What was so wrong in Ashwin's question?:S

i don't get it...finally i find a guy who have the guts to ask rakhi bout her past..& they show it so dramatically?😕 these days we all were wondering if any of these guys ever want to know rakhi personally...& when finally sum1 is here like tht...do u think its wrong tht ashwin asked rakhi if she had physical relationships wid abhisekh?😕srry but i dnt find anything wrong in dat question...he's probably her future husband& he has da rite to know watever he wants to know...its bout his whole life too..not only rakhis! as the preview suggests...i think rakhi is going to take the question in a wrong waywat u all think?

i think thats very personnel question n such question they shouldnt ask on national television

but firstly such personal event as big as finding someone for marriage, when that is on television, than cant have double standards for the same. i mean u choose -dance - date prospective grooms in front of television, and cant they ask such a simple question in public?? i mean thats an important aspect to be cleared while getting ready for marriage

i don't think anything wrong in asking that question, if he is serious about her..this question might have arised in his mind due to various reasons.. first of his family is against this marriage.. reasons can be her background.. 2nd reason can be he never loved anyone in the past and rakhi is the first one in his life, so he wanted to know.. it can be a kind of insecurity in him caused this question.. it is been expected either from him or from first timers ...

people who channel picked for the show has no proper education or work.. i think this is a well planned event and she is not going to select any of them out there..

how can rakhi be so serious without checking the background of the contestants who vary from the age of 21.. most of them out there is younger to her.. so it look like a planned event with her consent on it.. and she is playing for the sake of the show..

There is nothing wrong with asking the question - but I think the editing made it more dramatic than it was - we have seen this happen in the previews before, and the next day, it's not so dramatic ...

Originally posted by: LibraSG

i think thats very personnel question n such question they shouldnt ask on national television

they should talk bout that in privacy

there was nothing wrong in the que,

these days, most of the boyfriends and girl friends wants to know their partners abt previous relationships and their physical relations for various reasons...and this is the life time commitment we are talking abt...

See my post in https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/rahul-dulhaniya-le-jaayega-swayamvar-season-2/1214140/ashwin-asked-very-good-questions after seeing the actual show, it's the way that he asked the questions that I was concerned with.

everything was wrong with ashwin's way of asking questions. First of all, he knew before coming to the show that rakhi was a item girl, she has parties and all, he should have gotten himself prepared for that. Moreover the way he asked rakhi was very cheap. Item girl doesnt mean that they sell their self esteem, even helen has been a item girl, didnt she get married to salman's father, does that mean she had physical relations or so. How would have ashwin felt if someone had asked his sister the same questions. he would have killed that person. The reason he asked that question was because he does bir respect film industry and beleives that every girl has to compromise, then he should have never come to the show, he should have found himself a girl who is outside the film industry. when he came here, he knew rakhi sawant well and that she is from a film industry, then there was no question of asking her about parties. He thinks that women in industry come after compromises, does that mean that people who are not related to film industry do not compromise or have relations with others. It can happen anyuwhere. He has the right to ask rakhi these questions, but the way he asked was totally worng. his mind had doubts which revealed that he cant trust rakhi after marriage. No matter rakhi is a item girl and she wears short clothes and exposes, but everything about her was a open book to the contestants, then how could they ask her stupid questions. Rakhi was right that she wore short clothes since that was the only medium for her family's survival, but she admitted that she never let off her dignity. If she starts wearing sarees, how many film offers will she get, noone will offer her a single ad. Moreover people here who claim that ashwin was right are all hypocrites, in our country heroes are given more importance even if they are married, but how many people go to see movies of heroines already married. that is the reason most of the heroines do not get married until they are 35 or above , whereas heroes get to enjoy their family life. Ashwin is a big hypocrite, he claimed to love rakhi, but today his true colors were revealed. He looks at film industry in a very cheap way. He has no respect of talking to a woman. I am pretty sure the marriage bureau he owns, is gonna shut down and people are going to come back and ask for their pictures since they don't want their daughter's marriages to be fixed by a hypocrite. Ashwin will have to go to other bureaus for finding himself a girl. Moreover, after today's episode, no girl from the industry or outside will want to marry him. He will be a bachelor forever.

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