horrible conniving manipulating sorry excuse of a woman

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

More than Ahem, I feel bad for Gopi. I didn't like the way she was being used. I also wonder will Gopi ever be able to understand why Kokila chose her for Ahem?

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Gopi has no spine where Kokila is concerned. (At least she is showing some backbone where Ahem is concerned after all these years.)

Gopi considers Kokila more as a mother than MIL. She has always been devoted to her no matter what. She became close to her MIL as Ahem did not give her any regards, especially when they were newly married. Yes, when she shows backbone to Ahem, some people say that she is arrogant. When she was crying and begging for forgiveness, that time people were calling her stupid. But, I like the new Gopi who is facing Ahem with confidence.

Gopi had no choice. She was in the worst state when she got married to Ahem. Just think a fraud like Urmila who pretends to be paagal and keeps beating Kokila for the past ten years. Gopi was with Urmila from when she was kid.

Gopi happily accepted when Kokila selected her as a DIL. Kokila never really told her the reason as to why she selected her as a DIL. But yes, she could improve only after marriage.

That being so she got married to a rich guy. What did she know about manipulation and other reasons? At least somebody likes her in MB like Hetal and Baa and Paraag bhai. Who was there in Chawl for her? Even her mamaji could not do anything. Nobody sent her to school.
On one hand, Ahem was treating her like a dirt and even Kokila was rude to her at the initial stages. Rashi and Kinjal was creating problems between Ahem & Gopi. Before marriage, she was facing only Rashi and Urmila but after marriage she had to face 5 of them which includes Urmila. Though Hetal, Baa, Chirag and Parag loves her, they could not do that much. Kokila was listening them & that is the only consolation.

Agreed she suffered but she married decently even if for the wrong reasons. It gave her a chance to study and improve herself.
Agree with you on this part.

Kokila but for the one time when Gopi got sent off from MB for washing the laptop Kokila has always supported her . What has Gopi's mom ever done to her? Even when Gopi got thrown out she went somewhere. Never went for help to her own mother or papa.
Kokila never wanted to send her. But Ahem was angry as angry as he is now. At that time Ahem threatened Kokila that he will leave the house & even now he is doing the same thing. However, the circumstances are different. In Meera's drowning incident, nobody told her to go. She left on her own. That was her stupidity. I saw this video at least 3 times.

Gopi has to thank her stars at least Kokila is there for her. Manipulation or not. In fact Kokila's manipulation of Ahem is what got her her life. her married life.

In way, yes. Actually, now she is better off without Ahem.

She need not have killed Radha. That is what I feel. But then Gopi is an emotional fool who hurts herself for the sake of others. She does not stop to think about her husband and children.
There was no need for Gopi to kill Radha & that cannot be justified & I am not trying to do so. But Ahem could have stopped this. Ahem himself strangled Radha & suffocated her but Gopi physically stopped him. So when Gopi had taken such a step, was it not Ahem's duty to stop her? However, she did have them in her mind. Radha at any point of time could and would have attacked her daughters. So in a way she also did that for her immediate family as well. Even if there is a spark at one place, it can become a fire & spread everywhere. Such was the circumstances in Radha re-entry track. Ahem should have worked with Gopi to kick Radha, keeping these things in mind. He just cannot think of anything beyond himself.

Kokila for her part has been fairthful to Gopi all these ten years. Ahem is angry for the manipulation. But Gopi has nothing to do with it. And cannot help it if Kokila does the manipulation.
Gopi is no way responsible for this manipulation. Good or bad, she has always respected elders.

I hope for Gopi's sake Ahem gets manipulated by Kokila and gets back to Gopi.

In fact manipulation or not Ahem has feelings for Gopi. He hated her and bad mouthed her to the kids. But never married in spite of Maansi's efforts.

Ahem does love Gopi. He has never loved Mansi in these 10 years nor does he love her now. He only doing it to prove his words right and satisfy his ego.