Prem ki Amar Kahani Part 20updated Page 12 - Page 5

Sorry friends for not being regular. Actually it was a festival week and I was analyzing Bepannah on the daily basis. Hence couldnt take out time for Radhakrishna. Now if you take the entire five episodes at a go we see Krishna's attempt to get close to Radha and Ayan's attempt to thwart it.

I loved it when Krishna told Ayan the truth and got a vachan from him he will not tell it to anyone. Now the fun is that vachan is going to be really heavy for Ayan as Radha has accepted Krishna's friendship to know about the girl Krishna loves.

I loved it how Krishna cornered her using his davu's nrithya. Ayan landed in the soup for infuriating. Krishna warned him not to do so, yet he went ahead and also ended up on wrong side of Radha's wrong side as she proclaimed him wrong.

Once again yesterday Ayan challenged Krishna when he was having difference of opinion with Radha on the concept of love. Asking him is he a good friend. Krishna proved he is one and to Ayan's discomfort Radha was touched when Krishna agreed to both of Radha's demand.

Ayan is trying to teach Krishna who showed the world what friendship means, the meaning of a good friend. I am sure he is going to dig his own grave. Jatila planned a lot including to decimate vrishabanu. But all she got was a deal from Kamsa for Krishna. That's why we should never plan. We never know how the other person will react. Radha believes like a normal girl that she will fall in love with the man she marries. Does she even know she loves someone eternally and there is no ritual called marriage for that bond because it doesnt need that ritual. Love is over and above such rituals. But alas it will take her time to realize. Till then she will try to be a friend of Krishna.

Ayan aur Jatila milkar hi Radha Krishna ki prem kahani ko aage badayegi.

The entire last week went on with the clash of two ideologies about love. Krishna who tells if two people love they have to be united. Radha who believes love is not just romantic, it has other responsibilities too. Just getting united forgetting the responsibility towards their parents, village is not right. In other words she tells love has to be responsible.

Throughout the episodes we see Krishna Leela. Krishna who listens to Radha that Bhairav forgot Sudevi and then when Sudevi calls Narayan I want to marry Bhairav makes plan to get Bhairav married to Sudevi. We see here Krishna playing beautiful mind games with Ayan and Radha. Ayan is trapped in his own game. Where he has to allow Radha to dance with Krishna. As situations arise in such a way that Radha wants to keep Krishna away from Bhairav so that Sudevi wedding can happen.

But the best part was yesterday episode where Radha realizes who is in the mandap and wants to stop. Krishna tries to frighten her. Telling she needs to be afraid of blood bath, she needs to be afraid of honor of barsana and gokul. I loved Narayan's way of testing how far Radha would go for the truth. Radha goes. She goes for the truth. Before the seventh and last phera is completed she brings out the truth in front of everyone.

While Radha fearlessly goes for truth we see Jatila trying to suppress the truth. Reason Radha could go for truth was because there was no manipulation in her mind. She knew what she was doing was right. Because if after marriage truth is known blood bath is sure. So it is better things are dealt before hand. The truth which gives strength to Radha the same truth becomes Jatila's weakness.

Krishna also planned, Jatila also planned. Jatila in her desire wanted to destroy, Krishna in his love also wants to destroy. But what Jatila wants to destroy is people and relations, what Krishna wants to destroy is ego. Hence he is also not afraid when Radha goes for truth, because he knows it is truth that he is going to defend for a good cause. And Krishna only support that truth which he can defend. Else as he says ur karma will come back to u. For the tears of Yasodha, tears of Jatila. Jatila is trapped in her own game. Her peace is gone. That's what happens when you plan and plot to destroy others. So when you plan something think if the truth comes out can you defend it. Is it a good cause. And if truth has to be exposed, will fear hold you back. And most important what is love. Is it irresponsible, reckless feeling that destroys relation or it is the most responsible feeling that creates something new, brings in positive transformation. It depends on how you approach it. If you approach it with the direction of Narayan it will become transformative, else it can either destroy you or destroy others.

After the first episode, Saturday episode was the best of RK. Where we saw how a jeevatma, by hiding the truth puts the blame on Paramatma. Yes Krishna kept Bhairav in the mandap. He kept Bhairav as the groom. But who had wanted Bhairav as the groom. Sudevi. She called Narayan and prayed somehow make Bhairav my groom. Narayan heard her prayer, heard her love. But before the completion of marriage when time came to tell the truth what did Sudevi do. She didnt tell the truth.

Radha gave big lectures on treachery. Gave signal to Sudevi not to speak truth. Then she went on proving her point on how Krishna planned the whole thing. She made Balram keep his hand and on Rohini and tell the truth. Krishna didnt make Radha keep the hand on Keertida and make her tell the truth. Difference between Jeevatma and Paramatma. Why Krishna didnt do it. Its because the truth was not Radha's realm. The power to speak truth was with Sudevi. Because she called him and she had to trust him. He was not going to solve anything miraculously. He was going to show to the world when someone calls him from the heart he is with him and they should let go of their fear and stand for truth. When love comes in you, when krishna awakens in you, you get courage to stand for truth. He wanted to awaken the Krishna, awaken the Hari in Bhairav and Sudevi to stand for what they believe right.

For that he takes punishment.He lets down his parents. Radha stands proud. Vrishban is proud. Ayan and Jatila dancing. But in one stroke allowing Bhairav to go through the torture, taking his torture Narayan breaks the false pride, false ego. The truth comes out. When Sudevi speaks the truth no one wins. What Krishna did is treachery still. But what happens is the sanskaari mask of Radha goes off. She had known the truth. She had known Sudevi loves Bhairav. She didnt let Vrishban know it. When Sudevi accused Radha of terrifying her it is Vrishaban who is hit hard.

It is his pride that falls and for the first time he feels insecure. As Krishna stands for Sudevi when she speaks out and as Sudevi's father agrees to marry her off to Bhairav for her daugther's happiness what Vrishban sees is not the success of Sudevi's love, but the possibility of his Radha becoming Radha in true sense.

He sees the treachery done by Krishna and that color falling on Radha. The color of treachery, the color of Maya that weakens his position. He sees the dhara changing. And he is insecure. Forgetting Krishna's words where he tells you are father, not God. You are not the destiny maker of your child, he tries to become God of his daughter. He demands vachan from his daughter that she will only marry the man he chooses. A vachan Radha gives.

In divine realm it wouldnt have taken Hari to break this vachan. But in human realm along with this vachan he has to prove the power of love. Because the limitlessness of love can be shown only by changing the limits. For that first limits has to be there.

Most important thing. Radha tried to show Krishna as someone who does treachery. in the end when real truth came out, Krishna's treachery didnt change, but the truth proved she was also hiding information and cheating the community. The color we put on others, the same color comes back to us. So be aware of what colors you put on others without understanding the truth.

I have started to watch this show because of the tagline" jag karta hai prem paane ke liye, inhone kiya prem, prem ko samjhane ke liye". Yesterday's episode throws the light on what happens when you love to get love. Sudevi and Bhairav got their love. Krishna too supported them because Sudevi wanted Narayan to help her. When she stood up for her love, he helped her get it.

What is the end result of that incident. As Radha says every family who has a grown up daughter is worried. An invisible chain is there in the legs of all the girls of Barsana. Just like Vrishbanu got promise from his daughter, many father's would have got promise from their daughters. Many father's would have put restrictions on the movement of their daughters.

Sudevi and Bhairav got their prem. But they got it in such a way that, it cut the wings of many others, chained them. Or rather the way they got their prem created unrest and fear in the society.

When I had analyzed SKR ( Siya ke Ram) I had talked in length about maryada. Ram brought in change by practicing the maryada. hence he is called maryadapurushottam. He didnt break any maryada, he only changed maryada, walking on the old maryada and showing the world how incorrect that maryada is. Of course he achieved it with the help of his better half Sita. He took the pain for the world. He took the pain to give a better world for next generation. He took the pain to give happiness for next generation. He took the pain to give freedom for next generation. Freedom which comes with responsiblity.

If freedom is misused forgetting responsiblity, then chains happens and again he has to travel that path to show us, how difficult the journey was to give us the freedom that we so much enjoy.

In giving Sudevi her love, Narayan lost his love. In uniting Sudevi and Bhairav Narayan is forced to evoke the fire test for himself and Radha. Where he has to undertake a journey with her where not only she breaks her chains, but breaks the invisible chains of many other girls and women. Radha jo dhara ko badal de. 😃