What was so wrong in Ashwin's question?:S - Page 3

Originally posted by: lats55

i don't think anything wrong in asking that question, if he is serious about her..this question might have arised in his mind due to various reasons.. first of his family is against this marriage.. reasons can be her background.. 2nd reason can be he never loved anyone in the past and rakhi is the first one in his life, so he wanted to know.. it can be a kind of insecurity in him caused this question.. it is been expected either from him or from first timers ...

people who channel picked for the show has no proper education or work.. i think this is a well planned event and she is not going to select any of them out there..

how can rakhi be so serious without checking the background of the contestants who vary from the age of 21.. most of them out there is younger to her.. so it look like a planned event with her consent on it.. and she is playing for the sake of the show..

Originally posted by: samirah23

There is nothing wrong with asking the question - but I think the editing made it more dramatic than it was - we have seen this happen in the previews before, and the next day, it's not so dramatic ...

Originally posted by: kin8

there was nothing wrong in the que,

these days, most of the boyfriends and girl friends wants to know their partners abt previous relationships and their physical relations for various reasons...and this is the life time commitment we are talking abt...

and if rakhi is so open like the way she says she is, than she should just tell the truth, and take the que lightly...

infact i was surprised tht none of the other guys ever asked her these kinda que from the begining.

Originally posted by: dimpu_usa

He was wrong wrong wrong and wrong. I wish rakhi would have slapped him. The way he lifted Rakhi's face when she closed her eyes, showed how rude he is.

Originally posted by: lats55

he is a very narrow minded person good it came out.. he was shaken when rakhi removed her shoes.LOL😆

Originally posted by: samirah23

After listening to the Man ki baat, I think it was a little of both - it was because he asked her the questions in an interrogation one after the other about Abhishek, Mika, her sleeping with anyone to get into the industry, etc. Was he there to get to know her or interrogate her - I think that like many of us, she didn't appreciate how he asked or the way he asked. He talked down to her, and if it was me, I would have gotten up and left.

Elesh also said he wanted to ask some personal questions but not on television.

there is no reason why he should not ask what is on his mind, but he didn't do it in a mannerly way.

Anyway, like many of the aunties on this forum who are constantly putting down Rakhi, he is orthodox, and these things matter to them ... he wants a virgin for a wife - he needs not to come on the Rakhi Sawant show to find this. Rakhi had a live-in relationship - my first assumption would have been that she and Abhishek had a physical relationship. I would have assumed that and left it alone. then, afterwards, he would have found out this wasn't the case (she told him it wasn't - they were not physical), and that would have made him feel better.

Originally posted by: n0sh

I guess the way he approached it and communicated it wasnt good.... sucks for him...

I wud've slapped him and then leave!

Smart elesh! 😃

I think not only orthodox, but for most of the people it matters that their partner is a virgin.... ouuuu i see...

Originally posted by: Ashu-n-Sush

when the whole india knows about this so called Rakhi Sawant "Indian Naari, Bhartiya aurat" she had a living relation with Abhishek it is obivious that they will have a physical relation. He needn't ask so openly. How can he expect Rakhi to sit at home not doing her work or attend parties. He knew well in advance she is a item gal.......they y all these? he is truely orthodox or narrow minded. if he had so many doubts eating his mind why did he come to this swyamvar at all? coudnt he find a homely village gal in nagpur?

Secondly, Rakhi is also faulty. How can she name three years of relationship just as friendship. She thinks all these grooms are idiots? when she ask question about grooms family she say its not only she marrying the boy but the entire family? is it not vis versa?

she openly said after ashwin asked the question about her family groom is gonna marry me not my family..........how hypocrite..