My take on the AMAZING episode-Dec 3rd

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What a brilliant episode! 10/10 from my side.

A lion is wounded. The guy who all his life cared for everyone around him and never thought about himself has finally learned to put himself first. It started with Mohabbat Ki Jeet when he lost patience, fought for his love, and brought her back to where she belonged-with him.

All of the sudden Asad has started thinking about himself and has embraced a very extreme approach to it. So much so that his anger is blinding his better judgement. His ammi being taken away was the final nail in the coffin and now AAK cares about only one thing-getting away. Far far away from the pain, bad memories, from losing. He has mentioned on more than one instance that he has lost and defeat is something he can't accept.

In the process he forgets that he has another life attached to him now-Zoya's. He has called her his Zindagi and she indeed is. Just the slight indication of tears in her eyes stabs him and he apologizes. Explains his pain and wipes her tears. She understands. She is his better half and for her he is above all. She can't live without him. She complies and is ready to go with him. Leaving everything else behind even her abbu.

Asad feels he has lost but Zoya knows what he is doing now is making him lose more. He is giving up relationships he has been blessed with, something she has longed for all her life, and he is just giving them up. She does not want him to make this mistake. She tries various approaches to get the point to him but Asad's anger blinds him. His hatred for Rashid has made him bitter. He utters words to Rashid which Zoya knows he will regret because she knows that behind this man is the little boy who longed for his father and still does.

She tries to convince him once more-but the defeat Asad has suffered is too overwhelming to overcome for Asad. She finally shows him the mirror. Asad went from being the sweetheart which we were seeing to a wounded lion who has so much pain. She calls him pathar dil tells him this is not the AAK she loves. She loves that selfless sweetheart. And that's it for Asad. He has had enough. Everyone is pointing out his flaws. He told Zoya he would never lose again and all he has been doing is losing. He has made a decision and he is going to stick by it. He is not going to lose from himself. And he walks out. Why doesn't Zoya go? Because she knows this is the only way to stop Asad. If they leave, she knows Asad will end up making a mistake he will always regret. Some where she also knows that if Zoya stays back Asad will be drawn back.

Asad and Zoya are both flawed. They are not perfect. There is a lot of criticism that they should put each other first and how can they just separate on a drop of a hat. Let me ask you girls when have we ALWAYS implemented the lessons we learned in life? There are several times that our better judgement is clouded. In Asad's case his anger is clouding his better judgement. Zoya is not putting RaDil first-she is putting Asad first because she knows he will regret this. Just like you and me, even AsYa make mistakes. This does not mean that they don't care about their about each other or their relationship. This just means that they are human. If Asad loses from himself now he won't even be able to face himself. If Zoya does not stop Asad then she will end up making an even bigger mistake and the only way to do it is refusing to go with him. Both are right in their places. Just because they are upset at each other does not mean they stop loving each other or will forget each other. Life is not a bed of roses and humans make mistakes. Their love is way too deep and they both know that.

Zoya realizes this and decides she needs to stop Asad. How can she live without him? She runs to stop him. The precap is one of the most beautiful precap's of QH. There is no way Asad can say no to those pleading eyes. Just like Zoya realized, Asad will too. He is upset at her abandoning him now and we all know about AAK's anger. But he himself has said it is very hard to stay upset at Zoya for long.

It is not about not prioritizing each other. It is about POV. AsYa's POV differs and both are right in their places. I don't know if you noticed or not but separating was painful for both of them and always will be. AsYa mean the world to each other. Just because they falter here and there and end up taking the wrong approach (Asad running away and Zoya letting him go) does not mean they don't prioritize each other. Because tomorrow Asad will once again put Zoya first and not stand by his decision because his Zoya needs him.

Okay i have said enough: All in all, fantastic episode. AsYa were brilliant. Zoya calling him a pathar dil was her last try to bring her sweetheart Asad back. But for Asad he is done with people pointing fingers. So both are justified.

I can't wait for tomorrow!

My prediction:
Asad may go to SM and may reconcile with Rashid. They may come to a point where Rashid ties Asad's sehra. But when mother truth comes out the hatred will be 10 times. "Rashid saab aap maafi ke layak nahi hai. Pehle apna mera baap cheena, phir meri Ammi, aur ab apne ek masoom Zoya ka bachpan bhi cheen liya, na jane aur kya kya paap kiye honge apne." It will only be Zoya who will eventually patch Asad and Rashid up by forgiving Rashid for his sins and telling Asad to do the same.

Don't really care about Humaira-Haidar 😆

Sorry the post is so long.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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tfs.this is the best post on ASYA on todays episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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its a brilliant post 😊👏

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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeee niki ka red wala post .
wow
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It was a brilliant analysis... 👏 Thank u so much for not taking anyone's side alone...As u said here both are right and wrong...And the precap was the best...U r rite Asad can't say no to those pleading eyes of Zoya coz Zoya is his life ,his better half... 😊
Edited by aksasya - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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"No relationship is
perfect, ever. There are
always some ways you
have to bend, to
compromise, to give
something up in order
to gain something
greater...The love we
have for each other is
bigger than these
small differences. And
that's the key. It's like
a big pie chart, and
the love in a
relationship has to be
the biggest piece. Love
can make up for a
lot."

-Sarah Dessen
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Niki your posts r always the best...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Red Post! 😃 Love it Niki!

I completely agree. Asad and Zoya each have their point of view on things and neither one is totally wrong or totally right. It is all a very confusing, complicated, and messed up situation. Sometimes it isn't about who is right or wrong but understanding and seeing both sides of the story and simply admitting this is the way it is. That in itself is part of the healing process.

Today's episode was superb. This is the Qubool Hai that I love ❤️...the dialogues and the scenes all had a point. I feel the story is moving forward again.

I cannot wait for tomorrow's episode. Seriously Hats Off to the cast and crew of Qubool Hai! 👏 This is why I can never quit the show...when you have gems of an episode like these.
Edited by iheartChai - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You Said It All Niki, Loved It 👏

"Difference Of Opinions Does Not Make Anyone Right Or Wrong It Only Makes The Situation Even More Complicated Where No One Is Right Or Wrong"

Asad Needs To Understand The Fact >

Asad's Hate Feelings Towards Raashid Harming Asad More Then Raashid, Runing Away Is Not A Solution, Face The Problem n Get Over With It!

Zoya Needs To Understand The Fact >

Forgive n Forget Formula Does Not Work All The Time, To Hate Someone Is Not A Crime, Sometimes Hate Is The Best Solution To Forget Your Pain When You Just Cant Forgive Your Beloved Who Is Wrong!

Haider Is Targeting Both Raziyaa n Her Weak Point Her Daughter!

n Manav Should Change His Khatara Car ASAP! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post. AsYa are complete just the way they are. They know it too. I can see the prediction unfolding that way.

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