Sushpective 2: Independence is a character trait not a dirty word! END

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-Sush-

@-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

HI guys...

I think everyone is quite happy watching the romance...except me...

Now don't get me wrong...I love romance ...I am watching a romantic show...

But

This is just a bit too out of character for me...It is all soft and cute and very domestic...while I wanted to see intense and passionate! The spark ...that comes when not everything is compliant...

What happened to the major with an attitude? I mean a real one not the pretend kind?

What we have now...is someone...

Who is willing to sleep on the floor...😵

Who is letting his wife decide who stays in the house who doesn't...without huffing and puffing...

Who asks his wife where he should change clothes...😲 ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

Who looks up when his wife asks him to look up and looks down when she asks him to look down...

Where IS the attitude ...? This one has became too soft too quickly!

Most of all....he looks so ready to fall in love and be domesticated so quickly ...that the angst and the attitude and the INPEENDENCE seem like a thing of distant history...where is the resistance ...man?

Yes...I do want the major to fall in love...but not by becoming someone else...l want to see the struggle...and No ...that does not crying and saying dialogues like I am a stone and I can never love you with an expression of a puppy who wants someone to pick them up in their arms...I want real internal conflict and resistance...and please don't equate that to Laila's description of a janwar and what not...as if independence was a dirty concept ...

Sorry...This is going to be perhaps the most unpopular post...But there you have it...an honest opinion...Not sure if it was a good idea to share it or keep quiet...

Any way on the good side...At least the uniformed look was pleasing to the eyes!👍🏼

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Vidya Shetty

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hehehe Sush thank God you at least made a post 😛 so what if it is zara hatke from the usual, as in our major's words (a dialog which i like very much when he says it) "ha toh"

Agree with you he has become soft...but kya kare, our Paro is the chui mui, titli si, masoom si, bandariya jaise harkate karne waali ladki...how can anyone even be aggressive with her...he does turn gruff sometimes, but Paro is just not scared of him anymore, toh woh kare bhi toh kya kare 😆 I love this facet of him too, and would love to see more of it 😛

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spirit

@spirit

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Posted: 11 years ago

Res,

Alrite finally here after multiple edits on my post and then saw there was a major blooper there 😲so had to rectify.😆 Sorry back to your post now. You know sometimes I think, things r happening so fast that even Rudra is having a though time wrapping his head around everything🤣 imho a lot of the issues hv to do with the pace...I feel like they still hv not found an appropriate pace here...know I keep harping on it but can't help. Will stop with that for now.

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Assuming this is what it is...

The question is, what does he want?? Right?? ... does that make sense?

May be he wants a shot at this normalcy but soon things will change and he will hv to take a few steps back... May be, or ...may be, just may be its just the medication!!😆

I don't think this guy well all of what we see is here to stay for too long. Ofcourse he can't go back to being who he was because things hv changed but...He won't remain this for long either... So just enjoy it while it lasts... In his own words, his past comes back everytime he tries to move forward.

What's confusing is - how does Paro intend to go through with her deal? Right now they are getting even closer so her plan will backfire big time if she leaves after all this TLC. You might just get your wish granted then, Rudy will be back with a vengeance!! Angst...passion will be back too...

I don't hv much else to say because quite frankly, I've stopped expecting them to go completely with their initial sketch,,, I doubt we wud hv come here so soon otherwise...let that be... I understand what you r saying...because too much of this sort of happy bores me too...

I muted the KCM and Laila exchange except when It dawns on KCM that she may hv erred in bringing her here.. The morning scene with the family was well, okay. The needle scene was cute.

This wouldn't be so bad if the situation wasn't so contrived and Laila was iterally stationed outside there door. 🤔Give more brains to her schemes please...

I do think that Laila's dialogues were meant to highlight the difference between her and Paro more than anything else. Her words reflect her thoughts...and with everything she does and speaks of... the difference becomes even more obvious...

What I would like to see is Laila who starts of as his confidant...his friend eventually goes black because of this bitter life experience and it's like a gradual process. Sort of like KCM initiates into the other side...and things spiral out of control after that... Eventually she crosses over to the other side...

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: vidya0906
Hehehe Sush thank God you at least made a post 😛 so what if it is zara hatke from the usual, as in our major's words (a dialog which i like very much when he says it) "ha toh"
Agree with you he has become soft...but kya kare, our Paro is the chui mui, titli si, masoom si, bandariya jaise harkate karne waali ladki...how can anyone even be aggressive with her...he does turn gruff sometimes, but Paro is just not scared of him anymore, toh woh kare bhi toh kya kare 😆 I love this facet of him too, and would love to see more of it 😛

Hi Vidya...I don't want him to be aggressive with her...but it can't be this easy...and he can't be this compliant...

I think they are rushing to make him someone he is not...so that they can dish out ROMANCE NOW in the hopes of generating TRPs...I would rather see an honest characterization...

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asmi279

@asmi279

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hey Sush...honest post as usual :)

here's my POV:

Change smtimes cn b on a subconscious level..u may nt realize hw u r changing, being influenced by ur surroundings, reacting to changed circumstances..

n rudra hs changed..n it hs been a long journey that started wen he reluctantly admitted that paro ws innocent even before the shivratri inc..then in recent times, during the hate marriage, social wrker, jaipur, hospital tracks..he is gradually reacting to paro's innocence n gentleness, as compared to wat he used to react to terrorists in bsd..

In yesterday's epi, wen laila taunted him abt becoming soft, that ws the first realization of his change fr him..bt he cant go bk nw..cn nt b the janwar he used to be..wen paro cm in, he effortlessly slided into the husband mode bcoz that's his natural state nw..

I think v wl gt the internal fight wen paro leaves n he finally realizes hw much he's changed..

hope that made sense :)

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asmi279

@asmi279

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Posted: 11 years ago

One more pt...I think he hs gone all soft n mushy more after the breakdown of this week..paro's innocence n unconditional love hs broken down his defenses, so much that he actually opened up to her in his senses..the little boy that the janwar used to supress hs been set free..n he is craving n finally experiencing the normal family life that he cd never gt before..

that is also y he's more irritated wid laila's entry..bcoz she reminds him if wat he used to be n he doesn't identify wid that part of him nw..

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ipkrr

@ipkrr

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Posted: 11 years ago

I feel the Major is very soon going to revert to usual - so the creatives are comfortable with him making puppy eyes at the moment - to distinguish from when he goes back to his earlier self.

I agree with you Sush - for me the romance between Rudra and Paro was tame this week and missing the usual spark of excitement.

It's Paro's character that needs more definition and spark - something more than blind adoration.

CVs are making Laila appear wild, untamed and exotic and Paro with the goody two shoes image then comes across as boring.

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: asmi279
Hey Sush...honest post as usual :)

here's my POV:
Change smtimes cn b on a subconscious level..u may nt realize hw u r changing, being influenced by ur surroundings, reacting to changed circumstances..

n rudra hs changed..n it hs been a long journey that started wen he reluctantly admitted that paro ws innocent even before the shivratri inc..then in recent times, during the hate marriage, social wrker, jaipur, hospital tracks..he is gradually reacting to paro's innocence n gentleness, as compared to wat he used to react to terrorists in bsd..

In yesterday's epi, wen laila taunted him abt becoming soft, that ws the first realization of his change fr him..bt he cant go bk nw..cn nt b the janwar he used to be..wen paro cm in, he effortlessly slided into the husband mode bcoz that's his natural state nw..

I think v wl gt the internal fight wen paro leaves n he finally realizes hw much he's changed..

hope that made sense :)

Hi Asmi...things that are formed hard...take time to change...The process of change is what interests me...not the result by itself...we all know ...they all fall in love eventually ...have two babies...and buy a minivan...😆

Thats not the point...yes Paro is gentle and caring...and all that is well and good...but that does not mean he should be so willing to follow all her instructions...for example...she says don't look at me...look up...and he does WHAT? Looks up!!!!!Why? Why didn't he dare to look at Paro...it wouldn't have harmed her...would it?

and I really hated it that they were equating his independent streak as something a janwar would have and that is to be abhorred...

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ipkrr
I feel the Major is very soon going to revert to usual - so the creatives are comfortable with him making puppy eyes at the moment - to distinguish from when he goes back to his earlier self.
I agree with you Sush - for me the romance between Rudra and Paro was tame this week and missing the usual spark of excitement.

It's Paro's character that needs more definition and spark - something more than blind adoration.

CVs are making Laila appear wild, untamed and exotic and Paro with the goody two shoes image then comes across as boring.

I agree...Laila and KCM scene had more spark today!

Parud scenes were missing the usual spunk...the spark... Paro is Ms. Goody two shoes and the Major is acting to compliant...not my idea of romance...too lame...

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asmi279

@asmi279

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Sush-

Hi Asmi...things that are formed hard...take time to change...The process of change is what interest me...not the result by itself...

Agreed..that's wat I m saying..the change ws gradual..it did take time..n the process wl happen..js nt at the same time :)