Is What We Are Doing Right? - Page 2

Originally posted by: CHIKA784

In a way,what you are saying is correct,Kokila is a wonderful mother, a wonderful role-model,she is amazing and i love Goki's relationship,it is so unique and different❤️

However,when Ahem first went against Kokila's wishes,when he decided that he was going to educate Gopi,Kokila should have atleast realsed or tried to take an advantage of the situation of trying to make Gohem become closer and Ahem deciding to get closer and get to know the real sweet and naive Gopi.

Now that Kokila is having a problem with Gohem's closeness,its going to affect all the relationships she loves whether she likes it or not,its going to affect Goki's relationshp,Kokila-Ahem's relationship and it has to!,Kokila needs to understand there needs to be something Gohem can share with each other,she does not need to know everything that is going on between them,they need some of their own privacy!👍🏼

Although i do understand what your saying..😊

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P.S great post!😃

yeah i have got another point too..

remember at the start..

koki trying to dominate gopi in the start to show that she controls her son..

i think koki got used to dominate both the persons..her son nad her DIl

and all of a sudden both are started rebelling against her and starts to hide things from her.

but koki should understand that they cant share everything whats happining in their life..they are a married couple.

i think koki got used to get to know everything in life that she is not getting adjusted to their new lifestyle.

Let it be that she is curious of the secret...but hellow so what if they are maintaining a secret...

she trusts her son a lot..and cant she think that if he is involved then it must be something good, and not any rashi kalakari.

the way she said to them that why are they standing here leaving the movie..infact she shoudl be happy that both are intrested in spending time with each other than seeing a dumb movie.

and also what i dint get is..whats the big deal in sending them to sit with the family...

Seriously i need explanatipn for that ..i mean who wil ask a young couple to go and sit beside family leaving their privacy.

Even baa had the sense that young couple deserves some privacy then why did koki dint caught that.

Is curious about their secret makes her make them sit with the family..what is the logic in that.

she should be glad that they are happy sitting sepeartely..and also the way she dropped btween raji...

She too knows that they are going in a rough patch...even hetal was worried for raji..even though she was angry at rashi too..because sshe knew that those are the two who should spend their lives together.

cant koki give her a chance to sit with jigar, and make their misunderstandings clear.

it may show that koki is curious about sceret..and i agree that she may be curious..but even curious behaviour do not justify some acts of her.

This is my POV...

i just dont want cvs to ruin koki character...she is a great actresss...and she looks good in a non partial way..

she should learn that she already did a damage to ahem life..no need to add more

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Agree. We are assuming she is insecure. But maybe she is feeling something totally different. It will take at least the next week to see how the CVs develop this tale.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I am all for what you say and today Kokila proved once again that she has the best interest of Gopi in her heart. She let Gopi tell her what she has been hiding and to Gopi's credit she said truthfully that there is something going on.. Rashi 😡 had to butt in the right time..

I am getting excited after today. I am pretty sure Koki will not turn grey. She is just looking out for her DIL and son. And regarding the Kite competition, it is to be expected. Kokila is highly competitive and she hates losing..

After today, I am sure Kokila is not against Gopi and Ahem's closeness rather she is worried the two are hiding something that concerns Rashi. (She sees Gopi with Rashi all the time now). She is smart to see 1 +1 =2.. Lets see how this pans out before we start completely blasting Koki.

Originally posted by: -Predator-

I loved your answer! You see Kokila has this feeling that someone is mistreating Gopi and Ahem is aware about it. The way she asked Rashi if this was the perfect way to speak to Gopi? (When Rashi came to ask for the charger)

This clearly indicates Kokila is rather WORRIED about her son and daughter-in-law.

Originally posted by: shaina.sharma

i am sorry to differ with u but let me state the reasons why i dont think koki is right.

I agree that she supported gopi and stood like a mother to her.

But everyone have to accept that a wife only gets respect when her husband stays with her.

its not how much ur MIL loves u..its how much ur hubby does.

We saw koki attempts to gohem closer, but all her efforts were not fully planned.

Like even those times she dint made any particular effort to bring goehm together.

Ahem objects to take gopi on a ride..if she really wants it..then like she is being strict now she could tell ahem strictly to take gopi with him as they need to enjoy...but no...she went away leaving gopi aside...

cant she get that even she wont say anything..how bad she may feel seeing her hubby leaving her alone.

and second when koki tells ahem to take gopi to her room, he said he need presentation to do and koki agreed.

I mean dint he prepared presentations in the house staying in a same room before so what differs now. Gopi is not a chatter box like rashi...she knows her limits...but koki dint force him either.

I agree that she is a non partial lady..a very good virtue with her.i love that...but at the same time she should understand her children too.

The most thing i hate that..is she dint let ahem enjoy his life at all..i mean look at the way he is playing ludo...and the way gopi did.

ahem was playing like he was really playing the first time and enjoying like a child and gopi was playing like a time pass..it shows that he lost all the little comforts of the childhood which never comes back in life.

the way parag said that he wanted to see cinema and she forced him to sit and read..i mean does one movie would kill him..he is just a child...he deserves little happiness along with other too.

just imagine ahem position...just imagine him seeing jigar getting taken to cinema and buys toys and he have to sit and read...

i agree that he is at the top position but come on..does all the sacrifices deserve to come to this status.

he is a briilliant student then he would automatically shine...

No matter how many may say but i am sorry for this particualar reason i would never forgive kokila..because i know veyr well how a child feels when he is constantly burdend with studies.