What if Paro was in Rudra place did rudra had accepted her

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Cutiepie_sanaya

@Cutiepie_sanaya

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Posted: 11 years ago

I just want to ask why not d same rules for girls and boys ,what if paro is in place of rudra n she had a relationship with someone leave 8 yrs just for one night then do u think rudra have forget her everyone know d answer is no so why paro should forget rudra so easily why such diff rules n plz dont me give me answer that girls has to be in their boundary n paro will never do that n we all know that...

Being a girl n being a girl like paro who is so pure ,how can a girl forgive her husband easily who had a relationship with other wooman for 8 yrs n that too just physical realtionship n what if d relationship was before marriage n what if he is a man ,just think about a girl doing d same thing n then also u guys will say the man should forgive her no na will rudra have forgive paro if she had done that i know she can never do that but still i know he havent accepted her anyway then why diff rules for man n woman n if i would have been on paro place i would not have accepted him easily now its rudra time to run behind paro n paro should be trying to maintain distance from rudra n rudra getting restless...

Do answer but dont give me answer the character r different n all that n it was before marriage bcaz if paro had done d same thing before marriage then what?

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think the title of the post itself is discriminatory.

I do not think that Rudra will ask for forgiveness, he has not cheated on Paro, so why does he owe a forgiveness ? Yes he will only ask for an acceptance, he will ask for an acceptance with his grey past.

And, Paro can feel heartbroken, but she cannot feel cheated, Rudra has told her the truth and i hope he also tells her that he had put a closure to his sexual relationship with laila the day laila tried to kill Paro.

and if Rudra would be in Paro's place and paro would be honest then i think he would also accept her, he is not a heartless soul, infact he is more emotional than paro, and people whom he loves he always wants them to stay with him.

It will be regressive if Rudra asks for forgiveness, because he is once again sharing and disclosing about his past and not confessing about anything which will make her feel cheated.

and i did not see anybody in the forum supporting Rudra because he is a MAN and deserves forgiveness, he is seeking for either a rejection or acceptance but not forgiveness.

Sometimes people need to move on, and when your past hinders yopur present you tend to get over it, Rudra is doing the same, if he wouldn't do then it would be his dishonesty towards paro.

Paro ha sthe right to feel hurt or jealous, but no right to say that he deserves a punishment for his relationship with laila, she cannot blame him, he did not do a two timing. He will be the last person to do a two timing because he himself is a genuine victim of his mother's philandering ways. Therefore when he loves his wife so much, he has urged to tell her everything about him even if it ends up at her leaving him or her feeling filthy about his character.

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Jungli Billi

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Posted: 11 years ago

I dont want paro to forgive him,

What If Rudro is emotionally unstable, To have relationship that for 8 years with the same woman, is something not to be forgiven and is a big reason to leave some one

In addition to this,the way paro character is shaped , it will be more logical if she leaves him for laila as she( lalila) is the one who has suffered more than Rudro

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MesmerizingSanz
I dont want paro to forgive him,
What If Rudro is emotionally unstable, To have relationship that for 8 years with the same woman, is something not to be forgiven and is a big reason to leave some one
In addition to this,the way paro character is shaped , it will be more logical if she leaves him for laila as she( lalila) is the one who has suffered more than Rudro

hey but will he seek a forgiveness or acceptance ? i think we are judging it wrong. he is not guilty at his past, he is telling paro only because he wants to have a new start. It is not a case of cheating but a case of distinguishing between your past and present and realizing that your past has the force enough to influence your present.

people do have girlfriends and affairs before marriage, but if they remain loyal and true to their spouses after the sacred vows then why are they dissed ? they cannot be astrologers to read their future and shape up their past right ? afterall unlike Paro, Rudra is more of a flawed human being with a dismal upbringing.

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Jungli Billi

@MesmerizingSanz

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

hey but will he seek a forgiveness or acceptance ? i think we are judging it wrong. he is not guilty at his past, he is telling paro only because he wants to have a new start. It is not a case of cheating but a case of distinguishing between your past and present and realizing that your past has the force enough to influence your present.
people do have girlfriends and affairs before marriage, but if they remain loyal and true to their spouses after the sacred vows then why are they dissed ? they cannot be astrologers to read their future and shape up their past right ? afterall unlike Paro, Rudra is more of a flawed human being with a dismal upbringing.

@ bold have to watch the episode to see

But i think he is telling paro because he feels guilty

In addition the serial is based in rural where having relationship is not considered just an affair

The one who he had affair has come back to claim her right and is the one who has suffered the most, so Logically Paro being the native and Pure heart girl will surely leave rudro for laila

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Do you mean FORGIVE him for having a relationship BEFORE she met him?

FORGIVE him for walking out on Laila AFTER being with her for 8 years?😃

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Posted: 11 years ago

Rudra had never wanted to get married... Circumstances made him marry paro.. That did mean he wanted to live like a monk..how is a relationship happening before marriage needs to be forgiven.. He never cheated paro..paro has to accept it or walk out of the marriage., her choice..

If paro had sex with her first hubby.. Would she have asked forgiveness from rudra..was it justified.,

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Lavender mist

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Posted: 11 years ago

i don't think it is fair for us to blame rudra for whatever happened with laila. he never promised her anything. In fact he stressed that there won't be any chance of a relationship when he started his affair with laila. laila too never protested. now if the poor guy wants to have somewhat normal relationship with a person he loves what is wrong in that.

we have to realise that there are many people in the world who have such relationships with no strings attached. if at all one of them falls in love with the other It is not fair to ask the other person to love you just because you love them.

when it comes to paro, he had warned her several times that he is not good for her even before marriage. he had not told her about laila specifically but told her that he has a past which is quite ugly. but paro never cared.

I think paro would be very disappointed and sad hearing it but she will stand by him. hope after this she allows rudra to kick laila out.

Edited by bluemoon255 - 11 years ago

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...Pwincess...

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Posted: 11 years ago

If I was Paro, I would think that's been with a woman for 8 years but never loved her, how can I be so sure that he loves me and that too after a short while.

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Sunara

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Sush-
Do you mean FORGIVE him for having a relationship BEFORE she met him?

Or

FORGIVE him for walking out on Laila AFTER being with her for 8 years?😃

Honestly if it was me I would have a problem with him walking out on Laila without looking back and then wonder that if that is how casual an 8 yr long acquaintance is what would be my own position?

@TM: But well if I take this out of the story and general I think you are VERY much correct! We live in a hypocritical society!! An sexually liberal girl is called a s**t and a sexually liberal man is called experienced!!
Simply will say what my mom told me when I was 16 or so (will roughly translate what she told me in my native language).. she said that as unfair as it is, in our society u can wash a boy and take him in to the house no matter what he has done on that front, but a girl cannot. And to be careful.. she doesn't think it fair, but she accepts it.

And actually if it was me, if a guy had a relationship for 8yrs (a normal relationship n not just tumbling in the bed, cz then that such of a psycho is not likely to be a part of real life for me) and it broke and they parted ways, if he explains it to me I wouldn't have any issues accepting him.
And I would like if I was given the same courtesy.. but realistically I know that as an Asian girl living in an Asian country, its not possible.. as unfair as it is, it will not be accepted.

Now applying it to the context of the story.. well Paro is so inexperienced about life and naive to a point that she was brainwashed that men in that society can do anything n she should accept anything her husband does, etc (its reality in rural places) and in that case she would feel hurt, naturally.. to know that he had someone for so long in his life before she came to his life..
but forgiving him for that affair? nah. no need cz he never cheated her, nor did he ever know a girl like Paro will come to his life and would make a normal man out of him and give him a natural normal domestic life and marriage.

he only has to be honest with her. She would be very hurt.. but whether he should apologize to Paro for that I am not sure! But he should definitely apologize to Laila if that was the case!😆

he should feel bad, not abt cheating Paro, but being so emotionless.. maybe.. i dunno. I am not gonna crucify him without knowing how it will be shown anyway.

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