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I hate the CV's for showing Tarachand so helpless. Sanchi makes the blunders in her so called tit for tat and her parents suffer! What is wrong with this picture?

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

I hate the CV's for showing Tarachand so helpless. Sanchi makes the blunders in her so called tit for tat and her parents suffer! What is wrong with this picture?

Yeh ladki manmaani karti rehati hai! Kisiko nahi pata, kya karegi!

Hey, thanks for replying guys and i'm not replying to every one as i have nothing new to say to you all.

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

I hate the CV's for showing Tarachand so helpless. Sanchi makes the blunders in her so called tit for tat and her parents suffer! What is wrong with this picture?

Check out my post - I love this show and Sanchi
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3020079#58527281

Originally posted by: -Fragrance--

But we can not tolerate sanchi playing tricks , why because she is good, she can't do that.If we are ready to acceptshades of grey in black then why can't we accepts shades of grey in white. Indusingh is not black and sanchi is not white altogther.

Hear Hear Fragrance! I agree completely! finally someone thinking like I do! I go one step further, I think she does what she does because she has no choice! By tricking Indu into getting her the papers, she solved one issue for her parents. Indu's obsession for her is not a problem she can resolve easily, rather than being without a house and without peace, she chose with house and without peace. Indu is a constant hassle in her life anyway! Now if she had not given the interview, or if her mom had not opened her mouth, the story would not have progressed like this, That is where I had issues with the CVs, they could have done it differently and still brought it to this point! But I excuse them as long as they keep making Sanchi look smarter than Indu.

After all my feminist Bashan it is all about entertainment so whatever you do CVs do not stop AD providing his lopsided smiles... goon or not he is so cute!

Originally posted by: geetfan38

Hear Hear Fragrance! I agree completely! finally someone thinking like I do! I go one step further, I think she does what she does because she has no choice! By tricking Indu into getting her the papers, she solved one issue for her parents. Indu's obsession for her is not a problem she can resolve easily, rather than being without a house and without peace, she chose with house and without peace. Indu is a constant hassle in her life anyway! Now if she had not given the interview, or if her mom had not opened her mouth, the story would not have progressed like this, That is where I had issues with the CVs, they could have done it differently and still brought it to this point! But I excuse them as long as they keep making Sanchi look smarter than Indu.

After all my feminist Bashan it is all about entertainment so whatever you do CVs do not stop AD providing his lopsided smiles... goon or not he is so cute!

@ Fragrance

Great topic, but I have to agree with a lot of people hear that although we support Sanchi we don't support her actions. And to be honest I'm don't feel any need to explain why I find Sanchi's actions so dumb, cruel and selfish as everyone else has already noted it perfectly.

Personally If I was in Sanchi's position this very moment this is what I would do after crying my heart and soul out for the next 24hrs. I would find and confront Indu directly and lay bear the brutal harsh truth he is so fond of.

Sanchi should let him know that as of now the ball is in his court, he has won in getting her to accept the fact that the world sees them as married couple. Their names are indeed linked together and she and he are bond together in the eyes of the law, that she respects and he demeans so. Still that flimsy piece of paper and ink which is their marriage certificate has a power that even he can't deny as he uses it against her so often.
But if he can use their marriage and linking of names against her she too can also turn the tables on him. He says he will never bring her to him, but if she turned up at his parents' house with a copy of their marriage certificate and wedding photos would they really refuse her entry? Doesn't she then have a legal right to enter his house and lay claim to half his property? Doesn't she have the right then to declare herself as the bahu of the powerful Lackan Singh? How can Indu prevent her from doing that, as it is he himself who has declared that this marriage has been fully solemnised, legalised, and now consummated.
He can't deny her rights to take his name and use it as she wishes, as he himself publicly gave her that name. She could then so easily tar his name by hitting all the bars and nightclubs in town and making right public spectacle of herself. Stumbling around drunk and half-naked whilst making sure the press capture her doing so, would shame Indu to the bone. Especially if she then sent the bill for her extracurricular activities to him demanding that as her legally wed hubby he had no choice but to pay it. How can Indu ever recover from this behaviour of his wife's?
But Sanchi should then let him now she won't do any such thing as firstly she has more respect for herself, but also she has to think about all the other people Indu has dragged into their marriage. She has her parents to think of plus her siblings, and also Indu's family too. As whether she or he likes it, her behaviour has entwined with their self-respect she degrades herself and they too will be affected.

Sanchi knows Indu is for justice, his version of justice is twisted yes, but he supports it. He told her long ago that if Saranand had cheated her family he would help her in gaining her justice. He went against his own flesh and blood in support of the truth.
Now Indu believes that he is justified in making her had her parents suffer for betraying him. Sanchi needs to point out that she has two kid siblings who have never harmed him but are too now as a result of his actions going to suffer. How many ristas are going to come for her kid sister if Indu continues to treat Sanchi like dirt, and refuses to either accept her nor let free. What boy/family would willingly tie their name to such a family as the Mathurs now? Also how many kids are going to bully her younger bro and mock both Sanchi and Indus antics to him? What if he is beaten up by a rival gang in an attempt to hurt Indu?
Sanchi needs to ask Indu if he can really live with ruining the life of two innocent children to satisfy his ego. Where does his particular brand of justice fit in there?
Also yes he may be angry at her parents but for what supporting their daughter? Yes Indu is right they conned and betrayed him, but that was because they followed their daughter's request. Doesn't his own beloved mother bow down to his every demand and whim?

Finally Sanchi needs to let him know that she doesn't care what people say about the SR. After all what has happened? She apparently celebrated her SR with her lawfully wed hubby, and isn't that what married couples do? She hasn't been caught 'celebrating' with some random man who has no tie nor relation to her has she?

If Indu wants the world to think that they are happily married than she is more than happy to do so also. As does he honestly believe that she's bothered if he doesn't want her with him?! Does she care that he won't ever be intimate with her?! Does she care that he hates her?!
No because she hates him. And Indu might hate her now, but he once loved her, and his dream was marriage to her and living happily ever after.
But he himself is condemning that dream into a nightmare. He says that she will cry for the rest of her life, but his tears won't be any less either. He has married a woman who despises him, who instead of praying for his wellbeing will curse his every breath. He will never receive her love only her hate.

Sanchi can rightfully point out she can live with this burden of a sham marriage, but it is he the brutally honest Indu Singh, who will struggle to live a lie. And how long can he live it? At some point his family will protest against this sham, and force him to either leave Sanchi or accept her.
So all she has to do is bide her time. As at some point Indu will have to come to her, or free her from this farce.

And either way she wins the war. As if Indu lets her go she has finally rid herself of him, and she can easily prove with medical checkups that she was living a sham marriage. She can then pick herself up and move on. Or if he decide to accept her and give her full rights, then she has made him go back on his solemn word. Plus she will at least have the right to say that she never came to him, in the end he once again came to her. She could live without him, but he couldn't live without her.

Sanchi needs to let him know, all of this instead of provoking and agonising him. As I personally believe once faced with the truth of his actions, and their repercussions, Indu will have no choice but to make the decision of either accepting Sanchi or letting her go.

Suki awesome post! 👏

suki once again lovely yaar.. love your posts...