Is Dilshad doing wrong? - Page 2

Originally posted by: VashH

Dilshad deserves to be happy but not at the expense of her son.
Unacceptable !!.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

She is not wrong in wanting to take a decision for herself. For wanting to fulfill her desire of spending life with the one she loved. BUT the way she has done it is wrong. She took a decision without letting Asad even know about it? Does he deserve to know of her decision like the way he got to know of it? If she sat down, told him her plight, and her decision and made him understand it, respecting his emotions as much as hers and Rashid's I would understand her as much. Asad has done more than a son does all his life. Having been abandoned by his father and left to shoulder responsibilities like the man of the house has made him devoid of basic happiness all his life. He has become bitter not because of the pain he had to go through but because of the pain his mother had to go through. And today she just tells him I've decided to go live with your father and walk off ?

Fine she loves Rashid and she just forgives him, but how can she forgive him for what her both children went through, mentally, emotionally, and materialistically too.

She has every right to do what she wants in her life, but her children have as much right to know of her decisions and be a part of them as well.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

She is not wrong in wanting to take a decision for herself. For wanting to fulfill her desire of spending life with the one she loved. BUT the way she has done it is wrong. She took a decision without letting Asad even know about it? Does he deserve to know of her decision like the way he got to know of it? If she sat down, told him her plight, and her decision and made him understand it, respecting his emotions as much as hers and Rashid's I would understand her as much. Asad has done more than a son does all his life. Having been abandoned by his father and left to shoulder responsibilities like the man of the house has made him devoid of basic happiness all his life. He has become bitter not because of the pain he had to go through but because of the pain his mother had to go through. And today she just tells him I've decided to go live with your father and walk off ?

Fine she loves Rashid and she just forgives him, but how can she forgive him for what her both children went through, mentally, emotionally, and materialistically too.

She has every right to do what she wants in her life, but her children have as much right to know of her decisions and be a part of them as well.

Moreover all of them have always been abused and insulted by people in SM, does he not know what Zoya had to go through there and what Dilshad will have to go through over and over ? He is protecting her by doing what he is.

Originally posted by: ..preethi..

yes, dilshad still loves rashid but does she evn deserves rashids love? hell NO!! & moreover rashid left dilshad 17yrs back & left dilu,asad najma in streets they have to work hard to earn their living & rasid had 3 children with another women & he says he loves shireen & also dilshad.. cm'on how can he love 2 women @ the same time? i see rashid love fake 1ly it can never be called as love ... if i say so tat is an insult to love😡

Originally posted by: beekay1

I'm not a parent, and I speak for myself here.

When I watched Dilshad, Asad scene where Dilshad is trying to tell Asad of her decision, her want. She is scared to do so.

I realized there are so many times, my parents must have through the same with me. Not because I'm an ogre but for the fear that I would be unhappy.

The scene at the dining table, Asad was pulling Zoya's leg but he failed to see that his mother's unhappiness, Asad is wrapped up in his world, in his love for Zoya that he has not seen his mother's unhappiness. He has taken his mother for granted.

This made me realize how much I take my parents for granted. I get so wrapped with my life (no boyfriend, nor am I married 😃) that I just expect them to be just around.

This made me reflect on the way I take my parents for granted too and its little things.

I see my brother fall in love and now his world is his wife and his child. My parents are important to him. But he tends to be wrapped up in his life. Is it wrong? No not one bit.

My brother's wife and his child are my brother's future.

Similarly. Asad has found Zoya.

Dilshad made the decision after rationalizing with herself. She was trying to tell Asad of her decision when Rashid walked in. So Dilshad here is not to blame.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

Agree and she shld not even for a minute second think that ASAD should forgive the SLIME BALL Rashid

Originally posted by: beekay1

I'm not a parent, and I speak for myself here.

When I watched Dilshad, Asad scene where Dilshad is trying to tell Asad of her decision, her want. She is scared to do so.

I realized there are so many times, my parents must have through the same with me. Not because I'm an ogre but for the fear that I would be unhappy.

The scene at the dining table, Asad was pulling Zoya's leg but he failed to see that his mother's unhappiness, Asad is wrapped up in his world, in his love for Zoya that he has not seen his mother's unhappiness. He has taken his mother for granted.

This made me realize how much I take my parents for granted. I get so wrapped with my life (no boyfriend, nor am I married 😃) that I just expect them to be just around.

This made me reflect on the way I take my parents for granted too and its little things.

I see my brother fall in love and now his world is his wife and his child. My parents are important to him. But he tends to be wrapped up in his life. Is it wrong? No not one bit.

My brother's wife and his child are my brother's future.

Similarly. Asad has found Zoya.

Dilshad made the decision after rationalizing with herself. She was trying to tell Asad of her decision when Rashid walked in. So Dilshad here is not to blame.

Originally posted by: beekay1

If Dilshad has to ask Asad has to choose between Dilshad and Zoya, who do you think he should choose?