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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: dimpu_usa

He was wrong wrong wrong and wrong. I wish rakhi would have slapped him. The way he lifted Rakhi's face when she closed her eyes, showed how rude he is.



he is a very narrow minded person good it came out.. he was shaken when rakhi removed her shoes.LOL😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Now did rakhi get angry cause he asked her this question infront of national television or cause he asked her that question?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: n0sh

Now did rakhi get angry cause he asked her this question infront of national television or cause he asked her that question?

After listening to the Man ki baat, I think it was a little of both - it was because he asked her the questions in an interrogation one after the other about Abhishek, Mika, her sleeping with anyone to get into the industry, etc. Was he there to get to know her or interrogate her - I think that like many of us, she didn't appreciate how he asked or the way he asked. He talked down to her, and if it was me, I would have gotten up and left.
Elesh also said he wanted to ask some personal questions but not on television.
there is no reason why he should not ask what is on his mind, but he didn't do it in a mannerly way.
Anyway, like many of the aunties on this forum who are constantly putting down Rakhi, he is orthodox, and these things matter to them ... he wants a virgin for a wife - he needs not to come on the Rakhi Sawant show to find this. Rakhi had a live-in relationship - my first assumption would have been that she and Abhishek had a physical relationship. I would have assumed that and left it alone. then, afterwards, he would have found out this wasn't the case (she told him it wasn't - they were not physical), and that would have made him feel better.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: samirah23

After listening to the Man ki baat, I think it was a little of both - it was because he asked her the questions in an interrogation one after the other about Abhishek, Mika, her sleeping with anyone to get into the industry, etc. Was he there to get to know her or interrogate her - I think that like many of us, she didn't appreciate how he asked or the way he asked. He talked down to her, and if it was me, I would have gotten up and left.
Elesh also said he wanted to ask some personal questions but not on television.
there is no reason why he should not ask what is on his mind, but he didn't do it in a mannerly way.
Anyway, like many of the aunties on this forum who are constantly putting down Rakhi, he is orthodox, and these things matter to them ... he wants a virgin for a wife - he needs not to come on the Rakhi Sawant show to find this. Rakhi had a live-in relationship - my first assumption would have been that she and Abhishek had a physical relationship. I would have assumed that and left it alone. then, afterwards, he would have found out this wasn't the case (she told him it wasn't - they were not physical), and that would have made him feel better.

I guess the way he approached it and communicated it wasnt good.... sucks for him...
I wud've slapped him and then leave!
Smart elesh! 😃
I think not only orthodox, but for most of the people it matters that their partner is a virgin.... ouuuu i see...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Even I think Ashwin was not at fault..If you are taking such a huge devision as to marry somebody you have every right to open up, know about each other..be frank...he atleast did good by bringing forward what he had in his mind, rather than stay quiet now and still have that thing in his mind...and maybe react later...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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There is nothing wrong in asking about past relationships.. but the way he asked was wrong..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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when the whole india knows about this so called Rakhi Sawant "Indian Naari, Bhartiya aurat" she had a living relation with Abhishek it is obivious that they will have a physical relation. He needn't ask so openly. How can he expect Rakhi to sit at home not doing her work or attend parties. He knew well in advance she is a item gal.......they y all these? he is truely orthodox or narrow minded. if he had so many doubts eating his mind why did he come to this swyamvar at all? coudnt he find a homely village gal in nagpur?

Secondly, Rakhi is also faulty. How can she name three years of relationship just as friendship. She thinks all these grooms are idiots? when she ask question about grooms family she say its not only she marrying the boy but the entire family? is it not vis versa?
she openly said after ashwin asked the question about her family groom is gonna marry me not my family..........how hypocrite..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashu-n-Sush

when the whole india knows about this so called Rakhi Sawant "Indian Naari, Bhartiya aurat" she had a living relation with Abhishek it is obivious that they will have a physical relation. He needn't ask so openly. How can he expect Rakhi to sit at home not doing her work or attend parties. He knew well in advance she is a item gal.......they y all these? he is truely orthodox or narrow minded. if he had so many doubts eating his mind why did he come to this swyamvar at all? coudnt he find a homely village gal in nagpur?

Secondly, Rakhi is also faulty. How can she name three years of relationship just as friendship. She thinks all these grooms are idiots? when she ask question about grooms family she say its not only she marrying the boy but the entire family? is it not vis versa?
she openly said after ashwin asked the question about her family groom is gonna marry me not my family..........how hypocrite..

well as u said she said "i had a live in relationship" she might have thought ppl. or ashwin in this case would have sum common sense that they would just know she's not a virgin... "live in relationships" = not a virgin i think that's a given...
n like what else she is suppose to say if the guy ask r u a virgin???
what r u suppose to say to that when u just admit "yes i had a live in relationship"
i agree with when she gives up and said yes i didnt have any physical relations with abhishek...
that showed she gave up... to stop the bizarre conversation on national television...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: LibraSG

i think thats very personnel question n such question they shouldnt ask on national television

they should talk bout that in privacy



agree👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinar

but firstly such personal event as big as finding someone for marriage, when that is on television, than cant have double standards for the same. i mean u choose -dance - date prospective grooms in front of television, and cant they ask such a simple question in public?? i mean thats an important aspect to be cleared while getting ready for marriage



nothing's actually wrong wid the question...but its wrong how he asked it & where he asked it...he knew tht every1 will be watching this show...& such qs

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