Glorification of a Vamp... - Page 5

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

Eve my answer was to the above terms that were provided to Laila..

I get you they were in a mutual relationship that had no marriage in it ...he has seen another woman , she has seen him look at the other woman with more passion than he looked at her with, she knows its coming to an end , but he will not admit to it (cos he is not aware of it may be)...but she thinks he is cos he is marrying her...

now the question is Laila is hurt ...badly so ...(try sleeping with a man for 8 yrs ...and have him walk away)...and its just not the sleeping its the friendship companionship et al...

she feels let down and its a justification not the glorification of that...

by labeling her the vamp you negate her of all that ...many of the discussions have been the convenience of this type of story telling...

Originally posted by: ttt1

true tangy , but i have an issue with 'this category of women' word

okay i will step the boundary here , we have fan clubs for dancers here and categorize characters

we cant even accept a dancer accepting a prostitute is far off and we categorize here, havnt watched today's episode , but laila's character except that she is not the lead doesnt have any flaw just based on physical relationship putting her into some category i feel is wrong

i dont have a issue if rudra doesnt fall for laila, love is not something that can be reciprocated to all in the same intensity , my issue is why is it she doesnt even deserve a explanation or sympathy

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi dear...how are you?

Eve...all I can say Rudra did mention twice to Laila that it doesn't seem what it looks like...I didn't like the part where he carried her and laid her on his bed...it irked me...I fast forwarded the part😆...I don't remember him doing that with Paro...honestly...for me to enjoy Parud scenes this Laila/ Rudra bed scenes need to stop. It's getting extremely distasteful.

Kab khatum hoga?

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Great post, eveline ... thank you!!!

I'm now rather fed up of the repeated posts on why Laila deserves Rudra and how he has wronged her ...

She went into this relationship with her eyes open, he promised her nothing, she was the one who built up false expectations. More fool her, to stay in a relationship for eight long years, when the man repeatedly tells her that he is not going to give her any more than what she has already got. If he didn't fall in love with her and change his mind about the status of their relationship in eight years, then she's the fool to keep her hopes high ... more than that, she is a doormat with no self respect, to keep coming back for more.

Let's hope with her character firmly established as the vamp, we have no more posts about how she deserves better. She deserves what she got ... period.

Originally posted by: eveline

Rap...nahin khatam hoga for a looonnng while...Laila is here to stay!!

Originally posted by: showviewer

Looking at things from Rudra's point of view, what you said is right, but I will not shift the entire blame on Laila either. Feelings and emotions cannot be defined or delineated so precisely. Some relations start at a particular point and change overtime with no clear plan from either party. Yes, Rudra was upfront with Laila, but he was also very aware of her growing posessivenes and obsession with him. He kept going back to her for pleasure or letting out steam. When lines blur and equations change cannot be pinpointed. Eight years is a very long time and from what we saw today even Rudra seems to know he owes Laila at least an explanation and at some level feels responsible otherwise why will he be startled to see her or take her to his room? Apart from not wanting others to find out about her identity, there was a concern, he did not simply push her aside.

I don't think it is always about sympathizing with a female character. Infact the creatives and most in this forum too look at things more from Rudra's lens and give him quite a bit of leeveway. Today Thakur knowing of Paro being alive and in Chandangadh and his goons having free access to the haveli are result of Rudra's faulty planning, and his demand for a big wedding with all rituals. In putting down Mohini he made his task of protecting Paro difficult. The lines of personal and professional are getting blurred for him and affecting his plans and his relation with Paro.

If we can give this leeveway to Rudra, Laila too can be cut some slack for how she is feeling and reacting. Relationships are complex, not clear cut like business deals and how lines get blurred is difficult to explain. Laila may not want marriage and domesticity but she did expect to be the only "woman" in his life, it maybe foolish in her part, but after a eight year relationship it is not a surprise. My take is nobody is at fault per say, human mind and heart do not function so clinically when one is in a situation, as outsiders we can be more objective.

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

^^^

Eve now that we have gotten to giving her the due of being angry ..

one cannot prescribe how one should be angry ..right...

well now they will use her anger to a convenient point where she becomes one more link to Paro's danger and eventually Rudra Paro fall in love ...

btw where did the use of Vamp come in ...to make KCM also a vamp

cos a vamp is one who uses her sexual charms to seduce a man...