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Sonia

@Bobbi.

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Yes, I'm asking. Is it correct?

Kokila has stood beside Gopi during the worst of her times. When Ahem was not ready to accept her as his wife, Kokila stood by her Gopi Vau and did everything for her. Even when Ahem disowned Gopi, Kokila didn't take his side and went for Gopi's side. Ahem too felt bad about this suddenly changed attitude of his mom. Same with Kokila. She's still feeling bad and shocked at Ahem's changed behavior.

Even while Rashi was being a problem for Gopi at the MM, Kokila supported Gopi and Gopi too loved Kokila back for giving her the motherly love which she had missed out as a child.

Now just because Ahem-Gopi love story is developing and Kokila is not comfortable seeing the duo together (since they were always so different with each other) we start re-considering her?

Hello folks, I'm still with Kokila. I don't think the character can turn grey, or become negative.

She is just not used to seeing Ahem being so friendly with anyone apart from herself. All her years since Ahem was born, (like she said in the ME), Kokila has been the only one who struggled for Ahem. And if it wasn't for her, then Ahem would not be where he is TODAY.

As a matter of fact, it's Kokila who chose the Gem (Gopi) for Ahem to get married to.

So just because Kokila is still unknown about the love story between Ahem-Gopi, doesn't mean we turn our backs on her! She's a mother, one who has been attached to her son like glue with paper. It will take Kokila some time to adjust. Every mother does.

Besides, we've already seen how much Kokila is against the whole lovey-dovey things. I'm sure there is some raaz with it.

Why she doesn't get along with Parag is also another angle to this part. And now I guess the Creatives want to make Kokila the centre of the show. Since all this while, it was her who did so much for Gohem; so now it's their turn to do something for their mom :)

I don't know if I made sense or not :P

*Only my POV no offence meant :)

Cheers!

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Good ...when everyone loses hope...at least there is someone who stands with belief...👏...may this belief never go wrong

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-JollyJabeen-

@-JollyJabeen-

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+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

In a way,what you are saying is correct,Kokila is a wonderful mother, a wonderful role-model,she is amazing and i love Goki's relationship,it is so unique and different❤️

However,when Ahem first went against Kokila's wishes,when he decided that he was going to educate Gopi,Kokila should have atleast realsed or tried to take an advantage of the situation of trying to make Gohem become closer and Ahem deciding to get closer and get to know the real sweet and naive Gopi.

Now that Kokila is having a problem with Gohem's closeness,its going to affect all the relationships she loves whether she likes it or not,its going to affect Goki's relationshp,Kokila-Ahem's relationship and it has to!,Kokila needs to understand there needs to be something Gohem can share with each other,she does not need to know everything that is going on between them,they need some of their own privacy!👍🏼

Although i do understand what your saying..😊

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P.S great post!😃

Edited by CHIKA784 - 13 years ago

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Hetal

@Hetp

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

Hey awesome analysis of kokila situation👍🏼

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

I am all for what you say and today Kokila proved once again that she has the best interest of Gopi in her heart. She let Gopi tell her what she has been hiding and to Gopi's credit she said truthfully that there is something going on.. Rashi 😡 had to butt in the right time..

I am getting excited after today. I am pretty sure Koki will not turn grey. She is just looking out for her DIL and son. And regarding the Kite competition, it is to be expected. Kokila is highly competitive and she hates losing..

After today, I am sure Kokila is not against Gopi and Ahem's closeness rather she is worried the two are hiding something that concerns Rashi. (She sees Gopi with Rashi all the time now). She is smart to see 1 +1 =2.. Lets see how this pans out before we start completely blasting Koki.

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varshu27

@varshu27

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

u have shown what is going on with koki...but koki is th one who says she knows her son best...so how is it that she doesnt see his attitude changing towars gopi...agreed most of gohem eyelocks and stuff happens in private...but still there were many moments where koki observed them getting closer...like when raashi got kicked out and gopi went to add ghee to the lamp...ahem helped her when she stumbled...koki saw that ...during navratri koki saw ahem applauding gopi...when ur son who previously could not stand to be near his wife and refused to even speak to her...is doing things on his own...shouldnt u wonder why that is...and do something about it..i get that koki is insecure...but she should know gopi will never ever come between the two...and she should trust her son enough to know that he will not deliberately hurt her...i absolutely love koki...but dont like the direction the cvs are taking with her character...

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Xarina

@Xarina

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 13 years ago

I think that we actually got carried away with the unfolding 'love' story between Ahem and Gopi that we are prepared to dis Koki's character and have not been willing to see that there is a bigger picture. You have put it into perspective.

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shaina

@shaina.sharma

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

i am sorry to differ with u but let me state the reasons why i dont think koki is right.

I agree that she supported gopi and stood like a mother to her.

But everyone have to accept that a wife only gets respect when her husband stays with her.

its not how much ur MIL loves u..its how much ur hubby does.

We saw koki attempts to gohem closer, but all her efforts were not fully planned.

Like even those times she dint made any particular effort to bring goehm together.

Ahem objects to take gopi on a ride..if she really wants it..then like she is being strict now she could tell ahem strictly to take gopi with him as they need to enjoy...but no...she went away leaving gopi aside...

cant she get that even she wont say anything..how bad she may feel seeing her hubby leaving her alone.

and second when koki tells ahem to take gopi to her room, he said he need presentation to do and koki agreed.

I mean dint he prepared presentations in the house staying in a same room before so what differs now. Gopi is not a chatter box like rashi...she knows her limits...but koki dint force him either.

I agree that she is a non partial lady..a very good virtue with her.i love that...but at the same time she should understand her children too.

The most thing i hate that..is she dint let ahem enjoy his life at all..i mean look at the way he is playing ludo...and the way gopi did.

ahem was playing like he was really playing the first time and enjoying like a child and gopi was playing like a time pass..it shows that he lost all the little comforts of the childhood which never comes back in life.

the way parag said that he wanted to see cinema and she forced him to sit and read..i mean does one movie would kill him..he is just a child...he deserves little happiness along with other too.

just imagine ahem position...just imagine him seeing jigar getting taken to cinema and buys toys and he have to sit and read...

i agree that he is at the top position but come on..does all the sacrifices deserve to come to this status.

he is a briilliant student then he would automatically shine...

No matter how many may say but i am sorry for this particualar reason i would never forgive kokila..because i know veyr well how a child feels when he is constantly burdend with studies.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Xarina
I think that we actually got carried away with the unfolding 'love' story between Ahem and Gopi that we are prepared to dis Koki's character and have not been willing to see that there is a bigger picture. You have put it into perspective.

Agree. We are assuming she is insecure. But maybe she is feeling something totally different. It will take at least the next week to see how the CVs develop this tale.

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CravingKhana

@CravingKhana

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: varshu27
u have shown what is going on with koki...but koki is th one who says she knows her son best...so how is it that she doesnt see his attitude changing towars gopi...agreed most of gohem eyelocks and stuff happens in private...but still there were many moments where koki observed them getting closer...like when raashi got kicked out and gopi went to add ghee to the lamp...ahem helped her when she stumbled...koki saw that ...during navratri koki saw ahem applauding gopi...when ur son who previously could not stand to be near his wife and refused to even speak to her...is doing things on his own...shouldnt u wonder why that is...and do something about it..i get that koki is insecure...but she should know gopi will never ever come between the two...and she should trust her son enough to know that he will not deliberately hurt her...i absolutely love koki...but dont like the direction the cvs are taking with her character...

@ bold but she was also bigining to understand may be she does not ...ie send Gopi with the flask on his jog and it backfired she voices her doubts iether to herself or Parag (dont remember)

Besides this reflects every parents dilema esp moms as they give their all and the child is so dependent and then suddenly the are adult...and this child who you helped walk has disided he preffers running after all...It is a journey where child pulls away adn mom lets go...a happy medium needs to be found some fail some succeed.

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