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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: babulaal



Hmm , you mean to say they all are hypocrite where Rudy is honest , I agree on it , Rudra dont preach ,he is not proudy like Asr ,Maan ,Rk , he is simple , he dont preach and show
doublestandard (like Maan ,Asr they were hypocrite , used to preach but did not used to follow their preaching themselves ) . This thing i like in Rudra he is very ok in his not-so-perfect life style and personality

Rk too had abandoned issue ,he also falls in Rudra category, other 2's (Maan,Asr) issue were stupid 😆


LOL.. i dont literally mean that they were hypocrites, but i could never swallow their reasons or personality and the characterisations never intriguied me as much as Rudra's. so may be its the actors or the writing or the characters.

As you said Rudra is honest, he knows and agrees with the fact that he is a very bitter person, he is jallad, he is capable of hurting Paro. he does not think high of himself, infact he degrades himself, and thats says a lot.

and about RK, dont know much, but from whatever i have seen is that his biggest issue was his ego. blatant and male ego. and he was selfish too, that was one unique thing about him though.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: DexterRocks


he still loves her, infact how can we all forget Laila's words? she had told him in his face that how his every move expresses his love for Paro.
Th only difference now is that, before he could easily rome around with his feelings as he knew that she hates him, and thus no second thought or query he had. He believed that she would continue hating the jallad he is and thus he would never struggle with his feelings.
But now when she fell for him like crazy, he is just left hopeless, neither his tactics of dissing her is working and nor his rude or curt behaviour, but yes for once the poisoning worked as she is ready to leave him now, and what a fate he has, its now that he genuinely wants her with him, esp after the jaipur journey. moreover, she is making him believe that how she is his life and she wants to give him happiness, which he is believing also, but then she herself is preparing to leave him in that state again ?
I can only feel bad for him. Paro will be content in her mind that yes i have sacrificed for my major saab and he must be happy, but what about him ? once again the brutal betrayal, the isolation, the incomplete love he had felt. its tragic.

and yes, Paro's character loses teh charm more because she is restricted to a typical hindi serial female lead, no extra charm or x-factor, and the worst is when they make her do so much melodrama as they did today .

I never said rudra dxnt luv her its just that his or shall i say their luv isnt complete yet this is the most cliched sayin ov hindi serials i-e trust is the base ov all relations nd rudra just hz those trust issues cuz ov his mum+paro needs to understand the depth ov his wounds oh nd btw i think paro hz all the x factor in the world u dont get to see many women wearing backless blouse nd such fashionable clothes in rajasthan nd therez no spice in the show without melodrama if u dun lyk smthin then dun watch it simple
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maano_billi

I never said rudra dxnt luv her its just that his or shall i say their luv isnt complete yet this is the most cliched sayin ov hindi serials i-e trust is the base ov all relations nd rudra just hz those trust issues cuz ov his mum+paro needs to understand the depth ov his wounds oh nd btw i think paro hz all the x factor in the world u dont get to see many women wearing backless blouse nd such fashionable clothes in rajasthan nd therez no spice in the show without melodrama if u dun lyk smthin then dun watch it simple


i wouldn't watch the show if i would not fall for Rudra...

and yes about Paro's having a xfactor, i meant with her characterisation and not with her dressing sense.😆.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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😊it does hurt and leave a bitter test when some people think taht they understand the characters more than the writers of the character and start to bash the characters to justify their ownselves. however the characters are only to entertain you but we take them vey serious at times and forget to be entertained and rather make ourself tensed and confused. I believe that we should take it with the flow of story and left ourself for entertainment only bkz at the end it's not our story or our created characters. So let the creatives do their job. I don't mind criticism but to bash in name of criticism is not enjoyable.😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raabail

😊it does hurt and leave a bitter test when some people think taht they understand the characters more than the writers of the character and start to bash the characters to justify their ownselves. however the characters are only to entertain you but we take them vey serious at times and forget to be entertained and rather make ourself tensed and confused. I believe that we should take it with the flow of story and left ourself for entertainment only bkz at the end it's not our story or our created characters. So let the creatives do their job. I don't mind criticism but to bash in name of criticism is not enjoyable.😊



Well said 👏
I'm just going to sit back and just enjoy RR
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Posted: 11 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: ttt1


appreciate DR for not turning this into a war field , we can agree or dis agree that is a different thing but what is the fun if views are one directional if we all agree , multidimensional views make the forum interesting😊

i agree with you areyaar , about the closure thing
some deal with issues ,some dont

paro she faced many betrayals too , mami refusing to identify her , takur's U turn , but yes she didnt have a reason to hate her life , she dealt with it , she got a chance to move ahead ,

she has something to look forward to when one track ended , she based it on this eternal faith that she is with a man who is meant to be with her through out life , her life partner and she can there fore deal with his anger but now the scene has changed

she doesnt own anything at all in this world except this relationship , which has come with a expiry date , she put it on it

now this is a situation to deal with , be with the
man she loves knowing that she has to leave him they are not meant to be together
now how she deals with this will be good to see , i want to see paro's emotions and fear being explored in this track

the last thing i want to see is every day lecture on how to deal with life

the very faith that kept her from collapsing is the faith she is not going to be alone , exactly opposite to rudra's feeling that he is alone

now she is going to reinforce his belief that people are not meant to stay they leave or she is going to develop a sense of reasoning that leaving him doesnt mean for her happiness
lets see how they play it out



Disagreements are most welcome...no one is saying that everyone has to agree on everything...but it seems people here would rather resort to mockery than having a constructive discussion...oh well...their choice.


Re: Paro...exactly...she has gotten closure at every point and more importantly, a very SOUND and well rounded UPBRINGING...and upbringing plays a HUGE part in shaping an individual's psyche...Paro is emotionally stronger than Rudra, no doubt...and that is because of her upbringing...and her intentions are ofcourse for his best...she wants him to stop being angry at the whole world and himself and actually break through these shackles he cages himself in and embrace life again...but for that she needs to have some more DEPTH in her perception and understanding of him...This is not as simple as simply turning the stove off and the water will stop boiling (the example she gave yesterday to him)...This water isn't simply boiling, it's poisonous too...so how do you seperate the poison? Just turning the gas off won't do it, Paro ji.


A lot of people have twisted this whole argument around into "Why does Paro have to be the one to understand Rudra?" Umm because she CHOSE to? Let's rewind, shall we? WHO ran after whom WANTING to marry him? CLAIMING to be his wife? That would be the great Paro Baisa herself...so she herself has CHOSEN to run after him, "understand" him, fix him, win his love, whatever she calls it...If she's chosen to be mahaan about this whole thing, then yeah she'll have to be the one to go the distance in understanding him too...He has time and again told her to NOT bother with trying to unravel the maze that he is but she doesn't listen...so she will have to be the one to make the bigger effort to understand his past...cuz her past/present is an open book for everyone...nothing to even decipher or interpret there...Rudra can only start to understand her better if SHE gives him GENUINE understanding first rather than general lectures.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey DR, this is a bang on post. And i would like to tell you that you are brave and very calm to take all these mockery and stil prove your point.
yes i also have felt that Paro does not know Rudra, she is delusional in her beliefs and thinks too strong of herself . she thinks she can control Rudra's life and she thinks that is her right, eventhough Rudra did not give her the right yet.
the moment she said that how long will he hate her, i felt like shutting her up. Lady please come back from your own world and see the reality. If Rudra has prejudices, then she also has some. I cannot understand that how can she be so confident and tell him that the problem lies within him, without thinking that even she could be at fault. I have always noticed one thing in Paro's character that she always takes her actions as the right ones and does not see beyond them, and expects others to follow her which is very wrong.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: babulaal



Hmm , you mean to say they all are hypocrite where Rudy is honest , I agree on it , Rudra dont preach ,he is not proudy like Asr ,Maan ,Rk , he is simple , he dont preach and show
doublestandard (like Maan ,Asr they were hypocrite , used to preach but did not used to follow their preaching themselves ) . This thing i like in Rudra he is very ok in his not-so-perfect life style and personality

Rk too had abandoned issue ,he also falls in Rudra category, other 2's (Maan,Asr) issue were stupid 😆



The reason I feel Rudra is different from the typical Gul Khan characters is cuz his torment, his demons are sketched out in a better fashion...firstly I like that he's not a BUSINESSMAN...thank god, I'm sick of those typical professions...he's actually got HONOR in his profession as a Major...and he's not a vanilla type of dark character like Gul Khan heroes are...one angry look here, one pinning against the wall scene there, one slow motion eye lock here, one dupatta flying there and love story complete...Rudra is almost surprisingly TENDER even as a dark character...he's not abusive in the typical fashion that all those Gul Khan manhandling heroes are. His awkwardness with emotions is very interestingly shown in many ways thanks to Ashish's superb acting too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

I have always noticed one thing in Paro's character that she always takes her actions as the right ones and does not see beyond them, and expects others to follow her which is very wrong.



LOL that's not Paro's fault...that is the TYPICAL characterization of every female lead in daily soaps...the "I am the only one who knows what's right" complex...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar



The reason I feel Rudra is different from the typical Gul Khan characters is cuz his torment, his demons are sketched out in a better fashion...firstly I like that he's not a BUSINESSMAN...thank god, I'm sick of those typical professions...he's actually got HONOR in his profession as a Major...and he's not a vanilla type of dark character like Gul Khan heroes are...one angry look here, one pinning against the wall scene there, one slow motion eye lock here, one dupatta flying there and love story complete...Rudra is almost surprisingly TENDER even as a dark character...he's not abusive in the typical fashion that all those Gul Khan manhandling heroes are. His awkwardness with emotions is very interestingly shown in many ways thanks to Ashish's superb acting too.
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i needed to qoute this one.. yes GUL KHAN and her form of alpha males are different from Saurabh tewary and his forms of alpha male . ST has given two genuine and hard hitting characters like RK and Rudra who are completely different from each other, whereas in case of Gul, i literally cannot distinguish between arnav, asad and maan. heck, i am a girl too, but still no feels.


@bold:- ahh i think nobody explains him so well like you do. he is a dark character which we don't even want to become white , instead the way the darkness and his nature is shown is very raw and intriguing. and yes, the actors also do have a vast contrbution here, its Ashish who breathes life in Rudra, and he deserves a hoot for being so believable. its not easy to sympathesize with a character like Rudra, unless the actor portrays the complexity and layers so smoothly.

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