Ahem's venting and Gopi's yogyata... - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sandy914

Munni well said, this is for you 🤗

just reflect my feelings.. yes.. he dis said about gopi, but what made him to say that, how happy he was while going to party, can't she recognize it.. just because of miscommunication, the psycho mental anitha took full advantage..

when she was saying Gopi is not perfect for ahem, i can see hurt in eyes clearly, he just kept himself quiet bcoz he was feeling guilty, and ahem is not a person to share his feelings so easily, he took out his anger, ya ppl excepting him to blast anitha and wanted him to tell that he loves gopi, that happens only when psycho evil play come out.. he hurdly gave attention to anitha, at the end anithat was expecting hug from ahem to comfort her.. but ahem barely cares her, his mind is filled with gopi only

I am again saying, We can only take our anger on our loved ones, not others..

ya true.. gopi is too navie to understand things and responsibilty of wife and rights, and this track will bring those things.. koki - rashi are awsome in their play

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Maddy.. Gopi is Ahem's top priority now.. She has been for quite some time.. He does have his mother at the top but he knows when to let go and when not to..

See, I understand where Gopi comes from.. She is not used to parties, she loves Koki, she always worries for others.. Yes.. Understood. I think Ahem understands too.

But she went overboard today..

Remember, Ahem's nature is to become angry first like Gopi's nature is to cry. He shot off the things that came to mind in his frustration. He talks only when he is angry and he becomes shy after that. We have seen it a lot of times. His anger makes him unique, it has its advantages and disadvantages. Today would have been an advantage if Anitha was not there.

For the first time, Ahem made his expectations clear. He wants Gopi to be with him, only him and forget others for that time. Maybe in his anger he stepped out of line but anger is in itself when your emotions are not under control, so accusing him is rather not done. His words may have been wrong but his intention was not. He was trying to convey his needs the only way he knew how..

If Anitha was not there, this would have opened the doors for an open communication. Gopi would have come back and explained while Ahem would have bent backwards to make it up for his anger. But the scene changed due to Anita..

I guess Maddy, in a marriage, you do not solve things by curbing emotions. Sometimes it is an outlet. Like Gopi we can take his outburst as his declaration of doing his duty in the marriage and not being in love. On the other hand, we can also look at it as his declaration and desire to be a typical husband and wanting his mother's DIL to be his wife..

Ahem and Gopi were in character today. He was typical with his anger and Gopi was typical with her worry and lack of confidence.. But that they will now work on their flaws is what is heartening.

Originally posted by: Saathfan

Actually for first time I felt Ahmed anger on gopi was justified. He went a little too far in his anger and he realized that and came out of the room looking for her. Gopi after her talk with kanhaji realized that he was justified in his anger started going up to probably make him understand that she did want to go out with him. Unfortunately for both Anita stepped in and they missed out on a romantic make up session. So both behaved like a normal husband wife but delusion B manipulated the fight.

The delusional B asked ahem if she is a bad person, why she does not deserve to find love. Once he knows the truth he should tell her that yes she is a bad person. Yes, maybe due to your own karma you don't deserve to find love.

I hope things start turning around by Friday and they kick her out of mm as someone said when the last over of ipl is being bowled.

Originally posted by: Aish3003

Ahem and Gopi both are at fault...

We can't always let Ahem get away with everything.

Gopi was an idiot at the party.

Ahem's anger was justified... But he got carried away in that anger.. Said something that is much worse than it sounds...Gopi has been dealing with Anita's interference already... She is not showing it but it is obvious. He should not have made that comparison

They both were wrong in their places... The problem again is that the Gohem relation is so public that anyone can easily come and play with it... Anita being the witch she is... Took full advantage of it.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

aish ,,,..

what i have seen today is

Ahem, like a typical husband put forward his frustration by yelling at her... his insecurities came to the fore...

he was like a kid who is pissed off with his mom ..while his mom is giving attention to some other kid...so Ahem needs complete and undivided attention from her as long as she is around him

and gopi she needs to prioritize her relation with her husband when compared to the rest of the family members...

both need to talk..but the other girl is making this worse which will eventually be for the best😊

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Munni will add after watching the episode.. Fantastic analysis 👏

Originally posted by: Sandy914

well maddy!! ok.. will accept that ahem used to take his anger on gopi, also thnks she can't a single word.. but that is long ago story.. they travelled lot from that stage.. they were more like normal husband and wife, talking to family problem ,olving them, ahem is supporting gopi what ever step she has taken..
Gopi very well knows ahem is not going to scold her without any reason, and do u really say gopi can't say anything?

Ok. after SD, ahem shouted at her.. what ever the reason behind her, Gopi didn't speak to ahem, but ahem only thought that because he shouted at her she is not talking to him, so pleased her and said sorry to her.,.(so gopi no longer scared of ahem)
Ahem's priority.. i can't say anything.. here Koki and Gopi are like two eyes, Ahem also fought with his mom for the sake of gopi.. right from education track, he is with her, even when it was accident time, he took punishment but didn't leave her, even recently in anitha's matter when koki scolding gopi, he supported gopi..

Hmmm.. suppose me and my husband went some where, say, we hardly get time to spend alone, in that situation if my husband thinking about small things and doesn't care i would not shout, may be will create a small size cyclone..