Glorification of a Vamp... - Page 7

Originally posted by: eveline

@Ariel...Rudra is a decent guy deep down...and that's the root of this problem. Time and again we have seen that he might have a brusque indifferent attitude but its a sham. He is an honest guy and a guy who understands pain, is caring enough too. His senses her pain..sees it for himself and what we see is a normal human reaction. He feels the same for Maithili's pain..or for a mother who loses his son. His reaction to Laila's pain is more general than personal ..just my pov.

And Laila is on the path to destruction...the cvs finally giving her the shade she was always destined to have.

Originally posted by: eveline

Why is it always about a woman?? Just because we are one?? Your response SJ is all from a woman's pov. Can we not be neutral. And talk about both the parties involved here. After all its not all about Laila...there is another human involved here called Rudra!!

Developing feelings after eight years natural...demanding your honest partner does not develop for anyone else...not fair!! Her anger or disappointment is understandable coz we are humans...but is it unfair?? No. They both had the right to walk out of this and get involved with another...it was agreed ...Rudra came first...it might have been Laila...would you have said the same then?

Rudra behaved in a certain way coz Laila took it. Rudra dared coz Laila acted like a clingy wet doormat most of the times. Dare Rudra get away with this kind of attitude with Paro?? No...never. So the way Rudra behaved was also a reflection on their relationship. He didn't give her love or respect coz she could evoke and invoke neither in him. And she tried for eight long years...agreed love cannot be generated...but respect, dignity, loyalty...she couldn't earn anything??

It was a mutually beneficial relationship as I see it. They both got plenty out of it..be it Rudra or Laila. Now one wants out...for whatever the reasons...the point here...was this an open relationship...yes it was. Were they allowed to opt out at any time...yes they always were. Laila kept that door open too...if one fine day she met a man who was more richer, handsomer or more loving..she would have walked out in a jiffy. That door was kept open by both for their conveniences...now no use crying foul.

Yes, she has reasons to feel angry and jilted according to her, but in reality, looking at it truthfully, no wrong was done here. No injustice meted out to her.

About her being a vamp, and your subsequent justification...everything in this world can be justified...even murders but is it fair. Unfairness happens to one and all, does that justify harming and hurting others??And yes cvs will coz after all she is a fictional character created to evoke hatred, negativity, devilry...that's the purpose of her existence.

And are we comparing Paro and Laila here?? Why?? Whats the need..is this post about comparisons?? Why are we comparing a woman who was in a no strings attached relationship with a man and eventually it didn't work out (surprises??) with a village girl who lost her all in a few moments!!

SJ...I don't seem to remember stating anywhere that just coz she is a mistress she is garbage. Why are people putting words in my mouth?? Also...agreed that people don't agree with my post.. #respect ...but...this is a totally different ball game.

Man Eve...

Originally posted by: eveline

Why is it always about a woman?? Just because we are one?? Your response SJ is all from a woman's pov. Can we not be neutral. And talk about both the parties involved here. After all its not all about Laila...there is another human involved here called Rudra!!

Developing feelings after eight years natural...demanding your honest partner does not develop for anyone else...not fair!! Her anger or disappointment is understandable coz we are humans...but is it unfair?? No. They both had the right to walk out of this and get involved with another...it was agreed ...Rudra came first...it might have been Laila...would you have said the same then?

Rudra behaved in a certain way coz Laila took it. Rudra dared coz Laila acted like a clingy wet doormat most of the times. Dare Rudra get away with this kind of attitude with Paro?? No...never. So the way Rudra behaved was also a reflection on their relationship. He didn't give her love or respect coz she could evoke and invoke neither in him. And she tried for eight long years...agreed love cannot be generated...but respect, dignity, loyalty...she couldn't earn anything??

It was a mutually beneficial relationship as I see it. They both got plenty out of it..be it Rudra or Laila. Now one wants out...for whatever the reasons...the point here...was this an open relationship...yes it was. Were they allowed to opt out at any time...yes they always were. Laila kept that door open too...if one fine day she met a man who was more richer, handsomer or more loving..she would have walked out in a jiffy. That door was kept open by both for their conveniences...now no use crying foul.

Yes, she has reasons to feel angry and jilted according to her, but in reality, looking at it truthfully, no wrong was done here. No injustice meted out to her.

About her being a vamp, and your subsequent justification...everything in this world can be justified...even murders but is it fair. Unfairness happens to one and all, does that justify harming and hurting others??And yes cvs will coz after all she is a fictional character created to evoke hatred, negativity, devilry...that's the purpose of her existence.

And are we comparing Paro and Laila here?? Why?? Whats the need..is this post about comparisons?? Why are we comparing a woman who was in a no strings attached relationship with a man and eventually it didn't work out (surprises??) with a village girl who lost her all in a few moments!!

SJ...I don't seem to remember stating anywhere that just coz she is a mistress she is garbage. Why are people putting words in my mouth?? Also...agreed that people don't agree with my post.. #respect ...but...this is a totally different ball game.

Originally posted by: sajni786

Man Eve...

I am so done with these Laila flags going around. Oh the sympathy...oh the injustice...oh the poor women...Like Really? And what are they riding their Laila boats on...on the shoulders of Rudra...I say poor Rudra man!

Just coz he made this arrangement with Laila...so he is now at fault...but no Laila cannot be at fault for "equally" signing up for it! Unfair much?

Laila breached the unwritten contract...she IMO holds no dignity or self respect...Rudra never told her to make him her exclusive...but she did it...out of her will...so why blame Rudra and why make him guilty for the same. She is a prostitute and I would have held her in much higher regards had she stayed true to her profession of being a prostitute and slept with many men.

Fine she is a woman...a human and thus developed feelings...involuntarily...SO? BIG DEAL! Why ride over Rudra being equally a human and make him the guilty party for her developing those feelings...Yes she made her feelings vocal...but then was she ever reciporacated with any answer after that? NO! But she still went ahead...

Coming to Rudra...people say that its the fact that Rudra told Laila he will never have feelings and yet had feelings for Paro is where Rudra is wrong. Like seriously! So we are ready to excuse Laila for developing involuntary feelings...but NOT Rudra?

Heck the dude does not even realize he has developed a soft spot for Paro...and he still is under blame! If anything...he can be blamed for forgetting that calling himself a wolf simply by wearing a wolf skin will not make him one...His fault is right there...that he actually began thinking he is a wolf when infact he was always the camel from inside.

He never lied to Laila when he told her he does not have emotions and does not intend to invest in relationships...he still stands true to his words...It just that Rudra's heart has betrayed him and has sneaked away to Paro without him realizing it...

He is equally a victim as is Laila in the matters of the heart!

So yes I can understand Laila being a human and developing feelings...but her even trying to ask for an answer from Rudra or even trying to get a closure from him is not justifiable.

It was always an arrangement...and the moment Laila developed feelings for him n even hoping for something more than this arrangement...it became a 1 way street...and as such...there is no question of closure!

Originally posted by: prettypri

I think it's the other way around...people are willing to excuse Rudra for developing involuntary feelings...why excuse...it's great...but Laila shouldn't have developed feelings because he told her not to! has Paro encouraged Rudra??

After the length of time they spent in whatever capacity and it doesn't come across as purely physical...two human beings would definitely think they should tell the other person before moving on in life...!

Laila is now the conniving vamp for exactly this reason...so everyone can conveniently hate her...and trivialise her feelings even more..!

Originally posted by: sajni786