Originally posted by: chatbuster
haha... actually the entire question for me is about negative feedback in public. so the poor office performance appraisals still stand. sorry, no can over-turn it.😆
actually, good that we now find that the celeb's obligation is not towards the contestants. neither is shaan's. in my view, their obligations are more towards the show or the folks who got them there. if we accept that, then the comparison with shaan is more legitimate than the far-fetched laughter might imply, no? if shaan, who has so much music sense, does not find it necessary to offer criticisms in full All-India view, why shld the celeb judges? celebs hain, isliye?
as for brownie points, if we look around here, seems like PR got quite some. he's made a career out of playing that role, surely he knows the strings he is pulling, no? incidentally, as passive viewers, we sure love folks on candid camera, dont we? feel sorry for the contestants/ bakras though.
in any case, it's basic tenet with interpersonal/ communication skills that criticism if negative, shld be specific and narrow, not "acha nahee laga" generalizations. rubbish the office example all you want, but the underlying concepts are the same. in both cases, general negative stmts dont help.
nice also that we now realize that the reviewer/ critique and the celeb judge might have different obligations. that particular analogy does not work anymore, right? given this, MCD ka bull-dozer chalane ka order final karein, reviewer ke office peh?😆