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Posted: 11 years ago
#51
I don't feel sorry for anyone except maybe Humeira but soon that sympathy will vanish too as Haider will enter and charm her pants off, the girl needs some lovin'. For some reason I feel emotionally disconnected from the current storyline :S


Perhaps because I'm still pissed that ZoYaan was brushed under the rug, forgotten like a bad dream.

The Dilshad-Zoe scene was good I suppose but a bit melodramatic for my liking. The way Dilshad was saying 'Main kaisi Maa hoon' over and over again made me snicker, reminded me of a melodramatic Juhi in SRK-Juhi movies from the 90's.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#52
I liked Dil-Zoya's conv, It was heart touching scene.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#53
Phew, what an unholy mess!
Just as I suspected and claimed many times in the past, Rashid and Dilshad are not divorced. Razia continues to get love letters! The botoxed and comatose visage of Badi Bi hides a busy mind working out the menu for Dilus rasoi ka Rrasm revisited!

Toh kya hua ki aap ka aur unka kaanooni rishta nahi hain? Dil ki raah kabhi buri nahi hoti! Ek baar aap unke biwi the!

And folks, there is loads more where that came from!

In science and engineering, where a lot of you ladies excel I am sure, there is a phenomenon called force fit. Where you force fit everything you see and observe to suit your main trend, or theory. That is what Zoya does in life. The outlier of Rashid having a second wife? Ignore it! The outlier of him living with the siddiquis? Ignore it! You must have thought about that na, phuphti? Just do it. I will manage Mr. Khan. Your heart is the surefire, tamper proof, rock solid, flawless decision maker phuphi! Judt like mine! Rashid loves you phuphi! Just las Mr. Khan does me! Dont worry about Shireen! Mr. Khan has escaped Phuphi, because he does not understand your pain, not because he will not be able to see you cry as you go, and he would rather disappear for a while while you garner your strength to stand by your current chioce. What was that you said Phuphi? That final telltale remark about Rashid needing you now more than the rest? I will ignore that. Phuphi, because that does not fit in with my beautiful theory and experience of my heart. I will also ignore that in the short span of ten days and eleven nights, I had forgotten my way and purpose in life as dadi bent me over a barrel and manipulated me completely. I am going to ignore the fact that I had become as complicit and as delusional as the other inmates, until your son came and with his words toeveryone cleared the mists from my head Rashid did the same phuphi, he came for you, amd said you are his biwi, see, he did not divorce you so he must be right! Lets ignore the fact that he was sick.

Dilshads grief and zoyas compassion were beautifully portrayed today as was Shireens helplessness and Ayaans desperation. The sordidness of the whole mess was revealed by the utter stupidity of the dialogues. Plays in contrast! Hmm!


Edited by Oldestfan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: VashH



Well said !!
Everyone's understanding is different .
Respect each response because sometimes we tend to see what suits us . It's good to speak out . This is how we learn from each other and becomes the more wiser .


One of her first dialogues on the show was...'Sab restrictions ladkiyon pe hi kyun hote hain...she did not claim...she projected herself as a feminist at each step...Mariam's marriage and Naj's eve teasing are examples, but of course they were constructive incidents. ...when it came to her, she became passive aggressive. .totally...so that's where the pseudo part comes in...she projects what she is not...

And yes..Asad should have stayed by to face it...but he has a weak moment too...the way Dilshaad did when she said yes to Rashid...their reactions are perfectly in line with how a human should react...IMO...

Also...Zoya of all people must understand that how the other woman feels...and the other woman has kids too...I cannot expect Shireen to be the better woman here at all...Zoya spoke so highly about marriage and now she suddenly says how does it matter if u are not married now? I mean good that they aren't divorced...but had they been..RaDil would have been committing adultery...the same or maybe worse than what AsYa were accused of committing...Mohabbat ki jeet does not mean that they forget the basic roots...and here the writers are to blame...this situation is about the test of Dilshaad's character..not Asad's or anybody else's...it's her moment of examination and no one else can make it easy for her...if u ask me should she stay looking at the fact that Ayaan too walked out...hell no...she should come back knowing she has destroyed two families...something similar to what Shireen did...Dilshaad is the selfish one...rest everyone...Zoe included are only reacting to her...

My only point here is that when a man commits a mistake..it is as forgivable as when a woman commits it...so if Asad walking away is a sign of weak character...Dilshaad giving in to a man like Rashid is even worse than weak...and saying that they never had self respect does not make them a victim...it is her and Rashid's fault...and Asad and Zoya and Ayaan are their children..not their parents...when such a situation arises...it's more on the parents than on the child to rise upto it...isliye woh maa-baap hote hain...aur tajurbe mein bahut bade hote hain...badappan badon ko hi dikhana padta hai...

P.S: Always a pleasure debating with u guys..me will be a little on and off today..so excuse my delayed replies please😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Phew, what an unholy mess!

Just as I suspected and claimed many times in the past, Rashid and Dilshad are not divorced. Razia continues to get love letters! The botoxed and comatose visage of Badi Bi hides a busy mind working out the menu for Dilus rasoi ka Rrasm revisited!

Toh kya hua ki aap ka aur unka kaanooni rishta nahi hain? Dil ki raah kabhi buri nahi hoti! Ek baar aap unke biwi the!

And folks, there is loads more where that came from!

In science and engineering, where a lot of you ladies excel I am sure, there is a phenomenon called force fit. Where you force fit everything you see and observe to suit your main trend, or theory. That is what Zoya does in life. The outlier of Rashid having a second wife? Ignore it! The outlier of him living with the siddiquis? Ignore it! You must have thought about that na, phuphti? Just do it. I will manage Mr. Khan. Your heart is the surefire, tamper proof, rock solid, flawless decision maker phuphi! Judt like mine! Rashid loves you phuphi! Just las Mr. Khan does me! Dont worry about Shireen! Mr. Khan has escaped Phuphi, because he does not understand your pain, not because he will not be able to see you cry as you go, and he would rather disappear for a while while you garner your strength to stand by your current chioce. What was that you said Phuphi? That final telltale remark about Rashid needing you now more than the rest? I will ignore that. Phuphi, because that does not fit in with my beautiful theory and experience of my heart. I will also ignore that in the short span of ten days and eleven nights, I had forgotten my way and purpose in life as dadi bent me over a barrel and manipulated me completely. I am going to ignore the fact that I had become as complicit and as delusional as the other inmates, until your son came and with his words toeveryone cleared the mists from my head Rashid did the same phuphi, he came for you, amd said you are his biwi, see, he did not divorce you so he must be right! Lets ignore the fact that he was sick.

Dilshads grief and zoyas compassion were beautifully portrayed today as was Shireens helplessness and Ayaans desperation. The sordidness of the whole mess was revealed by the utter stupidity of the dialogues. Plays in contrast! Hmm!



And this is the main hassle. ...the rose tinted glasses refuse to come off...no learning is done...past experience means nothing...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

I don't feel sorry for anyone except maybe Humeira but soon that sympathy will vanish too as Haider will enter and charm her pants off, the girl needs some lovin'. For some reason I feel emotionally disconnected from the current storyline :S


Perhaps because I'm still pissed that ZoYaan was brushed under the rug, forgotten like a bad dream.

The Dilshad-Zoe scene was good I suppose but a bit melodramatic for my liking. The way Dilshad was saying 'Main kaisi Maa hoon' over and over again made me snicker, reminded me of a melodramatic Juhi in SRK-Juhi movies from the 90's.


Word Tanvi...there is no connect as of now
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Posted: 11 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: _vineeta_

Hi Shruti I havent watched it and just read update and few posts...

I still dont like whole approach for sending Dilshad to SM, whats deal with being married deal. If everyone believed they were divorced than why Asad didnt say anything on it in first place. How marriage make difference here, did writers forget this is muslim show and multile marriage is valid? Does this make Rashid redeemable, makes Dilshad sudden longing for Rashid over her children more sense..
Today Gaffur called Dilshad names behind her tomorrow he will do in front, its his house and his sister's house still..
17 years back Shireen made a son fatherless and today Dilshad is doing same, now should we call it Shireen's fast track redemption as Dilshad did fall on same level, she is not caring if her man is shared or leaving her kids behind.
I heard Shabnam was awesom today too..
Cant wait for threesome romance in SM, and I thought we got relief from Haseena filthy tongue now but seems like more filthy and dirty stuff is on the way. QH writers love them..
Haider entry doesnt excite me, VM leaving is depressing and Karan sick is just huge blow. No, without these two QH is not worth watching for sure, hope Gul realize and provide meatier story aroung Asad. Seems like they are rewriting the story and dont know where the heck to start from.


They are so confused as of now Vineeta...and Vm and Karan's absence is not helping...Shabnam was great...the was the single moment of brilliance in the episode...

As Tanvi said..the connect is not there...the emotions are vacillating
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Posted: 11 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: maha70

nice post.

will it help to expidite gudiya factory raaz by dilshad going to SM, this is why gul is sending dilshad to SM?
because razia was scared of dilshad and also she tried to shoot dilshad earlier.


Thanks😃

I think the Gudiya factory may raise it's head again😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just saw the epi. Was Farhan planning to just leave Nikhat there n drive away without telling the others what had happened, had she not appeared fm behind the car? 😆

Loved the epi. Under the current circumstances I think Zoya gave the right advice n with the right words of encouragement. What else was she supposed to do? Dilshaad had made up her mind and Zoya knows what it is to be separated fm her love. She hasn't seen what has happened in those 17 years. She is not heartless. Going thru so much pain in her life she understands the pain of both parties (Dilshad and Asad). But after Dilshad announced her decision and even Asad is not being able to stop her what else will Zoya do except support her n give her a decent farewell?

Having said that I'm still against Dilshad's decision of going and staying with Wimpid knowing fully well that Shireen is in the same house 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nautanki_anu

Just saw the epi. Was Farhan planning to just leave Nikhat there n drive away without telling the others what had happened, had she not appeared fm behind the car? 😆

Loved the epi. Under the current circumstances I think Zoya gave the right advice n with the right words of encouragement. What else was she supposed to do? Dilshaad had made up her mind and Zoya knows what it is to be separated fm her love. She hasn't seen what has happened in those 17 years. She is not heartless. Going thru so much pain in her life she understands the pain of both parties (Dilshad and Asad). But after Dilshad announced her decision and even Asad is not being able to stop her what else will Zoya do except support her n give her a decent farewell?

Having said that I'm still against Dilshad's decision of going and staying with Wimpid knowing fully well that Shireen is in the same house 😡


Heya Anu🤗...Zoya maybe did the right thing...but her dialogues were a total off for me...see...whatever Mohabbat ki jeet was shoved down our throat, sabse awwal baat, RaDil or AsYa ka case bahut alag hai...17 saal aur 17 din mein zameen aasman ka fark hota hai...she may not know what happened but she sure as hell is aware that the 17 odd years were a bad time for Khan family...secondly...Asad jab Zoe ko lene aaya toh even Ayaan wanted that...Asad did not do something that destroyed lives...it saved them...4 lives were back to normal again...

And u know I am ancient...I think marriage is very overrated but once u get into it you should try to maintain it's sanctity even if u cannot uphold the bond...Rashid chahe toh Shireen ko chhod de...but he has no right to insult both these women by putting them through all this...

She had to give a decent farewell...I was loving their conversation until she spouted..kya hua agar aap married nahi ho unse...I lost the conversation right there...it is adultery...I know the shot was put in so that the no divorce reveal can happen at both places...but that dialogue wiped out the entire conversation for me...someone would argue that AsYa stay together too...but Zoe has not moved in with Asad in the capacity of his other half...and they never considered ZoYaan...not even Ayaan did that..

But here...Dilshaad talks about moving in with her shauhar...who until she told the truth was assumed to be a paraya mard...and still it was being encouraged despite knowing that she will be razing the home of another woman..who is Rashid's wife...
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