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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rashika

Beautiful post.
Very good analysis.


Originally posted by: -bazinga-

A very nice post I must say

You have correctly analyzed paro and the new promo



Thank you.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Paro is a traditional girl marriage is no joke for her, there has to be a very good explanation to this situation. I'm going to wait to see how the story unfolds right now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Raichu-

Not completely convinced ! It's too sudden to digest this explanation !

Let's see!


No problem. You're entitled to your opinion.

This is simply a theory and it seemed plausible to me.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _SilverLining_

Fab post!
The analysis was really good but somehow I'm not really as convinced as I should be. Is it really that simple? I mean marriage is a big step! That too esp for a gal lyk Paro! Its one thing to prove your innocence to the man you respect, to take care of him in need and probably start loving him in the process but that's just the starting, it's a totally diff thing to jump into marriage all of a sudden. Two people need to fall in love with each other properly before even thinking about marriage, I think Paro knows that.
I still can't get my head wrapped around the idea of Paro marrying Rudra just out of love, as of yet. And I think there's more to it. Well let's just wait n watch.
Just my two pence. U write wonderfully btw:)



Thank you.

Yes, marriage is definitely a big step. I am sure we will get an explanation as to why Paro will decide to marry Rudra all of sudden. It could be what I am thinking or could be something else entirely. At this stage, it is only a theory.

Views regarding marriage differ. While some believe in falling in love first, others are perfectly fine with arranged marriages. I don't think falling in love with each other properly is a must for someone like Paro...after all she had given her consent to marry Varun without even seeing him.

But you could be right...maybe there is more to it.

Let's see what the cvs have in store for us.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

Paro is a traditional girl marriage is no joke for her, there has to be a very good explanation to this situation. I'm going to wait to see how the story unfolds right now.



I hope they give us a good explanation. This is going to be a high point in the show.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The simplicity of Paro is beautifully captured in you simple but extremely impactfull analysis. Well written!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: incandescent



Thank you.

Yes, marriage is definitely a big step. I am sure we will get an explanation as to why Paro will decide to marry Rudra all of sudden. It could be what I am thinking or could be something else entirely. At this stage, it is only a theory.

Views regarding marriage differ. While some believe in falling in love first, others are perfectly fine with arranged marriages. I don't think falling in love with each other properly is a must for someone like Paro...after all she had given her consent to marry Varun without even seeing him.

But you could be right...maybe there is more to it.

Let's see what the cvs have in store for us.

Great posts by both of you.Having been the only one in my family to have a love marriage I can truly say that in the end my sisters marriages are just as successful.If indeed I had not fallen in love Iwould have been quite happy to accept a man on a basis of compatability and then hopefully fallen head over heals in love with him.It is a matter of upbringing,my mother always taught me that the man you marry will become your soul mate.In Paros case she has had such little exposure to men in general and with her traditional upbringing Rudra is her saviour in all ways.In her mind he is her datta though she has not yet realised that she is steadily falling fot him too.She is automaticly drawn to him because she wants him to be her rakshak as he has always been.
Of course hr is super hot but I suppose Parobai sa will think of that only after marriage!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I was a bit upset about the whole shadi scenario but now after reading your perception, it doesn't feel that bad. Thanks for sharing your views!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good take on the reasons why...

Paro is being bold knowing deep down Rudra will be there for her no matter what.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mrsp


Great posts by both of you.Having been the only one in my family to have a love marriage I can truly say that in the end my sisters marriages are just as successful.If indeed I had not fallen in love Iwould have been quite happy to accept a man on a basis of compatability and then hopefully fallen head over heals in love with him.It is a matter of upbringing,my mother always taught me that the man you marry will become your soul mate.In Paros case she has had such little exposure to men in general and with her traditional upbringing Rudra is her saviour in all ways.In her mind he is her datta though she has not yet realised that she is steadily falling fot him too.She is automaticly drawn to him because she wants him to be her rakshak as he has always been.
Of course hr is super hot but I suppose Parobai sa will think of that only after marriage!

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I agree with both of u. But u both got my point wrong. I know about arranged marriages but from what I see, Paro's marriage is not at all an arranged marriage. It is love marriage since the girl herself is proposing the boy and for that I feel she has to be in love with him and realise it too. Even for a girl like Paro I think that is quite important. That's why I think there's more to it than just a simple love-marriage track.

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