why i am hating anami so much

today and yesterday episode was very nice

seriously..u think Anamis life was so easy..cant believe it.First of all Anamis mom is only pagli panditayein till now n Anami loves her mother to the core.No one becomes a mom by just giving birth..Being a mom is an attitude..

Honestly Satrupa's pain could have melted me down if she had shown a better attitude towards Anami. More than a mother she behaves like the owner of Anami, though Anami would never allow her to own her, but Satrupa has always stated that Anami is her blood, and thus, she had a sort of haq on her. This attitude should be changed. Hatred for Anami? I don't see the reason. Yes, its your opininon, and I should not say much on that, but I think hatred is an overstatement. Maybe you are just irritated of her character, and maybe you feel for Satrupa more, but why should you hate Anami? Anami's behavior yowards Satrupa is perfectly justifiable. And it is not like she is not ready to accept the family, she did accept Dadi and Narottam, but for Satrupa and the others, she is just reacting to what is being done to her. Satrupa not only did give Anami away when she was born but also did she take away that family from her who took care of her while she was abandoned. She has time and again threatened Anami. How can Anami open up to such a mother? Similarly with Baldev, because he could never extend a hand towards her daughter, she never felt connected towards him. Anami does not need Lal Mahal family, she has her own family in Banaras. The Lal Mahal folks need Anami, they have lost their heir, the child they so much adored, they have Anami but either they are too stuck up to accept her, or they think they own her, both attitudes being wrong. Anami did loosen up to the people that showed empathy. Ab kua to pyaase ke paas nhi jaa sakta na?

You see, you are hating the Baldev in Anami. She has good and bad habits from both her foster and biological parents. She is kind and trusts everyone like Murari Pathak, she is badboli like Madhu, She is a figter like Satrupa and she is a prejudiced person like Baldev.

Originally posted by: dey.bh

You see, you are hating the Baldev in Anami. She has good and bad habits from both her foster and biological parents. She is kind and trusts everyone like Murari Pathak, she is badboli like Madhu, She is a figter like Satrupa and she is a prejudiced person like Baldev.

Baldev will not tolerate Dheeru even at the cost of Royal steel because he doesn't like him. Anami will believe Narottam and Sudha without even talking to other members of LM. I understand she absolutely hates Satrupa but dadi gavr her some details and she didnt even bother to ponder about it.

Its her teenage syndrome you are not liking. Like every teenager she believes she is old and wise enough to take her own decisions. She believes Narottam was forced to live without his mother and is still forced to live in LM. A little introspection and she will realise that a family that had put their legal and only daughter that too after seven generation for adoption for whatever reasons it may be has raised an illegitimate son in LM. Like why? Why didnt they send him away considering he was only 2 years and his lineage would never trouble them. Its obvious they dont want him here.

A little introspection and she could figure out Narottam is a convenient liar who can easily fool a cbi officer and she is a 17 year old girl. Her fight should also ensure Pathak's right who on being ordered by his Guru raised a girl as his own without any question. Not Satrupa, Guruji is Pathak's culprit. He needs to answer and give Pathaks their due.

About Satrupa, she has failed to explain even the audience why she chose Vatsalya over Anami where the prophecy was for Vatsalya. I dont think it's Anami's fault if she doesnt trust her. What I found in bad taste was her behaviour with other people pf LM who have been equally cheated by Satrupa. However , I guess the makers have read our views and yesterday's episode was about the new reformed Anami. Whether she believes Satrupa is her mothrr or not she treated her as a human or atleast as Vatsalya's mother and I liked it. Finally, she knows what Vatsalya was for Vikram, Satrupa and Baldev. I really liked when she gve that piece of paper to Satrupa.

Younhave to be patient because she is still growing.Dheeru will be her mentor. Dheeru is the Murari Pathak of this new world. Murari taught her life, Dheeru will teach her the politics that is part of her life now. Murari taught her Dharma, Dheeru will teach Karma.

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

today and yesterday episode was very nice

but i dont know why i am not able to see anami even for a second even when she is nice to everyone

i dont know why

i am even loving janta hawaladar tanya and dheeru even i can watch narottam and shudha for 1 or 2 sec

but anami i am not able to watch her for one second

previosly i used to wait for her scenes even i used to like her scene with janta hawaldar but now i am not able to tolerate her for one second onscreen

firstly i only used to skip her scenes with narottam and shudha but now i skip her scenes with everybody

like today in last scene i watched whole scene but whenever anami used to come onscreen i just skipped that bit

i think i am able to connect with satrupa pain more and more with passing days and thats why hating her more and more

the makers now its high time to tone down her relation wiith satrupa i amnot saying that its should be sweet relation but there should be some understanding

its high time

i hate it that i am hating anami this much becuase i dont know i think it because of my real life psychology as i love my mother too much and seen her silent pain taking every pain on herself but never demanding anything is always happy in our happiness

thats why i am able to connect with satrupa because sometime how much you try to not mix real life with d=fictional character but your psycholohy always push you in the direction to love or hate character according to it

i connect to satrupa more as i see in her me from real life the way she smiles with her hidden pain and not show it to world

and for anami i have never seen her in pain as she was always loved and now even is being loved although always showing like how much burden she has and how much everyone has wronged

i just hate her to the core inspite of whatever she do right now

My mother has never had it easy and has gone to extreme, taking all the pain on herself for our sake. YET I do not sympathize with Satrupa completely. I don't hate her either.

I admire that Anami hasn't melted yet and refuses to cave in. Because why? From what she knows, and what we do, she was given up for some unknown reason and was only brought back because Vatsalya and Satrupa needed her. No matter how unhappy Satrupa was about this, it will not change the fact. She gave her away and when these wonderful people became family and she was raised genuinely happy and a strong woman, Satrupa comes along and uproots her life. Claiming something which she has put at stake.

Satrupa never even came close to explaining why she gave Anami away cloaking it under the veil of "majboori" as Anami rightly said. Only time will reveal what kind of majboori it was and how the dynamics change with it. For now, I am glad that Anami did not run and hug her birth mom forgiving and forgetting any grievances.

That is what attracted me to the show. And the journey of this relationship's progression is what is keeping me hooked.

That said about not sympathizing or hating Satrupa. I still do feel her. The thing here is that, I connect with most of the characters on the show (expect of course the 'evil' ones). And certainly with both Anami and Satrupa. I feel like there are shades of grey in everyone, the least of it in Anami. And boy, do I love that.

Originally posted by: reema.ghosh

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

thanks for the reply dear

you really made some sense

as someone here are aww with satrupa pain like me and someone are in aww with anami pain

but you have balanced both

honestly i feel thats mainly because of her scene with shudha and narottam because i really not like their character and actors playing them although they are brilliant but i dont like them