It is simple why she wants to marry Rudra

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SingaporeFan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Beautifully explained...ahe is a simple pure hearted girl and guess she believes he's her destiny...

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_
I agree with both of u. But u both got my point wrong. I know about arranged marriages but from what I see, Paro's marriage is not at all an arranged marriage. It is love marriage since the girl herself is proposing the boy and for that I feel she has to be in love with him and realise it too. Even for a girl like Paro I think that is quite important. That's why I think there's more to it than just a simple love-marriage track.

Paro is a simple girl who wanted to marry a man who will cherish her, care for her and protect her. She sees in Rudra all these characteristics, so she trusts that her future lies with him. Its more about trust for her at this moment than love. She feels safe with him so wants to hold on to that forever. When she sees him at the temple where she was praying for direction, she believes that bholenath is guiding her towards Rudra.

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goguma

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Posted: 11 years ago

#43

thanks for the lovely post, Fari.

she has wronged him, because her mind overtook her heart ...

and now that her mind is clear, she will follow her heart, which has always been on him ...

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incandescent

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: HARRY3010
nice one 👍🏼

Thank you.

Originally posted by: priyeah1
The simplicity of Paro is beautifully captured in you simple but extremely impactfull analysis. Well written!

Thank you.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#45

the reason she wants to marry rudra is because she isn't self-reliant and lacks self-respect.

Anybody treated the way she was should have walked out.

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-UnknownSoul-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: TheSnowman
the reason she wants to marry rudra is because she isn't self-reliant and lacks self-respect.
Anybody treated the way she was should have walked out.

i think you don't watch the show.. oh wait you don't! you only watch laila scenes

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Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: mrsp

Great posts by both of you.Having been the only one in my family to have a love marriage I can truly say that in the end my sisters marriages are just as successful.If indeed I had not fallen in love Iwould have been quite happy to accept a man on a basis of compatability and then hopefully fallen head over heals in love with him.It is a matter of upbringing,my mother always taught me that the man you marry will become your soul mate.In Paros case she has had such little exposure to men in general and with her traditional upbringing Rudra is her saviour in all ways.In her mind he is her datta though she has not yet realised that she is steadily falling fot him too.She is automaticly drawn to him because she wants him to be her rakshak as he has always been.
Of course hr is super hot but I suppose Parobai sa will think of that only after marriage!

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Thank you.

At bold - that's what I think as well.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: shirinfarhaad
I was a bit upset about the whole shadi scenario but now after reading your perception, it doesn't feel that bad. Thanks for sharing your views!

Thanks. I am glad I could make you feel better.

Originally posted by: Barunsanaya1
good one

Thanks.

Originally posted by: VancouverBC
Good take on the reasons why...

Paro is being bold knowing deep down Rudra will be there for her no matter what.

Exactly. thanks.

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1sarun

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

Beautifully written, enjoyed reading it.

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incandescent

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Posted: 11 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: _SilverLining_
I agree with both of u. But u both got my point wrong. I know about arranged marriages but from what I see, Paro's marriage is not at all an arranged marriage. It is love marriage since the girl herself is proposing the boy and for that I feel she has to be in love with him and realise it too. Even for a girl like Paro I think that is quite important. That's why I think there's more to it than just a simple love-marriage track.

Yes, you're right. It's not an arranged marriage at all since she is proposing herself. I am not saying it's an arranged marriage either...what I meant was being in love isn't a must for someone like Paro. I was speaking generally. I am afraid you misunderstood my point too. 😳

Paro still isn't consciously aware of the fact that she has fallen for him...at least we haven't seen it yet. In order to propose, she has to come to some sort of realization...where she understands she has fallen for him...or that this is Bholenath's will.

What I am saying is that these could be her thoughts before proposing...maybe she would draw this conclusion and make up her mind to marry Rudra.

Edited by incandescent - 11 years ago