Is Dilshad doing wrong? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Asad has given his full life to his mother, to his family, to the women in his life. Has Asad ever been selfish ever? LOL you gotta be kidding me saying he is wrapped up in his own world. Dilshad was out of the house when Asad and Zoya were bickering. But when his Ammi comes into the picture in any scene at any moment, Asad's entire attention goes to her, his concerns lie in her.

Dilshad was scared because she knows she is about to do something questionable. The same Dilshad slapped her own son in front of the entire world without thinking that her son wouldn't do anything as cheap as what had been made out to be, she spoke for Zoya, she spoke up against Asad whenever he was wrong. But the same Dilshad falters today not because she is scared of her own son, but because she knows what she is doing is not the best decision she has made.

The question here is, that at what cost is Dilshad choosing her happiness? She has been abandoned by a man 17 years ago, left with nothing but misery and two beautiful but helpless children. She lived a life of dignity by earning every penny with the help of the son who shouldered her and helped her at that age like her parent more than child. And today she is choosing to go with a man who didn't think twice before leaving her and does not think twice before telling her to come live with his second wife under the same roof? 🤢 Asad is not being selfish he is trying to do the right here, by safeguarding his mother from going through another set of insults. He is fighting for her and not himself.

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Maybe she is nt wrong at her place.. Bt stying wid rashid at SM is deffinately wrong.. Unknowingly or knowingly she is doing d same thing what shirin did wid her..

dilshad have every right but asad roesnot deseve this yaar poor boy .
betraued by every one
father
best friend
mother
love zoya read ajmer track.
brother blackmail him
mukaadder even god not spare him
but he fight n come back with bang.
love u asaf

I just hate the fact That asad doesnt know his mother desicion
Cant she talk to him before meeting rashid and accept to live with him
I
Didnt Like the fact That rashid was so confident Like a hero who
Want to take his heroine along with him ,ofcourse he acting Like hero because he already Had dilshad "yes " he already know dilshad is taayar ho
I didnt Like "u Like it or not but dilshad Will go with me"
I m telling this man is selfish
About dilshad i really want her to live happy to get whatever she want but this man cant protect her the way asad did his whole live
To be honest i never thought dilshad Will accept at Any case to live in sm,
And asad is absltly right

i really dont know what to say/..but if i am in dilshad's place i will not take back rashid...because he moment he chose another women its over for me...and i will not share my love or life with another women...after facing all the humiliations i would never give in for rashid...and my happiness wouldbe to live with my son for my entire life., because i hope i would have learnt the lesson of MOVING ON very well all these years of separation and would not do the same mistake what was done to me some years back/...IF DILSHAD GOES BACK., THEN NOW SHE IS TAKING RASHID BACK FROM SHIREEN., AND THAT'S NOT NEEDED., BECAUSE I SAW HER AS A STRIONG WOMEN WHO MOVED ON...

Sad thing is some women are too forgiving take Dilshad for an example.My main concern isnt if Dilshad should move in with Rashid or not but why should she move in to Siddique mansion.The name says it all...its Gafur and Razia siddiques home not Rashids.
And why should Asad trust Rashid with his mom.Not once did Rashid say or do anything to prove his love.
His so called love suffered for years did he in any way help her???
Did he ever shut those who insulted and cursed her???
Im sorry but if I was in Dilshads place I would have demanded divorce way back.

in my opinion she is wrong for many reasons. firstly i dont understand how one can be right in something that is causing so many people pain including your own children. i think she is wrong for accepting a man who left her and their children for his own sake and now decides to take her beck. She is basically a doormat. I think she is wrong as a mother for not just choosing Rashid over her child but literally ambushing Asad with this news and not trying to make a compromise but just leaving asad.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

She is not wrong in wanting to take a decision for herself. For wanting to fulfill her desire of spending life with the one she loved. BUT the way she has done it is wrong. She took a decision without letting Asad even know about it? Does he deserve to know of her decision like the way he got to know of it? If she sat down, told him her plight, and her decision and made him understand it, respecting his emotions as much as hers and Rashid's I would understand her as much. Asad has done more than a son does all his life. Having been abandoned by his father and left to shoulder responsibilities like the man of the house has made him devoid of basic happiness all his life. He has become bitter not because of the pain he had to go through but because of the pain his mother had to go through. And today she just tells him I've decided to go live with your father and walk off ?

Fine she loves Rashid and she just forgives him, but how can she forgive him for what her both children went through, mentally, emotionally, and materialistically too.

She has every right to do what she wants in her life, but her children have as much right to know of her decisions and be a part of them as well.

Moreover all of them have always been abused and insulted by people in SM, does he not know what Zoya had to go through there and what Dilshad will have to go through over and over ? He is protecting her by doing what he is.

Yes she's very much wrong! Not, for choosing her happiness but for choosing happiness with a man who was the reason of her and her children's unhappiness, pain, betrayal, struggle. Judge me all you want but Dilshaad has no damn right to choose Rashid over Asad. No DAMN right! She has no friggin' right to abandon her son after all these years for spineless Rashid Ahmed Khan . It was Asad who stood with her all through his life not Rashid. It was Asad who supported her all through his life not Rashid. It's Asad who puts his mother above everything even above his own life not Rashid. It's Asad who stands up for his mom's dignity and respect not Rashid. And You're very wrong in saying Asad gets so lost in his own world that he doesn't realize his mom's unhappiness. This man has lived all his life to make his mom and sister happy and now Zoya is a part of that circle. He knows his mother's unhappiness but there are situations where he cannot do anything about. He tries his best to make her happy by whatever he can. If tomorrow she wants to move on with someone, I'm sure he will support his mom but that man should not be Rashid Ahmed Khan. How do you expect him to forget all the pain, heart-breaks, struggle his mom went through? Even today this man can do anything for his mom's happiness but he cannot let her go with a man who abandoned her and never looked back.