Ahem's venting and Gopi's yogyata...

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Sandy914

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Munni well said, this is for you 🤗

just reflect my feelings.. yes.. he dis said about gopi, but what made him to say that, how happy he was while going to party, can't she recognize it.. just because of miscommunication, the psycho mental anitha took full advantage..

when she was saying Gopi is not perfect for ahem, i can see hurt in eyes clearly, he just kept himself quiet bcoz he was feeling guilty, and ahem is not a person to share his feelings so easily, he took out his anger, ya ppl excepting him to blast anitha and wanted him to tell that he loves gopi, that happens only when psycho evil play come out.. he hurdly gave attention to anitha, at the end anithat was expecting hug from ahem to comfort her.. but ahem barely cares her, his mind is filled with gopi only

I am again saying, We can only take our anger on our loved ones, not others..

ya true.. gopi is too navie to understand things and responsibilty of wife and rights, and this track will bring those things.. koki - rashi are awsome in their play

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Saathfan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Actually for first time I felt Ahmed anger on gopi was justified. He went a little too far in his anger and he realized that and came out of the room looking for her. Gopi after her talk with kanhaji realized that he was justified in his anger started going up to probably make him understand that she did want to go out with him. Unfortunately for both Anita stepped in and they missed out on a romantic make up session. So both behaved like a normal husband wife but delusion B manipulated the fight.

The delusional B asked ahem if she is a bad person, why she does not deserve to find love. Once he knows the truth he should tell her that yes she is a bad person. Yes, maybe due to your own karma you don't deserve to find love.

I hope things start turning around by Friday and they kick her out of mm as someone said when the last over of ipl is being bowled.

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Sandy914

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: varshu27
munni agree what gopi did at the party was wrong...ahem was looking forward to the party and spending time with her...but gopi irritated him at the party...but the fact remains gopi is not used to these social events...ahem should have known that and reassured her and been her support...well they did end up coming back home...i agree ahem had every right to be angry with gopis behaviour...but when he compared gopi and anitha ...it was out of line big time...anitha is not just another woman...she is the ex whom he wantd to marry...he made it cear to gopi in the begining that he will only ever love anitha...so then to compare them is just hurtful...my point of view...the biggest problem with gohem is they dont talk about these things...

Varsh agree with you.. he should have given strength her, but she should tell him that right, at home she said i want to meet his frnds, what does it mean if she is sitting alone at aprty.. instead of that she should voice her fears..

ok..now @bold... i don't think she is not used for social events, every month @mm they have party,puja, community event, society functions or competitions.. so i am sure she well aware of the parties and functions..

ya main problem is communication gap

Edited by Sandy914 - 13 years ago

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Xarina
Few words Munni. You have it spot on. By concerning herself with her mother in laws health and that of a third party, who should really be of no concern to her, she neglected the most important person in this relationship-Ahem. His anger was justified but at the same time should realise that he cannot just ask her to mingle with his friends. That is like asking a dog to miaow. It is against their nature and what he expected of Gopi today went against hers. This is something she should have introduced her to slowly.

Xarina... do you really think that he was frustrated for her not being able to mingle with his friends... i don't think so,.. it was her constant worry for the rest of the family even when she is with him.. which triggered his blast off

she was physically there with him ...but her mind was at home worried for her family.. this is what triggered him to blow... whatever little time she spends with him.. he wanted her to be present with him..

he was excited and happy to introduce her to his friend deepak...remember he is the same Ahem who did not want to introduce his wife to anyone... the same person when he wanted to take her slowly into his world by slowly introducing his friends she is lost in her MIL's thoughts... 😕

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: gohem_ka
Completely agree.
Mentioning Baa's advice is perfect.

One more thing I like to add:
Ahem even after knowing that Gopi has gone out of the room, came back searching her.
Gopi didn't know how to say that she likes to go out with Ahem.
After asking her Kanhaji, she decided to go back to her room to clarify it with Ahem. But Anita made such a plan which had a perfect timing. Gopi couldn't able to take the pain of what she heard and just went back.
Ahem who is sandwiched between anger and guilt left the room too. It is clearly shown that Anita didn't let Ahem finish his sentence while answering. She cut him when he said "But " and emotionally tortured him.

Ahem's not at fault and Gopi is.
And Crime is actually made by Anita.

thanks Kavya...

Ahem is not at fault today...

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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Sandy914

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Xarina... do you really think that he was frustrated for her not being able to mingle with his friends... i don't think so,.. it was her constant worry for the rest of the family even when she is with him.. which triggered his blast off

she was physically there with him ...but her mind was at home worried for her family.. this is what triggered him to blow... whatever little time she spends with him.. he wanted her to be present with him..

he was excited and happy to introduce her to his friend deepak...remember he is the same Ahem who did not want to introduce his wife to anyone... the same person when he wanted to take her slowly into his world by slowly introducing his friends she is lost in her MIL's thoughts... 😕

yeah very true.. it is not matter that she mingled with his frnds or not.. it matter of spending time with ahem. he did mention"if i am not saying anything that doesn't mean u tae advantage", so he had already concern that she is leaving him behind for others..

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: _naksh_raz
Well said..
R

thank you😊

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Aish3003

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Ahem and Gopi both are at fault...

We can't always let Ahem get away with everything.

Gopi was an idiot at the party.

Ahem's anger was justified... But he got carried away in that anger.. Said something that is much worse than it sounds...Gopi has been dealing with Anita's interference already... She is not showing it but it is obvious. He should not have made that comparison

They both were wrong in their places... The problem again is that the Gohem relation is so public that anyone can easily come and play with it... Anita being the witch she is... Took full advantage of it.

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Sandy914

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: maddy311
Well munni I can understand your points about gopi but don't know why this post of yours looks very biased towards ahem. You always include both sides of coin, then why not today?
I mean according to you ahem is not at fault at all, he is absolutely clean in this matter and all the problem is due to gopi and her caring nature towards her family?
If this is the case then I am extremely sorry but I don't agree

Maddy, it is my POV.. i feel this post is not biased.. Ahem behaved just like normal husband., he took out his anger which from long time may be to say from his b'day, she didn't anything special for his b'day he was disappointed but didn't say anything. and for party initially he was told that she is not coming, not intrested.. but some how she went, he was really happy, but that happiness wentt in vain.. it is just husband and wife fight.. but the evil psycho took advantage of it

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: doc4ever
Hats off Munni...👏 You have hit on the nail on the head! ⭐️
Ahem behaved like a husband today trying to put some sense in his dear wife's head...today was the start of him telling her how feels...
Her behaviour today was not something unexpected as she was hesitating to go to the party but at the end she decided to go to put that woman in her place...👍🏼
Her hesitation ended making her fearful and she should have confided in Ahem about it...after all they are best friends too in this marriage are they not...

Will give her credit for going back and trying to justify her behaviour to Ahem...but unfortunately, that was not permitted to happen as Anita had stumped Ahem and created a wall leaving a husband and wife in two different places...

thank you kshama...😛

well said at bold...

but by the time she decided to confide in him ...something else went wrong due to the other girl ... kshama...don't worry it will be a learning experience for both of them

and that they both need to ... attend the course of communication 101 in a community college😉

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago