Yes Paro, you really do not know Rudra . - Page 11

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

i wouldn't watch the show if i would not fall for Rudra...

and yes about Paro's having a xfactor, i meant with her characterisation and not with her dressing sense.😆.

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

hehehe, Ashish and his eyes, does a lot of damage to my delicate mind though. i agree, eventhough he is shown as arrogant, i always find the tenderness and the delicateness, whenever he handles paro atleast, and yes i don't mean that in him bein tender physically..LOL

for instance, remember, how he had warned her not to interfere in maithili's life because this family will never care for Paro's genuine worries. Once maithili had been curt and asked Paro to stay out of her personal matter, that very moment Rudra comes and holds her hand, and yes the tenderness in his eyes to soother her, his words were harsh but his actions still meant that didn't i say you ? why don't you understand. one of my fav PaRud moments.

and what more can i throw here as an example, people who have watched yesterday's episode must have already known that how Rudra's eyes speak louder than his words. I am still in awee of tha look and his " paroo' chant in the hospital.

Originally posted by: Crystal29

Very nice discussion going on here! 👍🏼

My two cents on who should understand who here. 😆The issue here is that there has been not much going on since the Tejawat climax which we can attribute to growth in relationship or understanding here. I felt when there was this captive-captor track in full swing, there was more of meaningful conversations even though they were literally fighting in every other scene.

It has been established for long now that they share a bond. There is some level of understanding too. But after that we had the public proposal, hate marriage, jaipur. Yes they are getting closer, but no there is no complete understanding. So I am completely with Rudra when he says you don't know me completely. Even Paro tells Rudra when she was drunk that to understand her better he needs to look into her heart. Which is true too. When that is acceptable, then this is too. More so on Rudra's side because from time to time he has told her not to go with what she sees. He is more of a stone and filled with poison inside. Paro is all transparent. She is what you see.

To get past this stagnant phase of relationship they are in, there needs to be a dhamaka of an outburst from Rudra on what is really inside him. Which is when it will sink into Paro too..Without that if Paro will claim that she gets him totally, then my personal reaction would be - When did that happen?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I agree...Maithili seems to have him pegged better than Paro does actually😆...Ironic, no? Considering she's known him for a shorter time than Paro has...but then she has an advantage...Rudra is more successful at hiding his concern for Paro when she's awake...Maithili has seen his panic for Paro first-hand and processed it perceptively...while Paro views things more in the symbolic fashion...I guess also the fact that Maithili is more evolved in her womanhood while Paro is still an innocent girl not really having blossomed into womanhood yet.

But yeah basically Maithili has aptly termed it as a mask and excuses that Rudra uses to push Paro away otherwise he very well knows the truth of her innocence...there is a reason for why he pushes Paro away...but that reason even Maithili hasn't processed really...only Dilsher understands I guess.

Originally posted by: Crystal29

Very nice discussion going on here! 👍🏼

My two cents on who should understand who here. 😆The issue here is that there has been not much going on since the Tejawat climax which we can attribute to growth in relationship or understanding here. I felt when there was this captive-captor track in full swing, there was more of meaningful conversations even though they were literally fighting in every other scene.

even those fightings had some extra magic. every word from both Paro and Rudra had so much meaning and depth. i understood paro better in those days.

It has been established for long now that they share a bond. There is some level of understanding too. But after that we had the public proposal, hate marriage, jaipur. Yes they are getting closer, but no there is no complete understanding. So I am completely with Rudra when he says you don't know me completely. Even Paro tells Rudra when she was drunk that to understand her better he needs to look into her heart. Which is true too. When that is acceptable, then this is too. More so on Rudra's side because from time to time he has told her not to go with what she sees. He is more of a stone and filled with poison inside. Paro is all transparent. She is what you see.

yes exactly, when Paro said that he has to look in her heart to understand her, Rudra genuinely accepted it, he accepts the fact that he doesn't know and understand her . and therefore he does not ever claim it also. Incase of Paro, whenever Rudra says the same, she actually mocks him and takes his words as lightly as that he is joking. he understands that she is not taking him seriously, but he says it again and again and he will keep saying it unless one day he actually bursts out and pours his heart in front of her.

To get past this stagnant phase of relationship they are in, there needs to be a dhamaka of an outburst from Rudra on what is really inside him. Which is when it will sink into Paro too..Without that if Paro will claim that she gets him totally, then my personal reaction would be - When did that happen?

yes but then the outburst requires a lot of motivation and strength, which Rudra is slowly gaining but will lose once paro leaves him. It will bring him back to that isolation once again that the lady who claimed to love and understand him has left him in solitude. and paro will be all content that yes i understand major saab, and i have given him his desire and left him for his own good.😆 ..

Originally posted by: Maano_billi

Umm how on earth the characterization hz got nethin to do wid x factor😕 the only prob in her characterization is how any dignified woman wud react in some situations nd how mythology is being illogically portrayed in her beliefs nd actions not to mention the countless times she has been humiliatefd against the rights nd self respect ov any woman otherwise i dun see any other probs wid her character let alone x factor

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@blue: Oh yes, I remember that scene...and even scenes since then...he doesn't manhandle her in the typical sense and his eyes are in direct contrast to his harsh words...which is exactly what Paro points out and latches onto...she's also fidaa over those eyes only...yeh aakhein marvaayengi😆😆

😳.. see not Paro's fault if she is this much crazy about him. even Rudra fails to understand that how come a jallad like him has impressed paro so much. he would get his answers only if he would look into the mirror and see his own eyes. he is yet to recognize his qualities, instead he just recognizes his jalladgiri and ants every1 to believe in that.

Yes, yesterday was really something...Rudra hardly got much screen-time but he stole the whole epi in my opinion with just those few brief moments of the way he uttered her name and the look in his eyes when he sees her...like she is the source of his sustenance...beautifully done by Ashish.

beautiful it was. and symbolism was also there that how she took her name b4 fainting and even after gaining his sense. that thing itself explains Rudra as wholly, that how she runs in his each breath. yes, the episode as i said was melodramatic otherwise, with the exception of this scene, and then the " pair..chot..doctor " brilliant indeed, he wanted to smack something oevr someone once Aman said that Paro had gone to the temple barefooted. Ahh thats my Rudy boy now.