SANCHI DOESNT CARE THAT HE WILL MOVE HEAVEN AND EARTH! She does not want to marry period! She has goals in her life and he is coming in her way. She is free to study with or without his help or permission. Why does he have the right to control her whether it is for love or anything else?
Umm I think Sanchi did care as she was depending on that fact to get her property papers back! And I really think we have our wires crossed here, as I have never ever at any point said that Indu had any right to dictate Sanchi's life! I've always maintained that even though he loved her she should never in anyway been obligated to return those feelings. I'm not stupid and I know that she couldn't automatically fall in love with Indu just because he wanted her too! And where have I or anyone else for that matter ever even suggested that she should not have been free to study as she chose, marry as she chose or love as she chose?!
Love is not a like a light switch that you can turn on and off at any random time! And the idiot Indu never realised that, or more likely didn't care, as he wanted what he wanted and to hell with anyone else's desires. But at the same time Sanchi when she knew that Indu was in love with her should have realised just by yelling and ranting at him to stop caring and loving her, he wouldn't be able to. Just as she couldn't 'switch on' in love it was no less difficult for him to 'switch off' being in love with her. But again like Indu Sanchi didn't really care about his feelings or emotions, until she had to use them to further her own family's needs. And to be fair to her he was no one important in her life that she should have to bother about his personal feelings.
OUCH!! Here is where we REALLY DISAGREE! Being married to a goon is a bigger insult in my book than fighting him and being separated from him. I don't care how rich and good looking he is. a goon is a goon unless he changes himself! She cares for the concept of mangalsutra and sindoor that's why she does not want anyone and everyone putting it on her! She did not willingly spend the night with him, he kidnapped her! His only redeeming quality is that he did not force himself on her. He wants the world to know they spent the night together not her.
Look I agree with you about being married to a goon, but try explaining that to Sanchi's mohalla. For them she entered into a sacred relationship and is now mocking it. Again no one has said Indu that by kidnapping Sanchi twice, firstly to force her into marriage and secondly to lock her in a room with him all night, is right or justified in any manner or form. But the fact is that the whole world now believes that Sanchi did spend the night with Indu being intimate but still deliberately chooses to act and dress as single woman. This is only adding more fuel to their fiery insults. The world can be harsh cruel and unfair, and that is what Indu pointed out to Sanchi on their mock SR.
People will talk filth and rubbish about her as long as she continues to behave in this manner and stay away from. Hell even if she does expose him and the mock SR they will still spew their crap, due to their narrow minds. This is the same society that condemns a women for divorcing their abusive, philandering husbands!
However if Sanchi continues to rise above their insults, and holds her head, then I say more power to her!
WHATEVER - he was in love then let's see what he will do NOW!
We shall see now! Even after he knew Veenaji was part of the whole fake pundit ploy, and that she must have been laughing at him behind his back he, still felt horrified and ashamed at the fact that he was responsible for her suicide attempt.
I will say that if they show Indu mistreating those kids then is no chance in hell, of me ever wanting the CVS to attempt to redeem his character. I will hate him with a passion, and will switch off from RJN, as I only watch it for AD and his portrayal of Indu.
YUP all the actions a typically SPOILED BRAT would do, but in this case he was innocent so he was justified!
Yes Indu is a spoilt brat; he's also selfish and egotistical. Plus he has a violent streak in him. Yet he is also fearless, loyal, passionate and more often than not brutally honest.
WHAT HE BELIEVES IS NOT THE QUESTION HERE! WHAT ARE SANCHI's RIGHTS and why are they trampled and forgotten because this BRAT wants his way?
Again where has anyone said that Sanchi's rights should be ignored because Indu should get his way?! The only thing you can accuse me of is saying that the sometimes the way Sanchi goes about getting her rights is at best dubious, and at worst plain vindictive and cruel.
But by me saying Sanchi is wrong at times please don't ever think that I am giving Indu a get out of jail free card! I've always maintained that to date all of Indu's crimes and wrong doings far outweigh Sanchi's. But I won't apologise for pointing out when and where I believe either of them are wrong. As in my book two wrongs never make a right!
Also when it comes to a person like Indu, all that matters to him is his own opinion. He is wrong for doing so we all know that, but there you go it's another harsh fact of life. Hopefully at some point the CVs will redeem Indu to the extent that he at least realises why his thinking like that is so wrong!
REDEEMING QUALITY I AGREE, SO YA THERE IS HOPE, EVEN FOR HIM THE CVs need to be consistent here, when he got sushil out of jail earlier why did he not get himself out of jail
I think they didn't show Indu using his 'paunch' to get out of jail as initially he thought he deserved to be jail, and then later he wanted to humiliate Sanchi by tricking her with that letter switch, into getting him released.
SADANAND and INDU are related and as you said blood is thicker than water! So as far as iSanchi is concerned One stole her house and the other stole her freedom. Both are guilty each of different crime, using one to fix the other - in my book is speaking thier language - the only one they understand!
I have no issues whatsoever with her using Indu's aide to get back at Saru. My problem is that Indu was willing to help her out as he too wanted justice for her and her family. Yet even though she knew he thought this way, she still rewarded him by sending him to jail. If she had just waited to see how he was the day after they never married, she would have noted his genuine remorse, and saw no need to send him to jail. You will probably disagree with me, but I think the threat that someone might die if he married Sanchi was enough to make Indu back off for good. Yet Sanchi want crazy in her bloodlust for revenge and stupidly had him locked up. Was she mad enough to think he was going to stay locked up?! Indu has significant influence amongst the police force, and sooner rather than later he would have been released.
DUMBASSES - Tarachand and Mahek that's why - she has sense and spunk! In fact if they had all done that she would have support and perhaps would not have to be the lone fighter here! everyone else accepts their fate and whines about it, she does something!
Then why didn't Sanchi file a FIR against Indu for forcing her to marry him?! Instead she chooses to ignore that fact she is legally married. Does she think that just because she declares that she is not married that, suddenly her marriage will be deemed null and void?! She needs to file for a divorce or annulment, but for God only knows what reason she refuses too!
Where did she commit perjury? he harassed her she got him arrested for that! How come her freedom is not important to you? why do you think he has a right to marry her?
What do you calling getting up in court and lying through your teeth?! That is perjury! Indu was arrested and put on trial for apparently forcing Veenaji to commit suicide, not for harassing Sanchi! Yet Sanchi and her parents knew that the whole suicide claim was nothing but a pack of lies, but still the wannabe lawyer chose to let Indu go jail for a crime he didn't commit.
And once again I seriously don't know nor understand where you think I have in anyway even suggested that both Sanchi's right to marry as she chooses and her freedom is not important! Can you please for my piece of mind point out where I have said that?! Just because I don't agree with Sanchi having him arrested on false charges doesn't mean, I condone Indu's earlier behaviour and deeds which lead her to make this rash, dumb decision!
Well if the shoe fits wear it! He is a goona dn she puts him in place no sympathy for him here at least not from me!
This is where you and I will continue to bang heads, so I will say it only one more time. If she only had to think about her own personal well-being and self-respect, then I would say good for her. But every time she engages in this game of tit for tat, yes she hurts him, but Indu in turn will get her back where it really hurts; by harming or threatening her family and friends. That's why whether she likes it or not she must exercise caution, and try not to rise to Indu's bait and goads.
Again for the last time no one especially me has said that Indu doesn't deserve to be knocked, down off his pedestal by Sanchi, were just saying we don't agree with her methods. Yes none of us are perfect, and again I wouldn't know what I would actually do if I was in her situation until I was truly experiencing her nightmare. But still I like to believe that I would be more cautious and defensive, rather than rash and offensive like Sanchi. And I have every right to believe that I would behave as so!
SHE does not have time as @fragrance indicated he is always harassing her and if she stops to think she might loose her bravado!
To hell with loosing bravado I say, if she might lose her life and/or any one of her family members or friends! If she had paused to think twice then she would never have made the stupid mistake of blabbing about the fake suicide to the press. But no as she had to show the world where her gutsy bravado got her, she put herself and Tarachand in serious danger! I don't understand how you can believe that attempting to think through her problems is a bad thing! Yes sometimes Indu puts her on the spot and she has to go with her gut instincts, and sometimes that works out, and at other times it doesn't. But he's not with her to do it 24/7, so she has sometime to really carefully consider the mess she's in. However all she can think about is revenge, rather than justice or even getting away from Indu. It's got to the point that she won't leave him now, until she has got her precious revenge!
Yup it does not hurt, but it does not do anything for her to tell him either
How do you know it won't do anything for her to tell him?! Like I said even if she doesn't gain anything she still doesn't risk to lose anything either!
@geetfan, I think you and I really have to agree to disagree about some things like I said earlier. And either way none of us can predict how Sanchi or Indu will really act, as again IMO CV's have taken a chainsaw to both of their characters!
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