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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: DiyaS
Sunara ... lovely post! I have absolutely no problem with Paro trusting Shantanu ... that is her character, like distrusting everyone is Rudra's character. For Paro, a person is innocent until proved guilty, and for Rudra, a person is guilty until proved innocent.

I also felt ... as someone else has pointed out ... it was not so much about Shantanu specifically ... Paro's upset was more about Rudra's suspicious nature ... she hates the fact that he is still so negative and suspicious, and doesn't give anyone the benefit of doubt ... and gets charged up so easily. And in a way, she is right ... it would be far better if Rudra kept a cooler head, kept his suspicions to himself, and observed Shantanu's behaviour ... he would be more likely to catch Shantanu out that way, than if he behaves like a bear with a sore head and accuses Shantanu of wanting to hurt Paro without any proof. But then, that wouldn't be Rudra ... he is also behaving in character ... being volatile and hotheaded, and not thinking things through before he goes ballistic ... and antagonises everyone.

I just hope the CVs make this track about Rudra and Paro finally coming together to solve this mystery ... Rudra's protectiveness and Paro's cool head ... the cool head she showed when solving Maithili's abduction and the laddoo mystery.

exactly di! the point of their fight was not shantanu at all. I myself am just giving a bit of logic to the people who thinks Paro is trusting blindly lol..
but when we look at the bigger issue of course she is worried about his trust issues, that he doesn't get to enjoy a normal none-paranoid life due to that shortcoming and tries to help him overcome it.

@red - true, they r keeping him in character too.. headless action - as they say act in haste and repent in leisure!!

Finally indeed i truly hope this track would be about the 2 of them coming together as a couple and facing this and taking Shantanu on! And then winning together and coming even closer!!

n thanks di :)

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_
Agree with everything u said di...The thing is we may try our best to defend her but Paro will be bashed as usual, coz she's Paro. U have read my post too so m not gonna repeat things here..Great post 👍🏼

indeed lol its like women r like women's worst enemies n this forum keeps proving it! 😆🥱

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Bobby9

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Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Only Paro is the character in RR who is consistently honest with herself. She is a strong believer and mind it there is a vast difference between belief and trust. Trust always needs evidence but believe is based on intuition. And Paro is a remarkable in switching from believe from distrust in split second, the moment she shows even a sliver of reason against somebody at that very instant she starts distrusting that person. And she is extremely adept at judging a person at first glance, from his/her actions, way of talking, attitude,etc. And it's extremely evident from the way she figured out Mohini and Sumer.
Rudra pointed to her that how foolish she is cause she trusted Tejawat and Laila but for even trusting them she had a medium. She believed Tejawat because of Mala, her mother figure. And she believed Laila, because of Rudra. If she was so bad then how come Rudra was with her for 8 long years and she was Rudra's friend Paro tried to maintain a cordial relationship.

By the way excellent post and analysis.

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: deep0909
good post Sunara. you certainly helped put out Paro's way of thinking.

My complaint though is not that she is illogical or stubborn. My complaint with Paro is that she never seems to trust Majorsa. Ever! She is always on the other side. And she has ample proof that he is right when he suspects someone. the BSD doctor, with Tejawat, with laila! And yet she seems to assume that his lack of trust is why he suspects Shantanu. Isn't she the one making assumptions here?

Moreover, it makes total sense that Rudra suspect everyone. Including BSD officers. Since everybody knows that BSD is infiltrated. Who knows? Shantanu might have killed the original shantanu and posing as him? and this is not some petty theft. Someone is terrorizing and aiming to kill his wife. Its absolutely right that everyone must be suspected.

And yet Paro decides to flip to the other side and lecture Rudra. And stay angry with him. I did not get this at all! why was she angry with him?

I have posted about this earlier also. And this is one part of Paro's characterization, I don't get at all. She says she loves Rudra. But never does what he asks her to do. Be it buy the kind of kurta he likes, or trust him! not when they were enemies and not when she is in love with him!

Paro always does the opposite of what Rudra asks.

Maybe this is the behavior that is expected of Televsion female characters. I don't know. But it sure does *not* fit with Paro.

i get u but here is the thing.
See - what Rudra thinks he wants is and what is good for him are not always the same thing. Like he conceded once, eating burnt aaloo ki zabzi was a habit, not a liking. I put the same thing for kurta thing actually - its reflection of that colorless soulless existence in his where he didn't let anything nice or beautiful enter his life - now not talking about taste actually. cz in Rajasthani culture the black 3 piece suit is not normal. nor is patternless clothes n stuff.. i am not simplifying the matter - but wanted to separately address this issue as i think its different from the other more serious things u asked,

Now trusting - its more i think Paro's inherent nature is to trust, so if Rudra asked her to trust more - she would happily agree to it. But what he asks her to do is what goes against her very basic nature. so she reacts by not doing what he has asked her to do.

Paro is programmed to see goodness in people - do u remember when she thought he was a cold blooded murderer threatening to marry her unless she testified and lied about the good people who loved and brought up she still appealed to his good nature. she said 'u too must have dreams about a marriage, how she will be.. etc.. so don't you want to marry that woman u love' and that is Paro!
Its never ever about mistrusting Rudra or disregarding his advice, just that he asks her to go against her very basic nature and it conflicts with what her sense of justice is.

And if u think - did she see, hear, notice the behavior of the nice doctor who treated her? nah.. she was unconscious when all of that took place - whatever they said to her could be a lie for all she knows. that was never good enough to trust the men who murdered her entire family according to her. Same with Tejawat.

In Paro's characterization its just her sense of right and wrong is way way too simple and straightforward. Get in to her bad book she never allows herself to be manipulated. But till the person is not in the bad book she allows them to be good and considers them good.

Its not who we are.. but i think there has been no compromise on that count with her till now..

PS: I have been known to coerce my daddy with mom to buy a more colorful shirt and wear it.. My gifts to both my bro and dad from my 1st salary 2 months back had me written on it more than them lol.. its just that i felt they needed a bit more color in their clothes.. so i am guessing its just a female thing cz as i said both mom n i do it to the men in our lives! 😆

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Guinea
Nice post sunara ...you should make more 😃
Why talk abt paro ...the whole house seems to be eating out of dimpled villiansa's hands 😆 Even mohini is flustered with the attn she is getting ...

I thought paro's reaction was more to do with rudra misbehaving with a guest at home , being rude to him...checking out his wardrobe etc ...which in civil society is considered obnoxious behaviour . You cannot behave like this with a guest ...everyone kakusa , maitheli and sunheri were shocked and embarrased ...

Sunheri too was justifying her brother to shantanu ...so is she also constantly mis trusting rudra 😉

thanks di! will try to do more often! 😳
i definitely do agree why she fought with Rudra is that! But this post is more like why the original opinion of trust has formed inside Paro's head in the first place.

indeed he reacted badly and everyone thought so.. its a different case that Paro is the only one who has the guts the bull by the horns and confront him, thus earning the ire of the certain set of forum wasis! 😆

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Swap-Arhi
I agree! Paro has no reason to suspect Shanty. If Rudra is accusing him he needs to find the proof and do it! Its Rudra who is looking like the fool everytime he accusses Shanty without any proof. Sunehri has seen his brother's photo. She might be the key to this puzzle. Not sure how long CVs will drag this through though!
Like Shanty hope he turns good and the story continues with him being a good officer. Something positive will be good for the show too!

indeed even when accusing Tejwat that was Rudra's fault! he didn't have a single irrefutable proof to show that either Varun or Tejwat was wrong! So he needs to fix the shortcoming on that end!
he already has tasted what his haste has done to his own job even! He lost it once, and he is repeating the same mistakes! it doesn't matter just to have a hunch, he needs to find proper proof to back it..

i am actually scared for Suneri now that she saw the snap.. he might kill her eventually.. not sure.. but yes it might be good to use that to drag everything out!

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: shonasandy
awesome post

Totally agree with u

we all miss ur post dear ... Keep make post in Forum

thanks Shona I will try to post more often! :)

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: samirao
Awesome post
Agree with u completely

thank you! 😃

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Zeeliciousxo

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

I'm in a hurry so I just skimmed through your post, but what I have to say is that yes Paro always demands proof before "not trusting" someone, but if your husband does not like a man and earnestly feels that something is not right with him you should respect his feelings even if you don't agree with them by maintaining a distance from the man - no need to be so open and friendly with him. Besides, Paro is a village girl, so is Maithili, them acting so free and bold with Shantanu is out of character. These days I'm seeing less of Paro sometimes and more of Khushi.

Also, some character growth in Paro would be nice to see. Nobody in this world can go through all that Paro went through and remain all-trusting and naive.

Oh and, getting upset with your husband and sulking for some random guy? Oh please. Not buying it. Ok yeah so people have analyzed and explained why Paro was upset with Rudra but the truth is many of us don't have time to think so much about every action now, we take what we see in 20 minutes, TRP viewers do the same, and if in 20 minutes it looks like Paro is upset with Rudra for Shantanu then people will laugh and change the channel - because TRP aunties don't want to see a smart and alert and all-knowing ML, they want to see a sharp and understandable FL.

Edited by Zeeliciousxo - 11 years ago