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ll-Shilpa-ll

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Sonia thanks so much. I love Koki and I am actually stumped by her behavior. But something is definitely not right, she has been like this since the day Gopi started walking and passed out in the kitchen. I really don't think she has problem with Gohem closeness but something is definitely bugging her.

Great post. I am going to wait and watch. All other time she has come around and I sure she won't disappoint us this time either.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

@Kristin.. Totally agree and I do not see Koki being worried about Ahem and Gopi's closeness at all. All the actions till today is leading me to believe that Koki is worried about being in the dark.

And I agree with Koki not knowing Ahem's love. That may be one of the reasons too. She just does not want anything to disturb the already sensitive relation between Ahem and Gopi.

I agree that we are reading too much into Ahem's childhood without games. But let us all remember, Ahem did play around the mango tree. He seems to be good at cricket and he flies kites well.. So he sure would have had some good fun times except maybe he would have had to excel in all of them too. But is that not what most parents strive to do today?

Make children excel in everything studies, sports, etc., How is Koki any different? Anyway it has made Ahem what he is today. A man who holds a part of a big company...

Koki does not show overt emotions but that does not mean she does not love people. She is concerned about the people she loves the most and her concern comes out as anger.

When we all have accepted that it is the same with Ahem, then Ahem is Koki's son. This is her trait too. She snaps at GoHem because she is concerned.

I am not ready to blame Koki. And I actually think that she is needed to keep these2 grounded. Ahem may not realize now but what if Chirag admonishes him one day because of the distraction (take for example the cancelled trip).. Ahem may resent Gopi for getting him into this issue in the first place.

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Jammona

@Jammona

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Personally I don't think Kokila is unhappy with Gohem relationship but rather angry that she has no control over it. She would want to be the one to dictate how much involve they should be. She wants them to inform her of every little step they take in their lives.

Remember what her mother told her when they returned from Switzerland. She told her to let Gopi take decisions on her own rather than tell her what to do all the time but Kokila refused and said if that happens then she might be like Rashi.

When gopi did not get a chance to tell her about her punishment in school she considered her to be a liar.

Kokila had many opportunities to bring Gohem together and did try a bit bit when her mum brought some home truths to her but after that she was back to being control.

If Gopi sufferred in the hands of her husband during her marriage it was due to Kokila. She knew how Ahem behaved with illiterates and yet still went against the warning of Heatl to tell her son but she refused. Am not excusing Ahem's behaviour.

Kokila being supportive of Gopi at that time may have been out of guilt for putting Gopi through hell.

Now things are going well for Gohem and Ahem trying to bridge the gap she is now playing villan amnd spoiling our Gohem romances.

I think she should observe and see how things would be or talk to Ahem about his changed character rather than pushing him to the edge of causing a riff between them

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--HANISA--

@--HANISA--

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

u r right shaina im also feel the same but sometime i feel that im saying may be bcs of gopi vows that she is doing this to not do any sine

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Jammona

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: gohem123
Great post but i disagree completely...sorry but koki is acting childish..always comes in between goham...our aham hasn't done anything so far romantic till date, but koki still kept annoyingly close watch over her son...why? aham is her son, a man who has physical emotions and who got an independent individuality...koki should respect this..i know koki is strict because parag was a failure in looking after family, but aham has come this far..how is koki thinking that aham will go crazy over his wife in just few months?koki is no child and she should know that husband wife need privacy and if they kept on getting disturbed at every other second, they will react..

i don't know whether the above made any sense st all, but koki is making me cry...

I agree with you but on the Parag issue, do we know why he did not take an active part in raising their children. I mean is being a poet worse than being a businessman. The fact that Parag wanted to be a poet than a businessman goes not mean that he did not provide for his family financially and the business in hand is a family one and whether he is active in it or not might stili have a share and that's the one handed to Ahem.

I think Kokila loves the luxeries and riches of the Modis and to think she was married to a poet did not fit well with her and that pushed her to put the burden on Ahem's tender shoulders for so long.

Another important note is that cvs do not show how successful Parag is with his field of work and if things had worked then I doubt Kokila would have minded.

Kinjal seems to have a better relationship with her dad than mum but all of Kokila's energy are spent on Ahem to run his father's share of the business.

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

I guess we will see the truth once the cvs decide to show it

Edited by Luv4games - 13 years ago

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: kamjal

I agree with you but on the Parag issue, do we know why he did not take an active part in raising their children. I mean is being a poet worse than being a businessman. The fact that Parag wanted to be a poet than a businessman goes not mean that he did not provide for his family financially and the business in hand is a family one and whether he is active in it or not might stili have a share and that's the one handed to Ahem.

I think Kokila loves the luxeries and riches of the Modis and to think she was married to a poet did not fit well with her and that pushed her to put the burden on Ahem's tender shoulders for so long.

Another important note is that cvs do not show how successful Parag is with his field of work and if things had worked then I doubt Kokila would have minded.

Kinjal seems to have a better relationship with her dad than mum but all of Kokila's energy are spent on Ahem to run his father's share of the business.

Good analysis

Edited by Luv4games - 13 years ago

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Sonia

@Bobbi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: d-luna88

😆 to be honest I couldn't be bothered to reply in all of the threads bashing my heroine. Knowing myself I sure would have written an essay (like I did now) on why they are all wrong. So deceided to only do it a little. Soon if the cv's are willing and not hell bend on pissing me off majorly they all will understand what Koki is really doing in the moment

Haha, your heroine. I like that!

And PS- I loved your analysis. 😃

Folks, you've all gotta understand.

But if not, then you all shall wait to watch to know the reason why Kokila was being like this.

Then we shall come back to this topic 😈

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Luv4games

@Luv4games

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Luv4games

If she wanted all the luxuries so badly then instead of discouraging her hubby she could have supported him dreams and worked with him and get success...
Edited by Luv4games - 13 years ago

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Sonia

@Bobbi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: sbp1971
Sonia thanks so much. I love Koki and I am actually stumped by her behavior. But something is definitely not right, she has been like this since the day Gopi started walking and passed out in the kitchen. I really don't think she has problem with Gohem closeness but something is definitely bugging her.

Great post. I am going to wait and watch. All other time she has come around and I sure she won't disappoint us this time either.

This is what I'm explaining all the people who have held flags against Kokila. Poor thing.

This "something" will soon unfold in the story and that's when everyone will understand.

Well we too, don't know what that 'something' is, but there is sure a 'something' involved :P