etc.

that way, its unsafe even if u stay with ur parents...cause u cannot stay holed up in the house the whole day...but comparitively Mumbai is still much better than other metros

Brandstand is in Bandra West. Even National College is in Bandra. When I was staying in Mumbai, there were lots of drug addicts. 20 years of stay in Mumbai is not a short time. I agree that there are so many women who stay alone in Mumbai and many women from small villages also stay there. They might be matured who has got the knowledge about the outside world. Meera very much lacks in that. She has been getting into trouble many times and Vidya had to rescue her. Though Meera went with Vidya to the youth party, she was drugged and was caught by the police when she drove the vehicle in a drunken state. Because Vidya was there, she argued with the police and ensured her release. What would have happened if she had gone alone and landed up with something like that? Bandra West is notorious. One has to be on their toes all the time. People living there should be quick, alert and proactive. Even my cousins had stayed there and my uncle was insecure that his children will get spoilt. He never allowed his daughters to go alone. They were always accompanied with their friends. My uncle always kept my cousin brother engaged in some competitive exam or the other along with his studies. He took all necessary precautions that his children will not go in a wrong direction. In the show, Mansi supported Meera to go alone to Mumbai to which Ahem did not agree. What made her to think that Ahem will agree to that? He never allowed her to go anywhere alone within the city then what is he going to allow her to go to Mumbai alone and let her stay alone? If Mansi had motherly feelings, she herself would have stopped Meera. If she had taken care of the girls, it is only out of her selfish motives.

I gave my own example of losing my mother. She was my strength and inspiration. She was always co-operative and supportive. She was an angel. I am saying that not because she was my mom but because she always stood for what is right. She has confronted us when we did something wrong. That is like a real mother.

For Ahem to marry Mansi, there is no need for her to put the words in his heart. If he had looked upon her in that way, he himself would have informed his daughters and married her a way back. Love is not meant for show-off and it never comes by force. It has to come naturally.

guys usually doesnt give so much importance to marriage...and if the girl is ok with it, than they wont force for marriage...very rarely a guy will force a girl for marriage...i dont want to argue on assumptions, but still i think ahem didnt marry mansi, cause she didnt ask for it...if he was so much into gopi, he wudnt have given his companions place to anyone else...he wudve stayed loyal...

I agree that Kokila did not do the right thing by getting him married to Gopi without knowing his wishes. But he has chosen that path. Hence, he is very much at fault but the most disgusting thing about him is that he has excused himself from that and passed the entire blame on his mom.

If Gopi gave more importance to Kokila, Ahem too did the same thing. So Kokila more than being Parag's wife has been Gopi's husband and Ahem's wife.😆 If Gopi licked Kokila's feet, then even Ahem has been doing the same thing till Gopi went to jail.

thats exactly what i am saying, that she either forced him or emotionally blackmailed him from the start...just now he got a backbone to say what he wants, and now again she is tricking him, by faking her health concerns...hence i said that noone deserves a mother like her...

If Ahem wanted to spend time with Gopi, there has been a numerous ways for him to do that. He also could have taken her to his office for one day and spent a quality time. I don't find anything wrong if the couple locks themselves inside the room and spend time with each other. Normally, the couples do that and the other family members understand that they shouldn't be disturbed at any cost.

normally couples do that...but not gopi...gopi wudnt dare go against kokila...she have been doing maaji maaji 24/7...thats why i said that m surprised they even have 2 kids...cause clearly gopi is kokila's wife...not ahem's

Ahem never raised his voice when he really had to but raised did so after the event took place. If Kokila plays tricks, Ahem could have taken the help of Baa & Hetal to convince Kokila. When Gopi used to put a word before Kokila, Baa, Hetal & Chirag used to involve in that as a result, Kokila could not refuse. So in that way Gopi is more clever. Gopi may take emotional decisions which are wrong most of the times but she is more versatile than Ahem or anybody else in MB. She balances between the household chores, achar business, tutoring the kids, spending time with her husband and standing up for the family in times of crisis.

However, in Radha's re-entry she could not do that. If Ahem thinks that his wife gives him less priority and does not love him, then he cannot think anything beyond himself. If he was sensible, he would have looked at the other side of the coin. Whenever, Ahem worked with Gopi in any of the problems, they were able to overcome it successfully. He should have given the top priority to throw Radha out of the house by helping Gopi without affecting his business. Radha wouldn't have vanished only by keeping away from her. Even if there is a spark at one part of the house, it can spread everywhere in the house and destroy it. If Radha was a problem for Jigar and Paridhi, then how can Ahem just keep away saying that let them solve this issue, it is their headache.

wanting to be a priority in ur wife's life is every husband's wish...it massages his ego, and also according to our scriptures a wife's priority shud be her husband...in-laws are important, but not above husband...again when kokila n gopi arent listening to him, and entertaining the evil woman radha, why wud he take extra stress...why didnt gopi n kokila think of involving him...whenever he warned gopi against radha, she wud always go,'nahi ahemji, aisa nahi hai, radha badal gayi hai'...to even think that radha wud change was totally absurd, that showed how idiotic gopi was...she was one of the main reason, that radha cud create so much havoc in modi bhavan...jigar is totally spineless guy, he cudnt even avert paridhi's advances successfully, it was hardly a few months after his wife died...he cudve been more strict n kept her away...but he was a totaly jerk...so how long can one look after all of his spineless relatives...if jigar cudnt even convince his own mother n aunt to give him some time to mourn his wife in peace...what can his brother do...Ahem was fed up, his expressions showed that he has had enough...u cant spoon feed a grown up man for long...but jigar always wanted ahem to take the call, n he wud just follow...but that is not possible always naa...esp when jigar's personal life is concerned...tell me what did jigar do to kick radha out...he was the one who got her entry, right...did he actively did anything...no always only followed orders...so obviously anyone with a sane mind, will get irritated with such a man...

I am not assuming that Ahem loves Gopi. He does have feelings for Gopi but his ego has suppressed it. Well, there is no need for me or anybody to prove that Ahem does not love Mansi.

well, as of now, they have clearly showed his feelings for mansi...so anything anyone says is assumptions only...till they clearly show it...

You are right in saying that at the end of the day, Gopi will be the winner despite her daan ki devi attitude. For that matter, I will say that if the CV's wanted Gopi to be Ahem's wife and even if Ahem had stood against his mother to marry Anita, they would have made Anita to dump Ahem and made him to accept his mom's choice.

Lastly, I will say that whichever third person has stayed in MB they had stayed with wrong intentions. Kokila accommodated Anita, she tried to kill Gopi. Kusum entered MB as a maid servant as Neelam, she intended to steal Gopi's & Ahem's child after Gopi's delivery. Thanks to Rashi that she exposed her before the whole family. Aman came to MB, he kidnapped Ahem. Radha entered MB, she created problems between Jigar & Rashi. She is the root cause for Umang-Tripti entry in MB, where they tried to loot the Modis & Gopi was accused for Umang's murder. Masterji entered MB to make the kids study. He kidnapped Gopi & killed Rashi. Vivaan stayed as a guest in MB but has created problems between Jigar & Paridhi. He also went to the extent of joining Radha and kidnapping Paridhi. Now, it is Mansi's turn.

again u are making assumptions bt mansi...so m not gonna contest it further...

Originally posted by: ANJ4

after reading every1 post ... i think that kokila is the worst MIL ...she really does not love any1...she just want to be in control of every1 lives////// like the way ahem said ...she is not danceing to gopi tunes...kokila want everyone to dance to her tunes ...all the time ...she wants to to a dicttator ...

Originally posted by: anjs

my answers are in blue...also i want to put forth my view bt ur comment earlier that blood is thicker than water... if you have read bt hindu scriptures, you must be knowing that lord krishna always said that people will remember Yashoda maiya as his mother more than devaki maiya, cause yashoda maiya, raised him...so if kokila was a true follower of lord krishna, than she shud give atleast some respect to mansi...cause her own lord is telling n preaching the fact that it is not always bt blood relations...relations formed with heart is also important n respect worthy...here m talking bt current track...in future if kokila finds out that mansi is infact evil...and tricks her out of ahem;s life...that wud be logical...but as of now...ahem has given mansi an important place in his life...she has looked after kokila's grand daughters...she was there for those teen girls, at that stage of life, when they needed a mother figure around...so her place in their life, as per lord krishna's teachings, is very very important...and if kokila still insults her due to her own mis-givings, than she is refuting her own lord's teaching...which is equal to insulting her lord...

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

Lord Krishna is a God. We are just normal or ordinary humans and we cannot equal him. When you are in trouble, nobody other than your parents/relatives will come to your rescue. Nobody other than your parents will help you unconditionally. True or pure love is unconditional. If she has taken care of the girls with the intention of becoming Ahem's wife, knowing that he is married, that cannot be called unconditional. Plus, Mansi cannot give unconditional love to the girls like Yashoda did. When Yashoda got complaints that Krishna has stolen the butter from their place, she punished Krishna by tying him. If you say that Krishna broke the rope in your next response, I will say that it is a separate case. But for now, I only want to say that Yashoda did tie Krishna when she got complaints from her neighbours. Mansi is just the opposite to Yashoda. After knowing that Meera was arrested as by the cops in the youth festival, what did Mansi do? Forget about punishing her, she didn't even confront Meera for such a thing and also she has hidden this fact from Ahem.

It is a good thing that Vidya saved the situation. Otherwise, Ahem would have to take the trouble to bail her out. If he comes to know about it, he will get mad at Mansi for hiding this from him. As a father, he has a right to know.

Originally posted by: anjs

you know what...lets just agree to disagree...cause most of ur points are hypothetical...and assumptions...and i dont have it in me to argue with assumptions...

my main point being that kokila is a horrible mother n gopi a horrible wife...i rest my case...god only know why my family watches this pathetic serial, thereby forcing me also to watch 😔

Originally posted by: sharoon3210