Shahi Mehmaan of the Week: none other than - Page 5

[quote=bsingapury]

bhai log to uthaai giri mahir honaa chahtaa hain .monu dada aaye oos se pahele oonkaa khazanaa apun oothaa ke le aayelaa hain ab dekhte hain woh kyaa khrachaa pani detaa hain .....ees baar apun ko chanas milelaa hain to..........chalo khandaalaa ke aas paas bhi ghum ke aate hain apun log

how many schools did u change?

Many

Mathematics

Neither bookworm nor naughty

Well-disciplined and quiet

Many, because I changed many school so all the schools were new experiences for me and I remember many things from many school.

never

We siblings always went together without any elder person with us. So we were alone as well as together.

Yes most of the time. Because my cousins were also there so only the permutaion combination kept on changing.

My IF friends.

My younger sister whom I loved a lot but she is no more now.

Nothing. By the grace of God I have got a very peaceful, decent and graceful life.

I don't like any band as such, but I like songs from Pakistani bands, like Seige, Jal, Strings etc.

None

What is your favorite quote that you repeat too often? None.

1. 'Yeh dil aur unki nigaahon ke saaye, mujhe gher lete hain baahon ke saay'

2. 'dil laga kar hum yeh samjhe zindagi kya cheez hai'

3. 'Yeh hawa yeh raat yeh chandni teri ik ad ape nisaar hai'

4. 'Jo baat tujhme hai teri tasveer mein nahin'

The list is very long. I like mostly soft romantic songs.

Originally posted by: sakuraa

wow...after looking at all the questions u have to answer I feel kinda bad for u and will therefore not ask u anything!! good luck!!

Originally posted by: ramas

I will check answers and reply back tom for the first paper and you don't have to do the essay now

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Originally posted by: jibi

Okay Raksha di, am answering first few....

Here go my answers....

Where do you live? In my house.😆😆😆 I thought you lived in space.😆😆

Do you read newspapers? Generally No.... oh no

which section of the paper do you read first? If I read, I read first page, then I'd look at glimpses, if anything attractive I'd go directly on that particular page. Sometimes editorial.

What are your guidelines for comments? Didn't get you. Guidelines??? I don't follow any guidelines. I write only what I feel at that moment.

Do you have a policy about responding to email? Not as such. If the mail is a text message from a known person like friends, brother, husband etc. I like to see then and there. Forwarded mails I keep pending for my leisure time.

What are your top picks for health and wellness for the body, mind and spirit? None what?

Do you believe in Ghosts? Can't say. But I like to read ghost stories, like haunted houses, kids etc.🤢 me too when I was young.

Would you choose love or money and why? I feel love is much much more precious than any material thing in world. If I have enough money for a satisfactory livelihood I would without doubt choose love. But if I don't have any money at all, then I would choose money because we get the most essential things viz. food, cloth and shelter with money only.

If you were a monster, what would you be? I don't want to be a monster. no one wants to be one but some ppl are

What makes you a little bit of a monster? My anger. 😡 I think anger and envy makes every one monster

What would you do if your worst enemy did something unspeakable to you?

It depends on what he/she has done. If simply maligning my image by spreading wrong stories about me, or talking nonsense, or abusing me verbally, I would certainly avoid the person. Enemies should not be given any importance at all. Let them do whatever they want to do. Its their own problem. I will be as I am.

What primal emotions or drive you most often experience?

I am a very sensitive person. I cannot control my tears. I'd cry even in happy moments. 😭😭 me too that makes 2 of us.

How is your self steem? Very strong. I feel every individual has his/her own dignity.

You and your guy have to go out tonight, but he calls you at the last minute to say he's too tired...What would be your reaction?

Its nothing new. I would simply surrender because I know he is very genuine.

What is your main consideration when ordering food out?

I didn't get you. Ordering food out means ordering for home delivery??? My main consideration is cleanliness, which I always doubt.😕

You prefer not to be friend with someone who is...

Taking me for granted. 😡

In group projects, you are the one who...

Would like to lead. 😃 Me too

What career would you most like to try out for a while?

Writing screen play for a film.

Your friend just lost a loved one, how would you help her cope?

Its very delicate situation. It's the most difficult situation for me to cope with, how can I help her cope? I even don't know how to console. I feel the person should not be disturbed but at the same time I feel she may need me. It simply creates a dilemma for me.😕

If you became a multi-millionaire what would you attribute to your success?

To my luck. To be a multi-millionaire luck is the most important factor.

When you fall in love, you feel it in...

i didnt get the question.😕 may be in your heart

You know someone loves you when they...

...are near me. Their small gestures tell me that they love me.😊😛😳

Talking about the weather is a...

...good time pass, when you have nothing else to talk.

You enjoy helping...

...anybody provided I am able to provide the help required. And, the person is not cheating me.

If someone you have just met talks about their feelings, it makes you feel...

...strange😕

Shopping is something you.....

...dislike😡 what ?

When it comes to risks, you prefer....
...taking or avoiding depends on the type of risk? [/quote]

You prefer to focus on one.... work at a time.

You tend to keep things in... order

When you talk, you choose your words... I don't choose words, they come automatically oh no khatra😆😆

You tend to seek out new... expressions, thoughts

You would say you are more... realistic

You base your important decision on... my logic👏👏

In your opinion, gossip is a... a fun to some extent, but waste of time and not fair

If you find out someone is gossiping about you, you... I don't bother👏👏

When someone's upset with you, you tend to listen to what... I don't bother if somebody is upset with me. I am not interested in listening anything. oh no khatra

When are you tend to have your best ideas, is it when you are setting up or laying down? When I lie-down

What do you think in, pictures or words? In words

Are you more mathematical or musical? More mathematical

How do you like to spend your holiday? Staying at home, sleeping

What do you look forward to most each year? Nothing what?

What gifts are you most likely to give to your friends? Which may be useful to them. Before giving a gift I try to find out, if possible, what they need. If I can afford that I give that as gift.


What are you better at remembering, names or faces? faces

How violent are you?

Once upon a time I used to be violent but not much. I can not hit anybody by anything. your huby must be thinking how lucky I am when he criticizes you.😆😆

Now I remain calm in most of the situations. My patience level has increased tremendously after my marriage. Do we have a choice

Do you give people complements?

In my heart I admire people for their genuine qualities but generally I don't give compliments because I think they will think that I am flattering. don't afraid to give complements you might brighten some once day.

Do you often catch yourself day dreaming?

Yes me too

Do you listen to music while you work?

Yes. I love it while doing physical work. But while doing mental work I am not able to concentrate it any sound is nearby.

When you have a lot to do, what do you do first?

I believe in divide and conquer. First I divide the work then I start from one side keeping in mind the importance of work. good stretagy👏👏

How Sweet are you?

I think I am salty not sweet. 😆😆
Which one of the following statement reflects your beliefs more?
-Have a strong sense of right and wrong.
-What is right (or wrong) depends on the situation.

First one. Most of the time I am clear in my thoughts.

When going somewhere you have only been to a couple of times, do you go with your instincts on finding the way or map out directions where you are going.

with my instinct.

What if you had to spend 24 hours by yourself - without emailing, phoning, instant mssaging, or talking to anyone else?

I would happily read a book. If book is also not available, I can spend 24-hours day-dreaming. same here😆😆

What do you think is your most attractive non-physical quality?

Cant say but I think my IQ.👏👏

If your sweetie had a bad day, what would you do to cheer him up?

My sweetie never tells me whether he had a bad day or good day. He does not bring his office mood to home, so I can not figure out also.

You are going to a fancy party with your guy, describe the out fit you would wear...

Probably I would be the most unattractive person. I don't put anything special for any party whether fancy or anything. I would simply wear a better looking salwaar suit or sari, a very light necklace, ear rings, a little fancy bangles and shoes. I am ready. It takes hardly 5-10 min. what? are you kidding ready in 10 minutes.😕

If you just won new car, what colour would you pick?

For that I'll have to see available colours. I just can not say, red, green, blue or yellow.

If you get jealous in a relationship, is it a sign that you are truly in love?

It depends on the relationship. But I think jealously is not a sign of true love. Jealousy shows your feeling of insecurity. If you feel insecure it means you don't trust your partner. If there is no trust they how can it be a true love?

If someone is right for you, does it take you much time to figure it out?

I think, yes. Over time and as I am gaining more experience, I am getting more and more suspicious.

Is love something you cannot define, predict, or even truly understand?

I certainly can not define love. Cant say about predication, but definitely understand the feeling of love.

Is a lot of compatibility (Education, Religion, Social class) superficial if you are truly in love?

Cant say. It may be superficial. But I don't keep the young-age physical attraction in true love category. At that time, mostly opposite sex are attracted to each other because of infatuation, and at that time if the question of education, religion, social class etc. arise they say they are in true love and don't believe in these things, but I think these are wrong assumptions.

Physical atraction is very important for everyone in relationships, could you over look some flaws if the chemistry is there?

Yes certainly.

Would you do any thing for someone you love/loved?

It depends on what is this 'anything'.

Is your work best, with deadlines or without deadlines?

I try to do my best. you did not say with or without deadlines

Do you consider yourself more rational or compassionate?

Both

In thirty words or less what makes you angry? If anybody tries to take undue advantage of me.

In thirty words or less what makes you laugh? Anything filled with good humour. It may be a child's innocent questions, a good comedy show, cracking jokes among friends, having light mood fun-filled moments with family or friends'.

In thirty words or less what makes you cry?

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Anything which touches me deep inside.

- Mostly when I am hurt.

- When somebody whom I love takes me wrong.

In thirty words or less what makes you happy?

- I feel happy when all around me are happy.

- When, I get my desired things.

- When, I complete my work in time.

- When, I clean my house' would you like to come and help me😆😆

In thirty words or less what makes you sad?

When I see somebody in pain (not necessarily physical pain) it makes me sad.

Have you ever sued anyone?

Never.

Activities that you enjoy...

I enjoy reading books, visiting IF, doing my house-hold chores, watching TV'

Activities that you don't like...

I don't like to talk over phone'

If you were to to spend a day with whom you love...who with...and how would you like to spend?

Don't know.

Do you know any other language besides English?

Yes my mother tongue. 😆😆😆

In thirty words or less tell us something about IFs... Wonderful place to be at

In thirty words or less tell us something about RKAB... Collection of bakwaas tracks

Which other forum did you visit beside RKAB? Recently I have started visiting Chhoti Bahu. Sometimes NB.

What are the rules you live your life by? I don't follow any rules. oh no trouble😆😆

Do you work?...What do you do? Right now I am not working.

Did you go to college/university? Yes, on Saturdays and Sundays. I am a student at an Open University.

What did you study at college/university? I did masters.

What do you do a normal day after school/work? All necessary house-hold work like cooking, cleaning etc.

How would you describe yourself... I try to see logic in everything.

Your best personal quality... my caring nature👏👏

First thing/s that you do when you wake up... After brush, I drink a glass of water, then I drink a cup of tea, then only I start my day'

Last thing/s that you do before you go to sleep... I check the doors. good idea👏👏
If you could be anyone else, you would be... Nobody else

Greatest gift that you have ever received... Not yet received

Your strength... My faith in God and my determination (of course, if I determine)

Your weakness... My laziness

Your favorite type of movie... movies depicting depth of relationships, a different type of relationship or romance like pakeezah, ijaazat, Jogger's park, rain coat.

Your favorite actors/actresses... I mostly like actors/actresses those who don't play lead role, like pran, asrani, aruna irani, etc.

What do you want to do with your life? ????? 😕

What do you look for in a man? His brain, intelligence. good choice👏👏

What occurrences happen to make your day a good one? Myself being active and lively make my day good.

Do you live in an apartment or house? In an apartment.

What do you like to eat for breakfasts? paratha

Your favorite food... anything vegetarian prepared fresh

Your favorite drink'.tea, fresh fruit juices

Your favorite fruit/s... all juicy fruits like pomegranate, grapes, oranges etc.

Your favorite vegetable/s... spinach, bathua, methi'.almost all green leafy vegetables

Your favorite meat... none

Your favorite colour... white, any pleasant colour on white base

Your favorite style of dressing... wearing a loose cotton salwaar kurta

Your favorite hair style... just putting a band at back or leaving open, no pin at all

Your favorite jewelry... neck-chain, small ear-studs and glass bangles

Your favorite perfume... none

Your favorite cream... none

Your favorite music/songs... semi classical based songs, sufiana, qawwali, ghazal, bhajan

Your favorite relaxation... sitting at my rocking chair with a cup of tea and browsing channels on TV.

Your favorite sport/s... football and hockey (watching)

Your next favorite holiday destination... my mother's place

Countries you have visited.... None except India


If they are too personal or you don't want to answer them, pls don't. I respect that.

Ok, so that should keep you busy for a while anyway.

Have fun

Had fun. 😊

[quote=bsingapury]

Originally posted by: ramas

i too had fun reading your answers and posted my comments in purple and emotis.Thanks for taking time and replying, I liked honesty in the answers very much.😃👏 i wish I can read every one's but have lot to do. But I will definately read your story ASAP. It is 1-40 am and I am sleepy.😕🥱

i wish I was in India dreaming about uttrayan and looking forward to flying a kite which my huby has to do for me and then when it is in the sky I will take over.😆😆

How how sweet. 😊

Happy Makar Sankranti. 😃