Paro is justified for trusting shantanu!See why? UPDATED

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Aurin

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: princessunara

lol Aurin it did sour my mood to see the username early in the day lol.. but decided to ignore n get on with my life! 😆

anyway thanks 😳

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Aruni.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Totally agree... There are people who inherently think other people are generally nice, unless they provide a reason to believe otherwise. (I'm a bit like this :D)

And then there are people whose distrust and suspiciousness is in their nature. They will trust someone only when those people prove themselves to be trustworthy. Like Rudra - He trusts very few people (Paro, Kaku sa, General singh, aman, Maithili) because they have given him enough reason to, have earned his respect.

So for now, I understand that Paro not sharing Rudra's distrust about Shantanu. But I hope she does not remain in the dark for too long (then she is really blind) and start to think that no one can be THAT sweet. For some extent, Shanty and Snakewa share that characteristic --- sickly sweetness. Except I love snakewa's villainous abilities more than Shanty's 😃 😃

Edited by aruni50218 - 11 years ago

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: lovearshi93
Why every time paro proves wrong 😕
She misunderstood laila and same is happening with shantanu 🤢
I have seen many Indian shows and as much as I know about Indian shows the heroine can't be wrong, whatever heroine trusts it proves right 😆
But in RR its opposite situation
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LOL on the opposite being true to RR! 😆 But i think in love stories the female lead does trust easily lol.. 😛

anyway this time even Rudra is in 2 minds isn't he? cz as i said to Vanitha - Rudra didn't apologize to Shantanu to please Paro, because he never told it to her that he apologized. He just decided to give him the benefit of the doubt for the time being, till he makes another move to prove otherwise.

So let's see if they will give Paro a clue in the middle of this track and turn it on its head and allow us to see a logical story. cz starting she trusts, and then will sensibly see otherwise and work towards fixing the issue! I truly hope this time at least the CVs do this!

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: -MONA-
Awesome post as always Sunara...

thank you mona :)

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: KhushiParo
Sunara after a long time you are posting and it is so bang on!
Even I was wondering why Paro should not trust him?( OFCOURSE I too don't want her to trust Shantanu)
The people doesn't have problem when V.K sir, Aman, Kakusa ,Samrat, Maithili and Sunehri trusted him but they have a problem when Paro trusts him why?
Ok Rudra doesn't trust him but does he have any solid proof that Shantanu should not be trusted.
He doesn't trust him then he needs to talk with Mr.V.K , Aman, and Kakusa.
Just like you my question also
"If three of other BSD people can trust him why can't Paro? "
Again they are right in their own POVs.
They are true to their characters and that is the beauty of story.
Paro trusts everyone and thinks everyone will be good at heart unless she sees the truth.
Rudra can not trust anyone unless he come to know the person properly.

Thanks for posting after long time.

thanks dear! And indeed if professionals in the BSD trusts her life with Shantanu why shouldn't she herself trust their judgement? Specially when that guy has given her no reason to think otherwise!!

ya they r in their characters. As illogical as Rudra to trust him its illogical for Paro to distrust him!

Its always worth posting to see all of u guys responses that i love to read! 😳

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VshitsDISHOOM

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

love ur post the much needed one ... i saw a paro bash post and i was thinking what if situation was opposit paro not trusting sahntano and Rudra trusting ...than we could have say that paro is out of character but trusting everyone is actually paro character than y always when it comes to trusting someone everyone bash her.im not good with words love ur post s much i whould have made one but again everyone is not good as u 😊

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: bleeding.love
Nicely said.

I loved your logical reasoning. Paro is in her character. She has no reason for not trusting Shantanu. We viewers know his evil intension but she and rest of the family does not. Even Rudra can only suspect him. He has no solid proof against him..In the end he too leaves his wife and family under Shantanu's protection. Even with Laila situation, Paro told Laila her position when learned the truth. I am glad that Paro has her own opinion. She can make her own decision. She just needs a logic solid proof against Shantanu.

@red - this is the whole point! Isn't this absolute trust for Paro to see? She knows Rudra has trust issues, but as she can see he still leaves her behind with Shantanu, so why would she wanna distrust that man at all when Rudra too half trusts!

anyway yes i am glad too that she makes her own opinions and sticks to them till she sees reason to believe otherwise!

And thank you 😳

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: aruni50218
Totally agree... There are people who inherently think other people are generally nice, unless they provide a reason to believe otherwise. (I'm a bit like this :D)

And then there are people whose distrust and suspiciousness is in their nature. They will trust someone only when those people prove themselves to be trustworthy. Like Rudra - He trusts very few people (Paro, Kaku sa, General singh, aman, Maithili) because they have given him enough reason to, have earned his respect.

So for now, I understand that Paro not sharing Rudra's distrust about Shantanu. But I hope she does not remain in the dark for too long (then she is really blind) and start to think that no one can be THAT sweet. For some extent, Shanty and Snakewa share that characteristic --- sickly sweetness. Except I love snakewa's villainous abilities more than Shanty's 😃 😃

Aruni I am a first rate idiot too in that sense 😆, cz I believe in goodness of people too! I am no saint, but i just think people i come across r good and despite being proven otherwise sometimes I just naturally am inclined to trust than distrust. And i think most human beings r like that.. I have time and again defended someone's POV to my mom n she would read me the riot act and tell me not to do it as I don't know their real intentions! 😆

Rudra is correct too. he is in his character to distrust just as much as Paro to trust. I truly hope we will see clues in front of Paro's eyes which she will read and add up together. Paro has been shown to not be an idiot till now. Shantanu has no emotional hold over her unlike Tejwat or Laila. So he just needs to slip a bit and she will pick it (or at least i hope to god CVs do it this way cz otherwise as u said it will be super dumb!)

LOL.. Aman is sugary sweet too though a bit gruff! Maitili too.. sooo.. too much sweetness leading to diabetes explanation might not be enough for Paro to start having any niggling doubts. But have her see real incidents, clues that makes her uneasy. little behavioral moments, slip of words by Shantanu that gives her creeps.. etc etc..

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: sdf21
love ur post the much needed one ... i saw a paro bash post and i was thinking what if situation was opposit paro not trusting sahntano and Rudra trusting ...than we could have say that paro is out of character but trusting everyone is actually paro character than y always when it comes to trusting someone everyone bash her.im not good with words love ur post s much i whould have made one but again everyone is not good as u 😊

aww thank you very much! thanks for sharing your thoughts here 🤗
Definitely if the situation was opposite we would have totally said it was out of character! We saw how creepy it was to watch a mean Paro when she play acted with Male remember? It was freaky! Same here, it would be super illogical and unbelievable for her to distrust him with no reasons to back it at all!

As for some people.. we just have to ignore them totally.. cz they only have 1 opinion that they themselves r probably better than Paro for Rudra lol n fantasizing ways to put Paro down! 😆

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RRViewer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Agreed Sunara.

I am new to this forum, but watching RR from beginning. From y'day felt bad and thought to make a post on my view and when i about to post it, saw urs, which is exactly wat i felt.

Adding my views too,

In my opinion both Rudra and Paro are much in their character. Coz,

Paro-Rudra fight - In my POV paro is upset with rudra that he is not trusting shantanu is, just she is much more worried about rudra's behaviour of not trusting any one. its not about that third person shantanu, but its her husband's behaviour which makes her more worried i think. She used to point out to rudra some of his behaviour/habit of leaving food incomplete,she taunted his thought for his mom by putting herself and her situation before seh had with rudra,his behaviour of sometimes being like kid etc., like that she is worried for his habit of not trusting anyone, but she also doesnt mean or want him to trust everyone blindly as she stated that shantanu is also from BSD like him, and she is trusting shantanu as from her point of view there is no single clue to doubt him.

Even in our personal life, dont we suggest few things for our beloved ones which we feel good for them?of course we will not force them, same as Paro is suggesting rudra not to distrust all and she is also not forcing him to say sorry to shantanu right?

I feel all that matters to paro is rudra and his behaviour, not much abt the thrid person.

Rudra - Being a trained army man and his obersvation towards shantanu, he is right and doing right. but the fact that old jallad rudra is far better than the one now is bit strange for me, because.,

-Old jallad rudra was so strong and doesnt have the fear of losing anyone. but wat sort of man he was, he had nothing to lose so no fear.he was an isolated man from everything and every relation in the world, he was having his own world as he stated , he was running and running from his past without any wish to live the life.
But that thing changed when he fallen in love, and now he has someone to care for him, now he has his family back, he also want to live this moment, that dosnt mean that he has to lose his intelligence.He didnt lose his identity too, after paro's suggestion, he might realized that he was not correct so he felt bad for shantanu and told that to him. At that point of time, it was correct. He considers his beloved ones thought, but at the moment when the gift is changed,it made him to connect the dot and he is back to his form, which is obviously correct and in his character.

And how, being an old jallad rudra wihtout of fear of losing anything without having anyone to lose is better than a perosn with his beloved ones,with wish to live life, with wish to protect his beloved ones without losing his identity and his intelligence?[inspite of considering paro's suggestion, he has his own idea on wat went wrong, that is his identity right?].
Life becomes easy in first case, but the actual life and its satisfaction remains in the second one right?

So, for me both of the characters are well in their form. May be Paro's character is not what we expect in this current world, but i think the character is intended to be like that from CVs, afterall they know more about the character they create.
And feeling bad, few of great writers of this forum who were there few months back was not much seen in the forum. missing them.So i too made up for,sit back and enjoy the show as always.

I am not much aware abt forum rules, hope posting this in ur thread is not an issue. if anything, let me know.