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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Wasn't I always smart😳😆

I know there are adults of this nature and thanks to them we have men like Asad who have unsuccessfully tried to strangle the child within them...and a parent can be 80 years old and having a 55 year old child who may be a granddad or grandmom themselves...it's the parent who takes responsibility for the child and not vice versa...a child can support their parents but they cannot do a role reversal totally...the child within them is very vulnerable...child is the father of man is not to be taken literally😆

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Welcomes the backs...😆...I get your point about it being a Hindi serial...but I for one thought it to be highly callous and basically immoral on Zoe's part to say something like that..minor glitches even I can understand...but maybe I am too ancient I guess...I did not like her saying that and it took away from the previous 4 minutes for me...sab accha jaa raha tha and it completely threw me off track...even if I forget the morality and the ethics issue...it was plain insensitive...that way all ex wives can reconcile with their husbands...who may have another wife...a divorce is a legal document so that it leaves no ambiguity...had she been divorced and still moving to SM...Shireen could send her to prison for trespassing...and this I am saying forgetting all the wrong that it would have been on many levels...

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Yes you were always smart but my question is how did you get that smart.

And you stand correct in regards to parents taking responsibility and not vice versa.

I do think the CV's or the PH has had some serious parental problems to actually agree to show such crap. 🤢🤢

I am so disgusted that it has become nauseating to even comment on this topic. Zoya needs to grow a brain and cut short a tongue. 😕😕

Originally posted by: nautanki_anu

There are a lot of immoral, unethical, insensitive and 'wrong' things that serial makers are showing in all serials at some point or the other even though the serial maybe highly progressive in nature. This dialogue of Zoya's is one example and there are many such in QH itself. I registered it yet ignored it completely becoz I looked at the scene as a whole and it's execution and treatment by CVs and that's why I liked it. I also understand why you cannot accept it though.

I still can't get over Zoyaan nikaah and how Zoya was traded which for me was something more unacceptable than whatever I've seen in QH so far.

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

The answer to that is: My parents set the right example😳

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

👏👏 To your parents darling. For mum and dad

Remember it is not always Parents but also life experiences that make us what we are. I grew up as an adopted child and had 3 adopted older siblings. The same house , the same adults as example but the 3 are so different from me. I am down to earth, sensitive to the pain of others and that includes animals. I do not look at materialistic things as my wealth though thank God i have a comfortable life now. I am God fearing.

And yet the other 3 are total opposites of me

@ starsinmyeyes
Good Point : One issue that I always think should be addressed is how important is the of parent to the child or the child to the parent. Very contradicting . Blame the children for parents mistakes !! This is always a one sided affair . .. Meaning ... Whatever parents do affects the child . If they project happiness this is what the child will be : Happy .. If they do the opposite then the child will be unhappy . So whatever negative step parents take affects the children accordingly . Mother and Father .. Two simple words . But in fact it is a title that comes with a lifetime of responsibility .Yes. ! the child's ..Happiness .. Security : education : and the list has no end just like the relationship . On the other hand whatever the child does ...Do not affect the parent ..but only the child because the parent is not dependent on the child. So don't give me the nonsense that I deserve to be happy . You already have that and it only took nine months max to achieve it and from that moment .. Parenting never stops and the behavior of the child is your doing most of the time .
The sins of the parent falls on the child !!.

Originally posted by: VashH

@ starsinmyeyes
Good Point : One issue that I always think should be addressed is how important is the of parent to the child or the child to the parent. Very contradicting . Blame the children for parents mistakes !! This is always a one sided affair . .. Meaning ... Whatever parents do affects the child . If they project happiness this is what the child will be : Happy .. If they do the opposite then the child will be unhappy . So whatever negative step parents take affects the children accordingly . Mother and Father .. Two simple words . But in fact it is a title that comes with a lifetime of responsibility .Yes. ! the child's ..Happiness .. Security : education : and the list has no end just like the relationship . On the other hand whatever the child does ...Do not affect the parent ..but only the child because the parent is not dependent on the child. So don't give me the nonsense that I deserve to be happy . You already have that and it only took nine months max to achieve it and from that moment .. Parenting never stops and the behavior of the child is your doing most of the time .
The sins of the parent falls on the child !!.

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

U said it Vash...and as of now...no better person than you to know it firsthand and hold a well informed opinion about it👏...

Thank You My Dear
It is what it is !!

Originally posted by: VashH

@ starsinmyeyes
Good Point : One issue that I always think should be addressed is how important is the of parent to the child or the child to the parent. Very contradicting . Blame the children for parents mistakes !! This is always a one sided affair . .. Meaning ... Whatever parents do affects the child . If they project happiness this is what the child will be : Happy .. If they do the opposite then the child will be unhappy . So whatever negative step parents take affects the children accordingly . Mother and Father .. Two simple words . But in fact it is a title that comes with a lifetime of responsibility .Yes. ! the child's ..Happiness .. Security : education : and the list has no end just like the relationship . On the other hand whatever the child does ...Do not affect the parent ..but only the child because the parent is not dependent on the child. So don't give me the nonsense that I deserve to be happy . You already have that and it only took nine months max to achieve it and from that moment .. Parenting never stops and the behavior of the child is your doing most of the time .
The sins of the parent falls on the child !!.