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Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Zoya forgives and forgets everything. Where as Asad doesn't .

He called Zoya Misfit cause he knew He was the ONE who was the Misfit for her

He is a very weak man, he selflessly sacrifices for the people whom he loves cause he doesn't wants to lose them. He is afraid to accept Rashid cause he fears he will again be left. Hence he keeps on saying 'Apne ne mujhse meri Abbu chinn lii thi!'

Originally posted by: niki_12

Ankita I completely agree with you. In fact, I made a post along similar lines yesterday.

Here it is if you are interested:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3834912/my-take-on-the-amazing-episode-dec-3rd

But I have one addition today: I feel that people are dragging in AsYa's love in this mess for no reason. Their love should be questioned again and again if they have a disagreement, a fight, heck even a separation. I honestly feel their love is above petty issues. And like you said had Zoya not mentioned Rashid/Dilshad Asad had already melted. Furthermore, suppose he even left, I bet he would come running back because he misses Zoya. People are too harsh on AsYa. Just because they love each other does not mean they will always agree with each other.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Asad and Zoya's destinies have been written very similarly and HAVE to come to a point of agreement one day, because their situations are mirror images (Very well proved by Bheegi di ) If it happens now, there will be no story left to say.

The only thing is that they see the same thing in two different ways. I do not blame either in this scenario for any of their decisions, because from their POV it is right.

I just don't like that either of their love be questioned for the other TBH, just because two people have different opinions does it mean their love for the other ceases to exist? 😆

Originally posted by: euphoric

Very very very well written and sorted post. I am on team Asya too 😳

There are contours of grey between black and white and then the multitude of colours that make life. I completely agree with your post. Asad and Zoya have both been wronged by the people they love and have yet craved for nothing but acceptance. Walking away from the troubles can never erase them. Bottled up feelings are lethal and Asad was doing just that to himself. The darkness of the night evaporates with the morning sun but what can one do when he's loosing in oblivion. He needs to be pulled back. Asad needs to stay and fight his demons. You are so right about Asad feeling abandoned by Zoya at this crucial stage though thats not the case but he's not in his right mind to see it. He's hurt... deeply hurt. And Zoya is acting on the impulses she feels will prove to be his healing.

Asya needs one another. Take one away and the other will never be able to survive. They have to fight it out together and emerge. And together they will 😊

-Sonia

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Basically both of them are reacting differently because both of them have experienced the abandonment differently. Both of the are right and both of them are wrong at the same time.

It is easy for us to comment or be judgmental as a 3rd party as neither of us have experienced their pain, loneliness, suffering etc etc .😕😕

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

The exact point why they differ in views yet till now 😆 and will continue to do so 😆

I felt sad when people Questioned Ayaan's love for Humera. Yes did want Ayaan to abandon Humera, and that did happen, but then just cause provs do not match, just cause decisions dont agree, just cause Asad didn't agree to Zoya but his Mother, Just cause Zoya didn't agree to Asad but did to her Phoophie shouldn't make anyone jump to a conclusion that they don't deserve each other.

Tomorrow, if Asad decides to forgive everyone cause Zoya asked him to or if Zoya chooses Asad over Gaffur , it would be really disappointing to see the same people who said they dont deserve each other claim, Its only Asad who deserves Zoya and vice-versa 😆