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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: koyelbasu

Good points but Richa is doing this only out of her belief . She is the face of orthodox society who jumps to the conclusion easily and too rigid towards it.

Ronnie is the friend for whom Ananya's happiness matters most. He is not judgemental about anyone . He always believe in giving people a benefit of doubt and not influenced much by others . He represents the progressive class of the society. Above all a friend who supports his friend come what may.


Richa is probably orthodox in her views, yes, but I feel in the present situation it is insecurity for her career more than her belief or thought about a divorcee getting a second chance, in life. She is saying all kinds of rude unfair things about Kabir and tarnishing his reputation because, she can't straight away say, she fears Ananya is going to benefit by being close to the EIC.
Here I am going with the idea that you usually say one thing, but when you read between the lines you actually mean something else. But, I could be wrong...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaks0211

What you are saying may be true - but it just cannot justify her spreading false notions about Kabir and being so bitter about the relationship...she has said many times that she is not happy with the relationsship - so fine - why not stop at it...if you are not happy its fine - but it does not give you the right to poison other peoples mind about it...let her restrict her opinions and feelings to herself..or better still let her at least wait and see how this relationship is going forward...anyway if it would have failed she would be the first person to smirk and say " I told you so"...


What can I say: You can't change everyone...you can only change yourself. That is how people are. They try to shove their opinion on to everyone around them.. can't help it.

The maturity lies in just listening to them with one ear and getting it out of your system through the other ear...Similar to how Ronnie is doing :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmyap03

I agree with above points because I have experienced it personally... I had a friend who was not having good opinion about our boss while for me he was the best boss... as he had potential to bring out the best from his team... its the same with Kabir... he knows the potential of his team...

but still Richa sees his personal life as problem... i'm ok with her being against the relationship... she doesn't like Kabir and that's her opinion... ... but she shares all her nonsense talks with Ronnie and not with Ananya.. she knows Ananya will never listen to her...
But again, talking about Ananya behind her is not friendship... yet we find people like Richa in real world...


Agree with you on all that you said..Richa is as real as it can get...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome post and I agree with your analysis of Richa's behaviour 😊
I just wish that she would voice her concerns with Ananya and not bitch about Kabir behind her back. Of course Ananya will ignore her warnings but still a true friend would try their best to stand by their friend even if they don't agree with the decisions their friend is making. But yes I love how realistic the show is and I'm glad that the cut-throat competitiveness of the corporate world is being showcased 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Great topic...you are bang on👍🏼
You have opened up a thought provoking discussion...that Richa is insecure about her job and future and she hates to see that Ananya, whom she considers immature, winning the EIC's heart and attention. Very interesting angle you pointed out and I think you are right.

At the same time, I think there is more to it than meets the eye. I have been thinking for the last couple of weeks or more that Richa is insecured because she has a crush on Kabir and wants to be Kabir's favorite. Now that Kabir loves Ananya, she is jealous of their relationship and always talks ill of Kabir. It is not right to judge anyone without knowing facts, and that is exactly what Richa is doing about Kabir. Now all those bad things she says about Kabir, are those merely her orthodox views? Hmm I don't think so...she does not come across orthodox to me because (a) she is a journalist, which is a challenging job (b) she dresses in a quite modern way (c) she talks in a frank and open manner with both boys and girls which a lot of girls in India cannot do even these days. So I don't think she is conservative, then why she says such negative things about Kabir? I think she has some secret feelings for him. Her trying to fix Ananya and Ronnie...that makes me suspicious that she was secretly craving for Kabir's attention, and so wanted Ananya out of her way.

So in a nutshell I think Richa is insecure about her job and her future, insecure about Kabir's attention and is also very jealous of Ananya. I will add to that - she has a crush on Kabir and she tries to cover that up by badmouthing Kabir.

You are right - People like Richa exist, who pretend to be helping their friends, loving their friends, but actually are trying to harm them. I agree with you that the CVs have done a great job of representing a typical modern day work culture.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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while I was writing my views on a previous epi, even I thought that richa is insecure. She is worried that Ananya being the boss's girfriend will get special priviledges and benefits, but she is projecting her insecurity as worry for her friend. I suppose that is why boss-subordinate relationships are big No-No in the corporate world, some employee will always call out favoritism and discrimmination even when there isn't any. it does create hostility and insecurity amongst the workers.
If it si indeed Richa's insecurity, then it is understandable but I'm still not a fan of her judgemental remarks and overall I-know-better attitude.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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what you say might be true in real life and yes ppl like Richa are out there,but that still does not justify her maligning Kabir personally based on all the rumors she has heard till date,I mean now toh she has worked with him,he is her boss has she seen him behaving inappropriately with any of them and she goes just too far with her predictions too like she was yesterday doing about Ananya's mom
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Great topic...you are bang on👍🏼

So in a nutshell I think Richa is insecure about her job and her future, insecure about Kabir's attention and is also very jealous of Ananya. I will add to that - she has a crush on Kabir and she tries to cover that up by badmouthing Kabir.


Agree with you on all this.

On a lighter side -- Crush on Kabir? I can only say, join the club...along with Malvika, Trisha, and Baby..maybe even that astrologer lady..who knows!

EIC sure has his hands full in office.

I should write about Kabir's PoV now - "Let me talk to Ananya's mom and settle down with her quickly, else all these women are going to chew me alive" 😊
Just kidding!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonyjknum

what you say might be true in real life and yes ppl like Richa are out there,but that still does not justify her maligning Kabir personally based on all the rumors she has heard till date,I mean now toh she has worked with him,he is her boss has she seen him behaving inappropriately with any of them and she goes just too far with her predictions too like she was yesterday doing about Ananya's mom


Bolne wale bolte rehenge... unko kaun rok sakta hai?!!! Aur Kaunsa eh soch ke bolte hai ki woh sahi hai ki nahin... logical or practical hai ki nahin...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate


If it si indeed Richa's insecurity, then it is understandable but I'm still not a fan of her judgemental remarks and overall I-know-better attitude.


me neither.. but saying that would make me judgemental.. so I will say, let her be!!! 😊😊

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