I don't know how to feel about Paro. - Page 2

Originally posted by: rockystar22

Well i do not feel anything for Paro's character after the mahaepi...

I have said it a thousand times that i cant relate to her... No humans can relate to a totally white character like Parvati ... She sometimes thinks that she is godess parvati herself 😆

I am actually happy if paro suffers after this cause she asked for it and i hope after this hate marriage she gets a reality check and stop living in dilusional world

Originally posted by: .Kiran.

Hey Priyanka. Good to see you:) I love Paro and I think her love is more of that divine love where she sees nothing except Rudra. She's so adamant to make him believe how innocent and pure her love is that she doesn't realize the amount of harm she's causing him. I love her but it's hard to relate to her. More so because I'm a mere human, extremely flawed and grey unlike Paro who's totally white. Her actions do make sense to me (Thanks to MKM's posts😆) but I really hope after today's incident she realizes the mess she has caused. I am hoping this will be her realization of the real world and real Rudra. It's obvious marriage will go through but I'm sincerely hoping she gives Rudra some space. I would love it if she stays away from him and wouldn't interfere much in his life. That's how he will realize her importance, his own feelings. Pushing herself down his throat won't help at all. If anything, he will feel suffocated around her. This much needed break will give her sometime and space to realize her own feelings clearly as well.

As they say, if you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they are yours. If not, then they were never yours in first place.

Originally posted by: samirao

It's all cvs fault , now RR looks like the show about RUDRA , his feelings his emotions his lost only about him , and for PARO just sacrifice , and stupid wish to b with him , insult and only insult for her

This show is about Rudra actually. From what I have understood and even the title and the title rack, Rudra is her RangRasiya. As MKM said, this show is about seeing Rudra from Paro's eyes.

Though I do wish Paro realizes the mess she has caused and steps away from him for a while.

Originally posted by: savvy05

Marriage is happening - fact. What we can hope is for Paro to see the reality - rather rudely but absolute necessary at this point. Her earnestness has made her insulated, she is no longer cognizant of how she is driving Rudra away from her. I agree with you, I can no longer relate to this Paro.. last time I could understand her was when she went with Thakur after landing a blow on Rudra. Even in such a state of absolute hatred... she was tearful, regretful of her actions - from that to what happened in ME and after that😕

Word.

Please do separate the actor from the character. Things always get ugly when talk turns to real life actors. I really don't want to drag Sanaya into this. I love her work and always will. Lets stick to talking about Paro, the fictional character, she's the one I have a problem understanding.

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

What are supposed to feel for her? Sympathy? Hatred? Confused? Probably the third one.

It's a shame the writers did not explore or establish her side enough for us to feel anything definitive for her. On the contrary, I've been feeling very disconnected from her ever since the maha episode where she turned into a completely different person. She hasn't made much sense to me since that time. This always happens with female leads in every show. They start off with a well defined character that we all enjoy and get invested in only to have her get lost along the way...it's a damn shame.

If only they had enough guts to not go the cliched way...like the dreadful hate marriage saga (god I hate that phrase, so tacky and overused in Indian dramas). But going by the rumors, spoilers, and previews...it appears that is exactly the direction we are headed in. Even though it makes absolutely no sense. Why would Paro let this marriage happen after seeing how much Rudra loathes her? She was portrayed as a compassionate person from the start. Why is she suddenly oblivious to the amount of pain she herself is causing him? She sees it clearly and yet she is sticking around. This is not Paro. So I don't know how much impact a hate marriage would have right now. If Rudra is harsh with her, it will fall flat...because when I don't even feel sorry for her, why would him hurting her affect me? If they share intimate moments, it will feel empty because there is too much animosity and uncertainty surrounding their very confusing relationship.

I would really love for the makers to prove me wrong, throw in a twist and not have them get married. Instead of a nonsensical marriage, have Paro find a way to clear Rudra's name first. Then prove to him that she is innocent without a shadow of a doubt. Then step away, stop forcing her feelings onto him, let him come to that realization on his own. Only then will she start making sense to me again.

Hey Priyanka 🤗 The CVs have been trying to portray a hackneyed theme in a different light.. they did not deny this fact either.. they said that their serial was no different but was presented in a grand scale.. so they did not promise anything novel... so I am not surprised to see that they have not done their homework on portraying Paro... CVs are as confused as Paro... 😆

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Hey Priyanka 🤗 The CVs have been trying to portray a hackneyed theme in a different light.. they did not deny this fact either.. they said that their serial was no different but was presented in a grand scale.. so they did not promise anything novel... so I am not surprised to see that they have not done their homework on portraying Paro... CVs are as confused as Paro... 😆

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Hi Kiran, lovely to see you too!! Please explain to me how her actions make sense because I just don't get it! I don't even see her as totally white anymore. I am seeing her as more of a "grey" character than Rudra...which is ironic given the premise of the show! But he is the one being tortured by her so really, who is the grey character here? Now even if her treats her like dirt, I won't feel sorry for her because she can see how her presence upsets him, how much turmoil she caused him...and yet she will stick around and keep hurting him...makes no sense to me.

Awh Priyanka 🤗 Paro isnt grey in any way which is why its extremely hard to relate to her. She doesn't mean harm to anyone. From her side, she believes that she and Rudra are meant to be, so they have to be together. She believes her Bholenath has given her enough signs and now its her duty to make it happen. I think what she thinks is that Rudra is mad at her for not believing him, hitting him on his head, running away and then burning his dad. She doesnt actually see that hes not mad at her but actually mad at himself. Its pretty weird how she can see through his eyes in every matter but this😆 But then that's what happens when you are in love( not really love. Its more like infatuation, crush in our sense). From personal experience I know, if I have a crush on someone, I fail to see the obvious things, I act stupid and make a fool out of myself. Similarly, in Paro's case she actually doesnt realize that he isnt upset with her for hitting him or running away. And to make matter better or worse, she compares herself and Rudra with Shivji and Parvatiji's story. So you see that's why she's hell bent on showing him the same without realizing that they are mere humans in this material world. This world is different from the world she's dreaming in. She's too naive to realize that. I think Rudra knows that too. He knows her well enough but is being rude to her, yelling at her, being harsh on her to push her away from him.

But its true that her actions have cost Rudra his job, his pride, his honor. Everything he lived for was snatched away from him and those accusations were pretty harsh. He didn't deserve this. That's why now Paro needs to realize that she needs to see the other side. She needs to see the reality, real Rudra. She needs to realize what real love is. She needs to give him space. She needs to give herself some break to actually realize the depth of her own feelings. She needs to understand the repercussions of her own actions. She needs to understand Rudra as well.

The way Paro confessed her feelings made me wanna slap her then myself. And not because it was embarrassing (love rises above embarrassment) but because it really wasn't the right place to do that. He was be awarded, she knew he hated her and blamed her for Bapu-sa's condition, all of the BSD officers and then some were there!

Sure, people do stupid things in love... But love also makes us more understanding towards the one we love and Paro is failing there especially since she was supposed to be compassionate. She has lost her parents so why can't she understand what he is going through seeing his father like that and having (in his mind) proof that it was her doing.

The whole chanting, standing on one leg in the rain as Bapu-sa woke up brought a little hope for me. And I guess I also understand how necessary it must be for her to have his forgiveness, especially now. But this hate marriage... I really really want Paro to not go through I'm with it. I don't want her character to go down the drain.