From the previous thread
Originally posted by: Ananyacool Regarding Bhrigu's curse affecting Sita more, I'd like to say that aren't curses are all about the same??
When anybody is cursed/punished, the ones who are associated with them are most affected. You agree with this?
Often the repercussions of curses and punishment affects all the people associated with the one who is cursed.
One mistake from Ravan cost the lives of his entire clan ,isn't it? Ravan's sons ,wives and citizens didn't have anything to do with Ravan's mistake of abducting Sita yet they all were punished.
When Bhrigu cursed Vishnu that he'd bear separation from his wife in his life as human being, those associated with Rama also were cursed/punished in a way. What would pain Rama more? To see Sita suffer so much, thats what currses are all about.
Lav-Kush had done nothing wrong in any way, nay! they didn't exist even ,then why were they separated from their father?
Rama to paid a heavy price for the curse he bore, he never got to see the infancy n childhood of his sons which is considered the most precious thing in a father's life.
Curses and punishments are not always direct, In this illusional world each n every being is assoiated with somebody and our actions always affect those whom we're associated.
A law can physically punish the one who has wronged but the mental agony is suffered by the ones associated with him/her.
Ananya
Thanks. That's a very good explanation - can't argue with it.😠But all the public trials and tribulations were of Sita - particularly her chastity, which was nobody's business (gee, I wish it was BJ Clinton running that Ayodhya 😈) but theirs (this is not an argument about whether Rama did the right thing, but whether the Ayodhya people had any business looking into Sita's private life - good or bad). While Rama's suffering was intense but private, Sita had to undergo (aside from the physical hardships of living in the ashram) another public humiliation when asked to prove her chastity and second time, and before that, who knows what she might have heard about what was being said around the kingdom about her and her exile. If someone wanted to curse Sita prior to all this, s/he couldn't have come up with a more lethal curse.
As far as the kids go, once they were 12, they got back their family (a bit like Rama's return to Ayodhya after 14 years) but had to go through the traumatic experience of watching their mother get humiliated and then losing herðŸ˜ðŸ˜ And that's not even counting any questions they might have gotten from their friends as to who their father was