To be betrayed...there has to be trust first! - Page 4

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Posted: 11 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Totally agree.. There is no trust lost between the two warring parties.. It is Tejawat who has not only betrayed Paro but has taken the entire village and his wife for a jolly good ride. Paro trusted Tejawat all through her growing years.. Similarly, Tejawat's wife left her family trusting him to be a noble and righteous man.. Both ladies are in for a rude shock..

thanks lala...the betrayal Paro will feel tomorrow will change her forever. I hope she comes out of this stronger than ever.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: showviewer

Thank you for this much needed post. Betrayal only happens when one promises another something and then goes against the committment. Here Paro never promised to side Rudra against Thakur. She always stays true to her beliefs, that is what she did today.

u r welcome show viewer...exactly, there is a feeling of betrayal when there is mutual trust. Here Paro was very clear with her stance.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Frigate

You make a good point. Just goes to show how we the "viewers" can be swayed due to our knowledge of Rudra's past. Paro however, is oblivious to it and hence does not (should not) feel like she is betraying Rudra!

thanksFrigate...Paro was very clear with her decision...she would not testify against her adopted father...Rudra knew that. There is no question of betrayal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

He saved her because she is his prime witness...even today he wanted her to come to him because he didn't want Tej to win...remember his dialogue...I will not let you win this time Tejawat...he was still thinking it as his mission...to save his job whereas Paro called out when she saw the gun in-spite of knowing very well that Rudra will stand between her and freedom. My point is Rudra has his personal reasons whereas Paro was selfless. There is a huge difference.


@Madhu @ prettypri absolutely bang on write up . It's like my feeling have been summed up by you both. @ Rupunzal sorry if I misspelt yr name. Even a blind person can see & feel that Paro meant much more to him than just a witness. He let her in his that part of life where no one ever came close to . Sorry , I don't mean to sound offensive .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Harshuu


@Madhu @ prettypri absolutely bang on write up . It's like my feeling have been summed up by you both. @ Rupunzal sorry if I misspelt yr name. Even a blind person can see & feel that Paro meant much more to him than just a witness. He let her in his that part of life where no one ever came close to . Sorry , I don't mean to sound offensive .

Its your opinion that you have right to. Which part of his life did he let her in? He confided in her about his mother and childhood...he did the same with Laila. I don't even think he respects her on anyway because in number of cases he sexually harassed her...I will not even start with all the physical abuse she endured in his custody. He was on the verge to marry her knowing that she was against it ? I don't think a person behaves in such a manner believing the other person innocent.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Harshuu


@Madhu @ prettypri absolutely bang on write up . It's like my feeling have been summed up by you both. @ Rupunzal sorry if I misspelt yr name. Even a blind person can see & feel that Paro meant much more to him than just a witness. He let her in his that part of life where no one ever came close to . Sorry , I don't mean to sound offensive .

Agree dear paro means much more to him then just a witness and even a blind person can feel it and above all iy is cvs who can decide about the future track of parud how can anybody come to conclusion that she will emerge as strong or weak woman.she can even repent for hitting him and not trusting him because rr is a lovestory this show does not belong to jhansi ki rani.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i liked your post it's seams logical because Paro never trusted Rudra and the same for Rudra..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

He saved her because she is his prime witness...even today he wanted her to come to him because he didn't want Tej to win...remember his dialogue...I will not let you win this time Tejawat...he was still thinking it as his mission...to save his job whereas Paro called out when she saw the gun in-spite of knowing very well that Rudra will stand between her and freedom. My point is Rudra has his personal reasons whereas Paro was selfless. There is a huge difference.


Really??
Rudra had personal reasons because he said in addition to the soldiers memory and hs mission against Tejawat he wanted to save his own rank in BSD because he is right?
He told Tejawat he wouldn't let him win as in he wouldn't let his evil intentions win! It was not an ego battle...clearly Tejawat is wrong and Rudra is right and he js saying he will not let him win this time...!
Let's use the advantage we have as viewers...we know both sides of the story and who is evil and who is right...and think objectively...

Why do you say Paro is selfless...because she saved Rudra's life? Then what Rudra did for her was not for personal reasons either...he was fighting for his mission and soldiers above all...she was fighting for her family and he was fighting for what he thinks of as family!
She has started thinking of him as someone she can trust but the only contention was Tejawat and her belief in him...so just imagine...if she can feel safe with him inspite of the situation...why was that...he inspired that confidence in her that he would save her...it wasn't just duty!

Why does Rudra have to be completely vilified in order for Paros pain to be felt?
They are two characters caught in the circumstances and I think we can feel for both ...!


Coming to your original point that Rudra should not feel betrayed...I am sure you feel Paro should not feel guilty either...

Imagine you trust someone and that person is actually trying to kill you...someone else you think to be the enemy tries to warn you...protects you...yes...even intimidates you in attempts to make you see the truth...you resist all attempts because of your faith...you finally stand in between the person you trust and the person you think js your enemy ...you actually tell the person trying to save you that he is a killer of innocents and one who destroys lives and then you actually physically injure him and go with the evil guy...unknowingly...you simply don't know...
But finally you face the truth that the person you trusted was in fact evil and you almost get killed by him...you escape..You break down...and cry shattered for trusting that guy...who actually took away everything from you...after that storm passes won't you recall the person who was your saviour multiple times and tries to tell you the truth...wouldn't you feel bad that unknowingly you had chosen the wrong side...unknowingly you had alienated the one person who was telling you the facts...

What would a person do in that case...obviously feel bad ...maybe even try to reach out to that person...that's human nature as I understand it...


And the person from whose POV he was always right...Rudra...when he saw that stick in Paros hands after she saved Jim from the bullet...he was disbelieving because for him she has ceased being just a witness...from his POV he can't digest that...that's all there is to it!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Its your opinion that you have right to. Which part of his life did he let her in? He confided in her about his mother and childhood...he did the same with Laila. I don't even think he respects her on anyway because in number of cases he sexually harassed her...I will not even start with all the physical abuse she endured in his custody. He was on the verge to marry her knowing that she was against it ? I don't think a person behaves in such a manner believing the other person innocent.


I guess there is no point debating when you use the words sexual harassment of which there was absolutely no evidence. You obviously see this as something different than what many of us see...y will not see from any point of view than Paros...and to see her pain you feel y need to vilify Rudra more and dilute hs intentins and reasons completely...I don't want to argue anymore.
You are welcome to have your POV and stick to it.
No offense.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: INGCIV

i liked your post it's seams logical because Paro never trusted Rudra and the same for Rudra..

thanks...no, there was no trust.

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