Analyzing Humeira - Page 6

Originally posted by: delena90

I have been disgusted that so many women have cried rape over a consensual love affair gone wrong. What a slap in the face to women who actually HAVE been raped.

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

My replies in red.

Originally posted by: neenabinu

Gita... I go offline for sometime and lo u made a post 😳

Humera... gosh this girl has been irritating me to the core from quite some time...
She has always been a pampered over protected girl... but earlier she was at least caring about her parents, Nikhat, etc... right now its just I, me and myself... 😡

She thinks the whole world is conspiring against her and there is only one savior Haider... so she is grabbing onto him like how a drowning person would...
Now whether the consummation actually took place or not, I guess we will know today or maybe after a few days ... like in the Jannu case 🤔 ...

Originally posted by: Tinkerbelle88

Interesting analysis and a really good post 👏 I agree with you. From what I've seen of Humaira she is really immature, impulsive and a spoiled brat to the 'T' but but but she is also a character which is really close to reality. Because spoil brats like her live a very protected life don't see much of the real world and the dark side to it, to them everything is candyfloss and sugarcoated. In short they live in a bubble and according to them the world outside is just like theirs sugarcoated 😆 But we know what the reality is the world has both good and bad people, just because she hasn't seen it doesn't mean they don't exsist and girls like her who are impulsive and stupid are the easiest targets here. What Haider did was recognized the weak link among them which is no surprises there Humaira and took advantage, why because it's so easy and also very real even in the real world such stories do happen quite often and stupid girls are conned and taken advantage of just like that. I thing it's a really good opportunity for the cvs to highlight this issue and use these characters to convey a strong message to the youth. Also I don't support what Haider did but it's very real as well, there are really guys out there who take advantage of naive and stupid girls exactly the same way and I applaud the cvs for unmasking this bitter and dark reality onscreen and it could serve as an eyeopener to the youth. And obviously in the end both will suffer for their deeds and they should if the cvs want to give a loud and clear message through it.

Originally posted by: -Roshna-

There was also the time Humeira was conned by a few guys over the net and Ayaan rescued her.

You said it, no love, no life! Humeira is in love with the idea of love. An over-protected girl who, with no impetus to do anything with her life, has grandiose delusions about fairy-tale love. When Ayaan told her he did not love her, she went into a fugue state and concocted an elaborate fantasy about Vikram - that's how important being in love or loved back is to her. No wonder it did not take long for Haider to happen. This is fiction so she'll get a happy ending. In real-life, something like this becomes a cautionary tale. I do feel very sorry for her but the empathy will come the day she develops a healthy sense of self-respect that does not stem from a man loving her.

So, the three over-protected girls - Nikhat, Najma, Humeira - get lousy partners and the one "independent" girl (or what goes for that as defined in the context of a daily soap) gets a guy who respects and loves her now. Maybe, within its milieu, QH is trying to make a valid point after all 😆.

Originally posted by: AyRa_Rocks

I'm not saying Humaira is good and all. But Haider is not any better. He didn't do it under any circumstances or even by the momentary attraction. Even at that moment his motive was purely evil. So IMO 'Drugged' is replaced by 'Trapped' which makes her a victim(for which i agree, she herself has to be blamed 100%). Haider didn't rape her because she throwed herself at her(i would hv agreed with u if this was the case) but this was his plan from the beginning.

And for being selfish,

1.she didn't hurt Zoya when she got married to Ayaan but when she saw her hugging Ayaan. So it's a misunderstanding. But when she realised it she apologised.

2.Second time she didn't actually want to hurt her by saying she married Ayaan but she was trying to explain how life was being terrible to her(She didn't know the reality that others also suffer in life more than her).

After these two, her hatred was all because Zoya was messing with her parents. Even after that she didn't go and mess with Zoya or conspire against her to throw her out( though she has no brain to do that😆) She just chose to not care and stay away and she responded only when someone talked to her abt Zoya.

So her intention never was to hurt anyone.

She might apologise like before when she is proved wrong. So i feel she is not selfish atleast till now.

Other than this i didn't find anyother Zoya-Humaira scenes if i'm not mistaken.

But i feel she was selfish only once. For being rude with Wajid when he brought food for her😆

But Haider purposefully hurts Humaira.Humaira apologised for the rape case but he didn't apologise till now for that forced kiss. He wants revenge and for that he doesn't care abt ruining a girl who has no hand in his sufferings. Now i call this as selfishness. I agree Humaira has to suffer the consequences for her own doings but at the same time Haider too has to suffer.

I donno, this is just what i observed. Temme if i missed anything😊And sorry for the long post😛

Originally posted by: -Roshna-

Yes, considering that there is already a tendency to victim-blame-she-asked-for-it, it makes it tougher for women who have suffered assault! Have you read this pile of crap that Madhu Trehan, of all people, published on her news site?

http://www.newslaundry.com/2014/02/14/letter-toms-tehelka-assault-victim/

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Hey, don't be sorry. Your replies are always welcome.

You think Humeira is not selfish coz she hasn't hurt others.

i think she is selfish coz she never thinks of anyone except herself and gives undue importance to her love.

Both of us are entitled to our opinion. Lets see whether its Haira or Arya.

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Thanks.

I guess you haven't seen QH from beginning.

Yes, she is spoilt to the T.

You are right, there are more cases like this in real world, some reported and most unreported.

What if Haider really falls for her and then she decides to ditch him? Would that make
humeira negative and Haider a victim?

Haider is negative character, a man with a
mission, using hook or crook to take revenge. And in his defence I will say that he did not take
advantage of Humeira, she literally ran into his arms.