Analyzing Humeira - Page 7

Originally posted by: Tinkerbelle88

Yeah I watch it for Haider, and about if she leaves Haider after he falls for her would make him a victim, I don't think so sure it will be devastating for him initially but not the end of the world for him, and as they say plenty of fish in the sea. I think it would be his unforgiving conscience that will haunt him for the rest of his life which will make it hard for him to live a carefree normal life is what will make him actually suffer. And yes I agree what happened, happened between two consenting adults and was not a crime at all therefore Haider is not a criminal here. What he did wasn't a crime it was immoral.

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

After a long long time, the forum saw some healthy discussion, courtesy Haira consummation (or not) scene.

Many feel Humeira has been a victim, still others feel she has to face the consequences of her actions (not to mention her parent's)

I believe Humeira is neither naive nor a victim. Yes, she was innocent in the beginning, but damn the CV's, the innocence has been replaced by stupidity of highest order. Let us consider Humeria's behavior from the start of the serial-

- First one-sided love - She was madly in love with Ayan, even though Ayan had repeatedly told her he didnt love her.

- No love, no life - She was ready to lay down her life when she realised Ayan didn't love her.

- Love, but no trust - When finally Ayan fell in love with her (I have my reservations on this too), she didn't trust him enough.

- Finally, No old is gold, only all that glitters is gold - She didn't lose time in falling for Haider and was quick to elope with him. The urgency of the elopement quirks me. She was not being married off the next day that she had to take such a drastic step.

She was more than eager to share the room with Haider.

And if the consummation did happen, she was a willing party and maybe enjoyed it too.

I don't think Humeira is a victim.

p.s. And IMO, Ayaan never really loved Humeira. He started having feelings for her only when he realised that she had gone missing. It was more of sympathy induced love.

Originally posted by: BabajiKaThullu

Such a fantastic and sensible Post.. you actually watch QH as a viewer and I am glad all the people are not blindly fangirling 😆 and bashing a character because they are not getting what they wanted. 😆

to be honest I loved your post. hell I am not supporting haider's action, But He is not rapist at all. the way people are screaming cheap and low 😆 all the replies and your post are FANTASTIC...

We all know He is Negative meant to be hated ,he is damn freaking bad guy. he will seek revenge by hook or crook and he did but its not his completely his fault I totally agree with all replies and your post here.. No need to say anything because you all people have said everything 😃

I am glad to see sensible post and sensible people here its rare to find . otherwise jidhar nazar ghumao fangals hi paao 😆

and Yes Humaira Haider's characters are very much real type not totally fictional 🥱
Pri, Rivs and you said everything .👏

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

No Humeria is not a victim. She has been annoying me a lot lately with her attitude. The way she treats Zoya, and the way she spoke when Zoya went missing? So catty. She also was rude and nasty to Haider and even tried implicate him in rape! So no she is NO victim. I was mad at her when she tried to kill herself over Ayaan. I preferred the way she was at the beginning!

She ran away from home to spite her parents. She is now acting like a Class 1 fool! She has eloped with a guy she hardly knows and put herself in his hands! Literally! I don't know what she is thinking.

I also agree that Ayaan was never in love with Humeria. He started to feel bad when she went missing. Then he felt jealous when he saw her with Vikram. That is when he started to think he loved her. But I think it was a combination of things working together. It was not love!

What Humeria felt for Ayaan may have been love, but she was able to move on from him because of her bitterness. Her feelings for Haider are almost like a defiance against her love for Ayaan. She is going this far with Haider almost as if it pretend that she no longer has feelings for Ayaan. But I think this is not the case! She is deflecting. Classic case of transference! She is transferring her feelings from Ayaan to Haider! But that dosent mean that what she feels for this man is real!!

She is in for a VERY rude awakening! I hope she didn't get knocked up and have to regret this decision for the rest of her life! I wont wish that on her!! Everyone deserves one screw up in their lives!!

Originally posted by: love_kash

Humeira used to be a very fav character of mine.
I respected the unconditional love she had towards ayaan but ever since vikrant's exit...her character is totally ruined.Her initial anger and rudeness can be justified in sense that she was broken and angry that ayaan didn't think about her but what surprised me was that it was rather easy for her to get over ayaan.For someone who loved a person since childhood,she was able to move on really fast and to the extent to elope and consummate her relationship.Though i don't watch qh anymore i do read WUs and the way cvs destroyed humeira's character really makes me sad.

Originally posted by: Zanutix

Humeira is plain stupid.

There, I said it!

Not only too eager to elope, but let's take into account her many..er... impulsive decisions.

1. This thing's bugging me A LOT. She wrote a 'haan' with her BLOOD.

HER BLOOD. I mean, enough with the dramatics! Use poster paint, Einstein.

And, what century are we in, 17th? Cellphones, anyone?

2. She tried to take her life by taking overdoses of medicines when Ayaan said he didn't love her back (Thanks for mentioning this point!). Let's have a reality check. All she wants to do is get married, eh? Then why bother to join a college? Not that she attends it anyway.

3. She is a brat. Since she gets everything in the blink of an eye, she isn't really aware of the worldly ways. Acts fussy too!(The Wajid-omellete scene! FaRz, where are you?!)

4. Practically strangled Billo Rani when she called her 'Beti'. Haha! It was funny indeed, but really Humeira? Strangling your anger out? Not very smart.

5. She knows that Zoya and Haider are conspiring against her parents, still she decides to turn a blind eye to it?

'Zoya hamari kuch nahi lagti, hume koi farak nahi padta ki woh kya karti hain. Humein unke Nikaah mein shaamil nahi hona.'

'Hum aapse mohobbat karte hain Haider!' -___-

Okay, I should stop my rant lest I get out of control.

PS - No offence meant to anyone, but I seriously, personally hate Humeira's character on the show.

Thanks for the post! :D

Originally posted by: BabajiKaThullu

Thanks.

Even I couldn't digest the "Bechari Humeira" and "disgusting Haider" rants. That's the reason I made the post.

@bold - that's so true. So many have left this forum due to this negativity. Live and let live has been changed with "Won't live and Wont let live either".

Thanks again.