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tttttt1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

To many enemy's as it is lol

😆ariel

CVs, something new please!!!!

i second that

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tttttt1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: mozart66
BANG ON post Eve!!! Well analyzed and to the point!!
Even I have had difficulty in understanding why Laila has been getting so much sympathy when she is a particular type of woman whose profession is to entertain men with no strings attached. Simple, isn't it?

I also particularly liked your view that just because Laila is a woman she has to get the sympathy however bad she behaves?! Laila I am sure has entered into this profession knowing some facts. Whether she was coerced into it ot not is not even a point here. The fact that she was happy entertaining the men is all that counts.

which profession , am i watching another show , she is a dancer and she has been in a relationship with rudra (only rudra) for 8 years

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jaya100

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Well said.

Laila entered into the agreement with her eyes open. Rudra said he didn't believe in relationships and she built her world around this statement She took solace in the belief that if she couldn't have him emotionally then neither could any other woman . I'm sure after 8 years Rudra cares about her but that doesn't mean he loves her or owes her anything. Although he hasn't yet changed his mind totally about relationships he never promised her he wouldn't in the future either...that was a gamble Laila took. In fact she took the gamble thinking it would be she who changed the equation but if she took a chance and lost that's not Rudra's problem. Laila has no right to try and establish rights over Rudra because he never gave her those rights. He never told her he loved her and always told her not to try and be his wife. While her jealousy is acceptable because she did fall for him her reaction isn't but then I guess all's fair in love and war. Personally I feel pity for Laila that she wasted 8 years of her life but have no sympathy for her because she wasn't misled and made a decision to live her life this way.

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CravingKhana

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: ttt1

which profession , was i watching another show , she is a dancer and she has been in a relationship with rudra (only rudra) for 8 years

The insinuations that she is of course a prostitute ...so be it she is one

why pray is she not entitled to feel?..

and she is particular type of woman ...is that not a a bit archaic...

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eveline

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: CravingKhana
Eve sad to say I disagree not in calling her a vamp but the rest ...
he was ready to give her only so much and she was willing to accept that ..but now she discovers he has more to give ...and that riles her cos he did not have the balls to spell it out ...

now one was coercing anyone rudra too went willingly ...

and yes she is scorned and she is spewing venom ...and she threatens to hurt rudra (fantastic scene by the way both did brilliant there)

Your calling a spade a spade is quite chilling...

she may have been the woman that he slept with and she may have enjoyed it but they have showed that she yearned for more ...

to say that a mistress does not deserve more ...is?????

Carnal satisfaction without feelings...er c'mon ...

and yes we discuss her injustice cos that is what is leading her to feel this rage ...the anger thats taking her this far ...

if not she was quite happy to dance for Paro's wedding ...

she was an ordinary woman who enjoyed her life till she felt the threat of losing it ...

He has more to give, but not to her. He cannot give her more cause she does not evoke or invoke those passions in him. The fact is she did not hold the key. She could not unleash that side of him in eight long years. She was just not the right person for it, or may be she didn't have the right attitude.

Yes, its chilling but its a waste to spend your life yearning for someone that was never committed or promised to you. Honestly, Laila is better off walking out of this with her head held high, the man didn't want her, that doesn't mean there are not others who might not appreciate her. And yes she yearns more , cause she loves what she got...what about Rudra..does he yearn more?? Does he want more??...aren't we being unfair to him here.

A mistress doesn't deserve more...don't know about that, but when the cards have been on the table since day one..the priorities and statuses clear...changing the rules in the middle of the game to get what you want...is that fair?? And also if she wanted more than why settle for mistress in the first place, why for eight long years...

And yes carnal satisfaction without feelins...errr...u and me both know that's more common and frequent nowadays than the so called true love.

Why the rage...I just don't get it. Rudra never promised her anything than why the disappointment ?? She feels cheated out of him, but he was never hers. Yes, she feels that way because he said he was not capable of those feelings and he is still not...with her...but there is some one who can make him whole again. Laila couldn't do it...its time to get out of this before its too late for her. One sided love is the most lethal of all.

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KrishnaSourav

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Thanks u so much for this post

I was like closed my eyes to see so many Laila bhajan errmmm Laila deserves symptahy post

m not going to her profession or anything

she is human not but she choose the relationship with no string attach no emotion no commitment attach n Rudra is not bound to her at all

Rudra can fall for any one...do anything it's not Laila's headache or heartache to see n think n go angry n make herself vamp but laila choose to be vamp so

does Rudra said he will never fall in love he will do what blah blah

Laila agreed till now for her also need...n she choose stay for or wait for him 8yrs it's her choice not his command but very conveniently she n few placing gun on Rudra's head as if he said it

I don't have any sympathy for Laila jitna she choose she breach the contract she assume she has misconception she did doing everything n placing the gun on Rudra's had

Sympathy to laila for what her chocie her need the from she is so broken she is so fragile used girl that we have to give sympathy

huh Laila loose her self respect n always make him treat him like that

are forget that treat her what

she also get her need equally n received same then from where till now no sting attach emotion attach an agreement coming for emotion

yes I feel sympathy for RUDRA no not for paro but his tension worry enemy r increasing n thanks to Laila n her foolishness it's latest edition

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tttttt1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: CravingKhana

The insinuations that she is of course a prostitute ...so be it she is one
why pray is she not entitled to feel?..
and she is particular type of woman ...is that not a a bit archaic...

true tangy , but i have an issue with 'this category of women' word

okay i will step the boundary here , we have fan clubs for dancers here and categorize characters

we cant even accept a dancer accepting a prostitute is far off and we categorize here, havnt watched today's episode , but laila's character except that she is not the lead doesnt have any flaw just based on physical relationship putting her into some category i feel is wrong

i dont have a issue if rudra doesnt fall for laila, love is not something that can be reciprocated to all in the same intensity , my issue is why is it she doesnt even deserve a explanation or sympathy

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Priya

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Ariel
I do feel sorry for Rudra, very much, now he has to endure the havoc that Laila will unleash (please someone kill this girl and put her out of her misery) but I cant say Rudra is not wrong for going back to the same woman who has made no attempt to hide anything. If Paro hadn't appeared Rudra would have been happy ignoring feelings and staying with woman who asks questions but is happy with no answers. I cant say he didnt expect insecurity because she has made no attempt to hide it. What he didnt expect was the the fact that his dead heart would start beating and that Laila's insecurity would come back to haunt him. He thought the status quo he has with Laila would continue for a long time uninterrupted as long as he ignored some uncomfortable aspects about her. He was happy with it,as it was, thats his fault. It would not even been a problem had Paro not appeared. But life had other ideas for him. He should have run from her the minute she started getting other ideas about their relationship.
I think in this situation till now neither are wrong..not Laila not Rudra..it was life, circumstances, the situations it creates and consequences of those.

But from here on, since Laila has willingly donned her new avatar , she will be wrong. How convenient for CVs!!😆 As is the case with all vamps, she is doing her bit to push Rudra more and more towards Paro! she is bringing questions that he hasnt even thought of! Same old plot tool! CVs, something new please!

I wish they would just let Laila vanish quietly, we already have Kaki and Thakur and Rudra's mom's past to deal with. Thats more than we can handle!!

In all these dramas, Rudra.s love for Parvati ( I still remember his and her first look towards them) which is hidden inside him should come out... For that we need Laila (vamp)...

Its not a normal saas-bahu drama rather its an intense Love story... So ofcourse CV's will surely concentrate on the main track than the side tracks...😊

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prettypri

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Ariel
I do feel sorry for Rudra, very much, now he has to endure the havoc that Laila will unleash (please someone kill this girl and put her out of her misery) but I cant say Rudra is not wrong for going back to the same woman who has made no attempt to hide anything. If Paro hadn't appeared Rudra would have been happy ignoring feelings and staying with woman who asks questions but is happy with no answers. I cant say he didnt expect insecurity because she has made no attempt to hide it. What he didnt expect was the the fact that his dead heart would start beating and that Laila's insecurity would come back to haunt him. He thought the status quo he has with Laila would continue for a long time uninterrupted as long as he ignored some uncomfortable aspects about her. He was happy with it,as it was, thats his fault. It would not even been a problem had Paro not appeared. But life had other ideas for him. He should have run from her the minute she started getting other ideas about their relationship.
I think in this situation till now neither are wrong..not Laila not Rudra..it was life, circumstances, the situations it creates and consequences of those.

But from here on, since Laila has willingly donned her new avatar , she will be wrong. How convenient for CVs!!😆 As is the case with all vamps, she is doing her bit to push Rudra more and more towards Paro! she is bringing questions that he hasnt even thought of! Same old plot tool! CVs, something new please!

I wish they would just let Laila vanish quietly, we already have Kaki and Thakur and Rudra's mom's past to deal with. Thats more than we can handle!!

True...we have to keep in mind that Laila and her actions seem wrong only because Paro is in the picture now!

Rudra knew she had expectations that the relationship would progress and that's why he reiterated so many times that she should not expect anything more but he kept going back!

She is wrong and cannot ask questions because she threatened Paro? She doesn't know the reality does she...she thinks it's status quo and suddenly sees Rudra marrying someone he claims to hate!

She asked him why he was marrying her...twice!

In fact as you say this move to make her threaten to take Paros life is a sure fire way to make her totally evil!

Wonder why they need her really!

Rudra can fall in love after a purely physical relationship and a dead heart for 8 years and with a pure innocent girl but Laila is wrong because she developed feelings after being in the same relationship and with the same guy? Feelings she never bothered to hide!

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eveline

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: ttt1

true tangy , but i have an issue with this category of women word

okay i will step the boundary here , we have fan clubs for dancers here and categorize women

i dont have a issue if rudra doesnt fall for laila love is not something that can be reciprocated to all in the same intensity , my issue is why is it she doesnt even deserve a explanation or sympathy

Again buddies...this is not about her being a dancer or a hooker or whatever her profession be...its all about the clear and honest understanding between a couple..she was not promised anything and so should not be expecting more. If Paro would have been in Rudra's shoes and she be the one to want to get out...then Rudra would have happily let her go. And that exactly was the understanding between them.

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