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you seriously not getting my point... i never took Ahem's side...i accept her is a egoistic man, arrogant, rude, everything...those are his flaws which normally exist in a human...but Gopi isnt some mahanta ki devi, she is as flawed as him...if he took some decisions which were wrong...similarly her decisions were also wrong...she neglected her own husband n kids for her in-laws...and now she is paying the price for it...she hasnt been wronged by Ahem or the daughters...she deserves it...but even now, the cv;s are gonna taut her as the great indian goddess...who did so much for the modi family blah blah...and show that Ahem was the monster who strayed despite having such a great wife...but that is not true...if in real life, a woman behaves like gopi, than her husband is also gonna hate her in the long run...that is the truth...wake up n smell the coffee...by showing such pathetic ideals, the cv's of this show, is spoiling the indian society, where viewers start expecting such mahanta from their own bahu's...that those bahu will keep doing maaji maaji (feel like slapping her when she goes all maaji maaji)...all in all this show is most disgusting pathetic serial i have seen in recent times...wish the government wud ban shows like this, instead of banning the airing of good moviesand yes, bt what mansi did yesterday...i seriously dont care, as ihave stopped watching...i hope people will do to, in order to stop the cv;s from making money out of such senseless stories...
Yes, that is what Kokila wanted. From the beginning of the show itself, she wanted a DIL who will first be her DIL then Ahem's wife. She wanted a DIL who will not back answer her & dance to her tunes. She found that in Gopi. She did not bother about Ahem's requirements. In real life all women give the top priority to their husbands, then their in-law then her parents and siblings and the last preference goes to friends.
The fact is that Kokila never allowed the couple to spend much time with each other. She was insecure of losing her son to her DIL. The CV's are just showing what is happening in the Indian society. As per the Indian concept, when a girl marries, she not only marries the guy but also his entire family.
Gopi's maaji maaji and Ahem's yes mom ji mom, haan mom is all over-acting and these are the unwanted mirch masala. That is very much unrealistic.
Gopi has made a lot of mistakes & so did Ahem. However, Gopi accepts her mistakes but Ahem never accepts his.
Kokila is the root cause for all these things. I still say that Gopi has done a lot of foolish things. In the previous leap Gopi left the family for 8 years and now she went to jail for 10 years, cutting the family contacts. The second part i.e cutting the family contacts had annoyed Ahem further. What Gopi did can never be justified and I am not trying to either.
However, even Ahem's behavior also cannot be justified. He is upset with Gopi for taking such a drastic step but he chose to run away rather than facing the situation.
I have always said that all three of them i.e Kokila, Gopi and Ahem are at fault and are equally responsible. I cannot fully support any one of them.
I apologize to you if I have ranted out.
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