Originally posted by: mochhug
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I am one of the those few lucky people who has amazing, loving, caring parents who will always put me first. And I always do the same for them.
So in my case, I would not be able to choose a life partner, or lover, or boyfriend over them.
That being said, I've been privy to some of the world's worst parents in the world. Its true your parents clothe you, feed you, raise you, and put a roof over your head. And for that you feel indebted to them. But it's also true, that a blood relation, a relationship by birth, does not give anyone, ANYONE the right to belittle or humiliate you. None at all. At least not for me.
OF COURSE! Most definitly.. as amber said. it depends on circumstance.. its not ALWAYS the case that you no matter what choose parents over lvoe.. sometimes parents are genuinly not worth it. BUT in QH case ALONE.. we are talking about Dilshaad and Asad. And that isnt a case where asad was choosing a HORRIFIC and HORRIBLE mother over the woman he loves.
If that person, your boyfriend, love, etc. Loves you, gives you the love that your parents don't, and treats you the way you truly deserve, then I wouldn't blame that person for choosing them over their parents.
The situation with Asad, Zoya, Rashid and Dilshad is entirely different. Asad, is completely right in not leaving for his mother's sake. Though I do think a part of him is also staying back, like someone else said, for his dying father. Because no matter what his father did, he is his father, and in times like these, all grudges should be forgotten. However I don't see how he chose Dilshad over Zoya. He stayed back. He didn't just go to SM for his mother and then leave for New York again. He still stayed back with Zoya.
All relationships hold some importance in our lives. And what Zoya said was so true. Relationships are made to be nurtured, not broken. So even thought Asad has been trying to break the relationship with his father for years, he can't. And now when he tried to do the same with mother, he couldn't Even when he was leaving he told her she is welcome to come to New York to see them. He is not breaking that tie. Simply running from the memories, and the helplessness of not being able to stop her.
precisely.
And now I think it'll be more clear for Asad, that Rashid was not lying, for once about his health. And he'll finally see that Dilshad actually did make this decision on her own. Because she wanted to. Not because she was forced to.
I always joke around that Rashid is faking.. i know he isnt.. 😆 i just say it because I hate him.. but i say it jokingly.. 😆 But exactly Asad needs to see the other side right now too.
Sorry if this is a little all over the place. I kinda let me thoughts run free 😆
Anupamaa
