What if Paro was in Rudra place did rudra had accepted her - Page 4

Originally posted by: princessunara

I completly agree with u!

di as for Paro leaving cz she feels bad for Laila thing - here is the thing, does Paro know that physical aspect of sex can exist outside the boundaries of love and/or marriage?
that is what her upbringing has taught her. mind u its not us who no matter what our upbringing is, know that different situations existing out there thanks to TV/newspapers/internet; none of which Paro has ever had access to in Bhirpur..

So would she not come to the conclusion that if he were to be physical with Laila, that was cz he loved her? it seems stupid a conclusion for us worldly people. but for that border village girl who had never crossed the boundary of her village.. didn't know a single person outside that small village.. would it be wrong for her to make that assumption?

cz there has been pretty good stuff to support it.
1. Rudra 1st wanted to marry her to punish her for not testifying against Tejwat.
2. He then didn't want to marry her at all after the need to punish her for not testifying was gone from his priority list.
3. And only for his job he married her again..

so it wouldn't be too far fetched for her to believe that its due to Laila he did those things!!

and add to that her promise to bolenath.. we have a perfect path for Paro to take to go out of his life!

I'm not sure what Paro will make of this because she knows that Rudra hasn't been able to connect to anyone emotionally since his mom left so I'm not sure she would think that he loved Laila. Laila has also told her that Rudra didn't love her. I'm not sure she will connect physical intimacy with love although she probably firmly believes that it's connected to marriage. Also being a village girl Paro will know that there is one set of rules for men and another for women and although she might not know any girls personally who are having sex outside of marriage she must know that there are women who do and that men go to them. That oldest profession in the world must be found in villages too. I'm not saying that Laila is a prostitute because she's not but that Paro must be aware of sex happening outside of marriage. My fear is that she might think that Rudra should do the 'right thing' by Laila and marry her. It will be more about Paro's sense of fairness that will come into play. I'm excited about tomorrow's episode and just hope we'll get to see some of that 4 weeks of raw passion we were promised, soon.

Originally posted by: deepika09

Just give me 1 anser if rudra was in paro place did he have accepted paro we all know d anwer is No so i dont want paro to accept him easily too.

What Rudra is shown i dont think he has close mind... i dont think anything would have bothered him what she did in the past...what might have effected him if paro had relationship with other men after her marriage to Rudra.

Originally posted by: deepika09

Atlesast someone underrstood what i was trying to see n that was exactly my pt what if paro was in rudra place i m sure he never accepted her then why such diff rules for paro...why i dont want paro to accept rudra so easily n i too dont want paro to leave rudra

but i rEALLY dont understand why people reply even without understanding my post

there is nothing not to forgive her because Rudra married her without knowing her background...he almost forced her into marriage...so even if she had any relationship i dont think Rudra should have any problem with that because he married her...and if CVs showed that Rudra had issues it would have been impractical and unnatural.

Originally posted by: deepika09

Just give me 1 anser if rudra was in paro place did he have accepted paro we all know d anwer is No so i dont want paro to accept him easily too.

u r toking abut purity , personally i dont like these kind of thinking in which society treat girls wid
double standard if de had relation wid someone in past especially physical relation , i hate det wen man try to degrade girls n show dem det de r doing favour on dem if de accept dem ,dis i saw in show call geet where hero count all d time det how he done a huge favour on girl by accepting her , it clearly shows petty , low thinking of a guy n his low morals n yes show like det r huge disappointment , kisi ko accept karne ka matlab kya banta hai wen u wanna scratch their wounds ike dis n reminding dem det de were impure

in rudra case he dont belive in dis purity concept , it luks like he dont care , he never tried to degrade laila who is a dancer , in villages people dont see dancers wis respect , its clear he dont belive in purity concept n society rules ,paro cares, for her divine , purity matters , but i m very sure she will not degrade rudra nor laila for it , paro dont have low thinking det she start judging someone on base of purity

I agree with you. For some reason even women find it more acceptable for a man to be forgiven than a woman. But in this case though there is no need to forgive rudra. He has done nothing wrong. Rudras fear is how paro will handle this information... The pain it will cause her. And his insecurities of his mom leaving him

Originally posted by: msin

Rudra had never wanted to get married... Circumstances made him marry paro.. That did mean he wanted to live like a monk..how is a relationship happening before marriage needs to be forgiven.. He never cheated paro..paro has to accept it or walk out of the marriage., her choice..

If paro had sex with her first hubby.. Would she have asked forgiveness from rudra..was it justified.,