To be betrayed...there has to be trust first! - Page 3

Originally posted by: DiyaS

For me, today the bigger betrayal is Paro's betrayal by Tejawat ... or her knowledge of the betrayal... a betrayal by a father figure, a person she respected and trusted, a person who took her under his shelter when she lost her parents, and allowed her to grow under the umbrella of his protection and the love of his wife.

In case people don't understand the enormity of the betrayal, let me put in a comparison - It is almost to a father raping his own daughter ... here a father figure for his own selfish ends, gave up his daughter to an unknown future, a future which would have held only tragedy and destruction.

To discover that fifteen years of trust and affection were all a sham, a lie ... that the person she was fighting for, was ready to give up her life for, is such an evil person ... that is a far bigger betrayal for Paro than Paro 'betraying' Rudra ... it is something that will truly shatter her. As she said, this will be the death of the old Paro ... and from the ashes a new Paro will arise.

Paro never made Rudra any promises ... she held fast to her word that she did not want to marry him. Yes, she trusted Rudra as a protector of her personal safety ... but till the end, he was forcing her into a marriage she didn't want ... and he knew she didn't want. Then where does the question of Paro 'betraying' Rudra arise from? Yes, she will regret big time that she did not believe Rudra, did not trust him enough ... but she has not betrayed him.

very well said...she has not betrayed him because she never promised him anything. On the contrary she was very clear where she stood. Paro will be shattered when she finds out the truth about Tej because he was her adopted father...she will learn the lessons of life in the hard way. But there is nothing regrettable in not trusting Rudra either because he never gave her any evidence against Tej...Paro cannot be blamed for not trusting Rudra either.

Originally posted by: princessunara

awesome post! completely agree!!

thanks Sunara...just got inspired today to write a post. Paro will emerge as very strong once she visualizes Tej's true face.

Originally posted by: Madhushesha

I am not sure what show you guys are looking at, but Rudra and Paro definitely trusted, not completely, but trust was there. Paro did not trust Rudra regarding his accusations about Tejwat; however, she trusted him as her protector from everyone else. Rudra trusted Paro, but could not understand her reasons for supporting Tejwat. He admired her strength and conviction, but never directly complimented her on it, because is reason was given indirectly that she did not support the truth. Rudra believes that Paro is innocent, which is mentioned in his conversation with Aman, but he also believe and correctly so that she is the key to arresting Tejwat. After Paro save his life, he didn't expect her to do so, nor did he trust that Paro was capable of such a act, after all, Rudra has always been her savior from everyone else, including Tejwat. So trust did exist between the two.

Good one. Innumerable times he saved her life , she never felt repulsed by his touch, went to apply ointment , his reaction on number of times when Laila or kaki tried to harm her , speaks volumes. His reaction to the blood on her face vs Laila's speaks volumes too. His feeling betrayed is justified, my opinion. The intensity with wich he said the ' kharonch ' wala dialouge to Tejawat , speaks loud & clear too.

Totally agree.. There is no trust lost between the two warring parties.. It is Tejawat who has not only betrayed Paro but has taken the entire village and his wife for a jolly good ride. Paro trusted Tejawat all through her growing years.. Similarly, Tejawat's wife left her family trusting him to be a noble and righteous man.. Both ladies are in for a rude shock..

Thank you for this much needed post. Betrayal only happens when one promises another something and then goes against the committment. Here Paro never promised to side Rudra against Thakur. She always stays true to her beliefs, that is what she did today.

Originally posted by: Harshuu

Good one. Innumerable times he saved her life , she never felt repulsed by his touch, went to apply ointment , his reaction on number of times when Laila or kaki tried to harm her , speaks volumes. His reaction to the blood on her face vs Laila's speaks volumes too. His feeling betrayed is justified, my opinion. The intensity with wich he said the ' kharonch ' wala dialouge to Tejawat , speaks loud & clear too.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

the scene was his last resort to intimidate her with an emotional angle...he tried everything from seduction...from threatening...blackmailing...I am not even going to go into all the sexual harassment...Paro believes in Tejawat just the way a child believes in her parent...yes, blind faith because he and Mala has practically raised her. Believe me Paro will be the one feeling the real betrayal when she comes to know that she trusted the wrong person.

I am sorry, it's not important whether he mellowed or not...what is important though...till the last moment he did want her to sign the papers and wanted to marry her knowing very well that she refused to marry. As a matter of fact, I have a feeling he will forcibly marry her now...I think that is the only way they can be together in the same screen. What are your thoughts in this?

You make a good point. Just goes to show how we the "viewers" can be swayed due to our knowledge of Rudra's past. Paro however, is oblivious to it and hence does not (should not) feel like she is betraying Rudra!

Originally posted by: prettypri

That scene was definitely not manipulation...I am sorry lets agree to disagree. He would not use his mother and his childhood memories to manipulate her and remember she was the one who spoke about childhood trust ...he countered her...! And it was a plea to the side of her that might listen to reason over and above the blind faith in Tejawat!

Sure Paro will feel betrayed ...really bad feeling to know that your entire life and all you believed is a lie...that js separate from anything to do with Rudra...but she had to come to know...she will breakdown and question god as to why this happened...her father figure has become an evil face now!

But that does not take away that there is another POV here...Rudra from his POV will feel she chose Tejawat in spite of everything...! Right or wrong he will feel betrayed...! Just as Paro will feel guilty for not believing him even though logically she was right! She didn't know...! Those are human emotions!

If you say Paro saved him because of compassion etc...and she is so good that she even saved the ugh who destroyed her then Rudra also saved her many times...we know he stopped thinking of her as just a witness long ago...!

He saved her because she is his prime witness...even today he wanted her to come to him because he didn't want Tej to win...remember his dialogue...I will not let you win this time Tejawat...he was still thinking it as his mission...to save his job whereas Paro called out when she saw the gun in-spite of knowing very well that Rudra will stand between her and freedom. My point is Rudra has his personal reasons whereas Paro was selfless. There is a huge difference.