@geetfan, lol don't worry sweetie about thinking that I would take any offense! I know that is a public forum and everyone is entitled to their own views and opinions. I actually do appreciate other peoples pov's as sometimes they make me look at things in different ways. Overall I think the world would be a pretty boring place if we all thought the same! So coming to a diverse opinionated forum like this is a lovely way to see why variety is the spice of life!
Flesh and blood - Sadanand cheated Indu's mom of her inheritance and Indu himself is not too fascinated by the mama/mami. He uses them just like they want to use him. So really there is no mutual love or respect between them... so going against them was no big sacrifice on Indu's part, he did not blink an eye, since he thought he was going to get Sanchi.
I agree Indu doesn't truly love his Saranand Mama but he knows that the most important person in his life Malti Devi does. Also true that if she found out how he had betrayed and tricked her into coming to live with them she would be furious. But still blood is blood for her, she forgo her past grudges to rush to her brother's side when she thought he was dying. The Tiwari sibs are cruel, cunning and shrewd individuals (with the expection of Sushil lol), but when push comes to shove, blood always wins out. For me Indu has inherited some of his mother's values, blood family means something to him, so it wasn't nothing to go behind their backs. Plus Indu hates sneaking around, if you saw those epis he was extremely frustrated by all the tricks and lies he had to use to get the papers. He just wanted to beat the truth out of his mama, as he couldn't take the stress of all the sneaking around lol.
And also Indu didn't do what he did to get Sanchi; he was going to get her no matter what at that point. He stole the papers for two reasons, one because he wanted Sanchi to marry him willingly with a smile on her face, and secondly and most importantly because he loved her. Guddo rightly pointed out to Indu, that even if Sanchi hadn't put the return of the papers as a condition for marriage, he still would have got them for her, as he loved so much. Sanchi knew both of these facts and that's why she knew her plan would work, because Indu would have moved heaven and earth to get her those papers.
This is exactly why she needs to stand up to Indu and make the world realize he is GOON and should be treated like one. Not sure how Sanchi backing off or not provoking him will help either her sister or her brother! In fact if she does not do something to prove to the world that she and Indu are at loggerheads her family will be subjected to more public ridicule.
Here I think you and I have to agree to disagree, as to date IMO, every time Sanchi has provoked Indu her family and friends have to suffer the consequences. Only after she publicly refused him did Indu go psycho and threaten to cut off Mahak's fingers. When she made him and Malti Devi look like fools, with the fake kundali and pundit, he snapped at her mother, and mocked her with the 24hr wedding. Then after she tricked him and sent him to jail, making him into a public spectacle, he finally went over the edge and went completely looney toons. Then he had poor Tarachnd beaten, and threatened to kill him if she didn't marry him. Since then he has never bothered or cared to be respectful to Tarachand, he is rude as hell, and it is disgusting.
Also finally after once again publicly wounding his male pride, mahak got caught in the crossfire and got slapped again by him. Plus both her parents had to suffer more humiliation.
I also don't understand why you think her family will be subjected to more ridicule if her and Indu are together. These recent epis show how much crap and nonsense her family have to listen to, as although she and Indu are married, they don't live together. The common knowledge that he married her and left her at her maayka's is fodder enough for the cheap people of the mohalla to constantly degrade the Mathurs. The so called fact that she has no problem spending the night with Indu but refuses to wear sindoor or mangulstra, has made her both a laughing stock, plus the subject of ire in her neighbourhood and uni campus. The further she distances herself from him and this marriage the more she and family are insulted and humiliated.
Indu the goon cares for the children',... why? and you think if she asks this he will realize and stop harassing her ?
I accede to your point I have no proof that Indu will care for Sanchi's sibs, but either can anyone prove that he wouldn't care for their wellbeing. There has only been one scene with them and him where he, excitedly asked them for their names then respectfully addressed them as 'ji'. After with his boys he said they were the 'sweetest children'.
But what I will say is that after the Veenaji fake suicide attempt, Indu actions spoke a thousand words. He was horrified and ashamed that due to him forcing this marriage, Veenaji tried to kill herself. Just think about it when he was wrongly accused of being the one behind the poster scandal, and was suspended he had to be dragged off the campus. Within mere hours he stormed back, and caused a ruckus not caring, and damning what the consequences of his actions would be. He could have been jailed for doing that but he didn't care, as he wasn't going to be punished for something he didn't do nor felt responsible for. And he stubbornly refused to leave the campus for days, until finally he forced the VC within two days, to let him back.
Even now with this current SR classroom scandal, he's pissed as hell that he is being punished and is once again flouting all rules and regulations, plus openly threatening the VC and dean. And he is doing this because he doesn't believe he is wrong and therefore he won't allow himself to be punished.
However contrast this behaviour to way he acted when the police came to arrest him for Veenaji's fake suicide attempt. There without a single word, head bowed down he went with the police. No struggle, no swearing, no defiance, he just allowed himself to be cuffed and quietly went and sat in the police van. He didn't even respond to Sanchi's dig at Malti Devi, about torturing mothers.
At the station he was withdrawn and all he wanted to know was if his 'family' member Veenaji was ok, and had recovered. He wasn't worried about being locked up behind bars for a long time, as he felt he deserved to be there. He thought he was in the wrong and therefore should suffer a great punishment. Indu felt guilty and ashamed and was full of self-hate for allowing his impulsive, aggressive actions; threaten the life of an innocent.
So again IMO if Sanchi's bro and sis were harmed due to his actions, he would genially feel ashamed and regret what he had done.
I object to the "conned and betrayed" part, and I am surprised more people are not offended that she was married at gunpoint, and the suppsoed consummation happened in a university turned bedroom. Both of which are crimes in the eyes of a justice system, forcing a marriage and commandeering public property
Again let's agree to disagree on this conned and betrayed part. I honestly believe he was, and I can't see it any other way. Sanchi and by extension her parents agreed to her marrying Indu happily if he got them the property papers. He said so himself that as a result that he felt this marriage was less of a marriage and more of a sauda. Indu fulfilled his end of the bargain that Sanchi herself made, but she then never lived up to her end. And to boot she had him then thrown into jail to rot, then made him a public laughing stock. She had no reason to be pissed at Indu over the property papers as he certainly never stole them from her! Yet she furiously demanded to Indu that all she wanted was her 'haq' from him. What she didn't acknowledge was the fact that she actually wanted him to do the legwork to reclaim her 'haq' from the actual guilty parties.
To be fair I actually do approve somewhat to the way she tricked and conned him again out of marrying her. The part I don't approve of is her sending him to jail on trumped up fake charges, after he did everything she asked him to. Your right yes Indu has committed several crimes and I don't agree nor support and most certainly condone any of those violent unlawful acts. But then why has Sanchi not pressed charges against him for doing so? Why haven't Mahak or Tarachand pressed charges against him for assault? In fact the only time they do have him arrested is the one time he is innocent of the crime he has been accused of!
And Sanchi's actions grate there as she wants to be a lawyer, yet she has no problems with having both herself and her family committing perjury in court. Perjury I might add is also a crime. And by scheming and lying to put Indu in jail, do you honestly think she is going to be a better lawyer than Saranand? She would be just as vile and awful as him.
Yes you have it right she needs to make him realize all this, but with a swift kick in the pants which she is doing. She does get hurt by this, but when things get tough like this, she needs to get tough herself and confront her problems head on.
I have no problems with Sanchi confronting her problems. My issue is that she repeatedly sets out to solve her problems whilst at the same time attempting to do it in the manner that will degrade and humiliate Indu the most. If I was Sanchi I would honestly be sick to death of all this crap and horror and just want out. I wouldn't be sitting around planning on how to satisfy my damn ego. I would want justice not revenge, and Sanchi doesn't seem to realise that there is a difference between the two. She is playing a dangerous tit for tat game, and she doesn't care how many of her morals and principles are being tossed out the window. She is stooping to playing dirty with all this mud-slinging yet she deludes herself into thinking that her hands are still pristine clean. IMO again these tactics are not working and her family and friends have to pay the price for her foolish actions. She needs to realise that some problems are best untangled rather than hacked to pieces. She needs to sit and carefully work out how to untangle Indu out of her life as opposed to blindly slashing away at him. As by doing so she is in serious danger of cutting her own hand off.
Once a goon always a goon, in this case "Cute goon"! He did not listen to her when she said she was not interested he won't listen to her if she gives him a lecture on all this. So in short I love her ways
Lol Indu does listen to Sanchi; he just still chooses to do what he wants! The only time he did listen and do want she wanted i.e. get the property papers he was rewarded by being thrown into jail!
I don't want Sanchi to lecture him, just state the facts as they are. Whatever the consequences it can't hurt her much to let him know the reality of their situation can it? I mean what has she got to lose? Absolutely nothing, but she does have everything to gain.
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