I don't know how to feel about Paro. - Page 5

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel as though the writers have consciously made these characters very confusing. There are facets of both Rudra and Paro that I relate to, but not either of them wholly. However, the way they are written reflects how we think in reality. In real life, do we see everything as black and white? Aren't there times/situations where we are just perplexed, not knowing how to feel about them? It's the same thing here. Neither character is supposed to be relatable or easy to understand. They both do things that we, in the real world, would never fathom doing. Yet they do them anyway - why? I don't have the answer, but asking the kinds of questions you are is the exactly what a story like this should elicit from us. It's not to understand or relate, but to see the journey these tortured, dysfunctional souls are embarking upon.

Paro, in my mind, has never really been relatable - from the beginning of the show. I found her to be bland in the beginning, quite frankly. What I have seen and now like is her gradual progression - she has begun going after what she wants, not what others have given her. That is great character development for someone who used a childhood-taught prejudice as her main reason for hating Rudra and BSD, to a girl who saved herself and then went after the man she loves. We might all disagree on her reasoning and methods, but she did them at her own conviction, right? That is more important to me, than anything else. The freedom of choice. Also, I really believe (yes, I still have faith in the CVs) that Paro will grow even more, to the point where she even might explode.

That's why, for the most part, I am at peace with the pace of the show and the characters. It's not ideal, but who wants ideal? I want interesting and that's what I'm getting daily from RR. Besides, it's their story, not mine, so I'm keen on seeing how it unfolds.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi


Sunara my dear, thank you for all the links...I have bookmarked them and promise to read them. I think I have read most of them, I love how beautifully you talk about Paro. But my question is similar to the one Swathi asked, why do we have to come here and read the analysis of members to understand Paro when that is the writers job? I think it is unfair and the writers are doing a huge disservice to the character by turning her into this strange girl who is very hard to understand or relate to.

To be honest, I'm still watching this show only for Sanaya as I will always be a huge fan of her and her talent. Yes this is the first time we disagreed but it's okay hun, I always love you 🤗
Sorry I've been so inactive on FB, will see you soon <3


Pri i understand what u said, about needing people to tell u what she is like.
The thing is that last link I gave u was the POV of a TRP viewer who doesn't even know IF exists or talks on serials happen.
Those layman audience get her unlike us highly educated internet savvy bunch.. So i think its us who needs the guidelines cz we r just so indignant that a girl wouldn' t just sock him and leave!
But the rest of the India, the traditional ones understand this more clearly and admire Paro.

Anyway me too always love u sweetie! I was upset earlier too.. so i can understand! If u read back my own posts 2 weeks back u will see the same thing - but the thing is I got Paro through my own eyes, not reading posts - though I did read quite a few who had said what i now understand.
Somehow the fact that she makes her own choices for a girl of her background is empowerment for me..

anyway see u around soon! 🤗

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