How indecent can they get - Page 15

this is not a marriage girl!! a hug is not sex...it is an expression of pure love...not that the forum wasis would mind the former either between AsYa ...ha ha ha...

Originally posted by: dmg2c

this is not a marriage girl!! a hug is not sex...it is an expression of pure love...not that the forum wasis would mind the former either between AsYa ...ha ha ha...

Sweetie I said this hug thing .. This is it ..
Dealt with her in another post of the same
The girl just don't understand what love is

Originally posted by: dmg2c

this is not a marriage girl!! a hug is not sex...it is an expression of pure love...not that the forum wasis would mind the former either between AsYa ...ha ha ha...

Originally posted by: naina2010

I never called a hug to sex, I although said it as it's not correct and it's indecent to behave in such a way. I said it's giving out a different meaning so I had to say book a room and get over it, if can't able to hold your emotions and senses

It's you all members written all sorts of words to it.

Originally posted by: naina2010

In all 18 pages the only fact remains is zoya is married in front of society and she has signed nikah Nama for whatever reasons , until she remains under that clause, it's very dirty and indecent too to do all these kind of actions being in someone else house.

Lovers need not express this way. That's what I mean.

But in all 18 pages it's showing that unless physical these lovers can't even exist.

In all 18 pages, I suppose that the essential aspect of the argument posed has been overlooked. Asad and Zoya were not hugging to express their love. That would be an extremely imbecilic rebellion. All four hugs have served as means of solace and comfort for the couple.

And since you have brought up the "in someone else's house" argument, I would suggest referring to all comments that have addressed various reasons why no one in that household deserves any sort of respect.

As for the "without physical intimacy, love cannot exist" accusation, may I dare point out that such a thing was never said? Quite on the contrary, you mentioned, in your original post, that AsYa's relationship was bordering on lust and they need to release those pent up sexual desires in a more socially acceptable manner (i.e. book a room). Everyone else was simply pointing out why those hugs were AsYa's means of finding comfort. Not lusting after each other.

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

In all 18 pages, I suppose that the essential aspect of the argument posed has been overlooked. Asad and Zoya were not hugging to express their love. That would be an extremely imbecilic rebellion. All four hugs have served as means of solace and comfort for the couple.

And since you have brought up the "in someone else's house" argument, I would suggest referring to all comments that have addressed various reasons why no one in that household deserves any sort of respect.

As for the "without physical intimacy, love cannot exist" accusation, may I dare point out that such a thing was never said? Quite on the contrary, you mentioned, in your original post, that AsYa's relationship was bordering on lust and they need to release those pent up sexual desires in a more socially acceptable manner (i.e. book a room). Everyone else was simply pointing out why those hugs were AsYa's means of finding comfort. Not lusting after each other.

So, I can see the long debate over this topic, not to mention some hilarious posts, but I'd just like to reiterate a few points that some people are forgetting (not bashing or disrespecting them, but simply juxtaposing my answers to the authors :

Originally posted by: JustEthereal

So, I can see the long debate over this topic, not to mention some hilarious posts, but I'd just like to reiterate a few points that some people are forgetting (not bashing or disrespecting them, but simply juxtaposing my answers to the authors :

1) There is a reason the marriage was shown to be illegal. They could have simply just gotten married; it isn't unknown of, in the tele land, to get accidentally married to someone else - the reel world is full of them. However, this marriage wasn't legal. So firstly, you argument is not valid AT ALL. It doesn't have a backbone.

2) Let's simply disregard the fact that they aren't actually even in a marriage. Even, if that were the case, Ayan and Zoya don't accept the marriage in any sense. Of course, we all say (don't know about you), that love conquers all, and a loveless marriage is worse no marriage at all. Living with a person because of the society, and not because you love, forget love, even feel a thread of emotion for that person, is a crime in itself.

3) If you want to ignore the last point too, let's come to society. You do realize that the society, in this case, consists of Gaffur - the person who betrayed his wife, Razia - who thrives on murders and making people miserable, Rashid - a spineless and worthless piece of crap of a person, who thought it would be better to get remarried, than to go to prison, not to forget that if you take his children's age into account, he was cheating on his gullible wife long before that; the Grandma - who has never given an eff about her first daughter-in-law or grandchildren and seems more hell bent on defeating Razia; and I don't even need to state the invectives I have for Hassena Bi and her perfect family. In fact, comparing the couple with these people, Asya look like the most decent of the lot. They haven't betrayed anyone, aren't trying to hide their feelings, and are pretty sure that they are IT for one another. Let's just state the obvious here - Their love is much more important than a set of bad excuses of human beings here. They don't give an eff about them, the viewers don't and you shouldn't either.

4) Personally, I am fed up of their hugs. Not in your way though. I just want them to stop hugging and get on with some action. Anything- kisses, break-up, jail, anything! We live in the age of internet and stuff - google if you want - how many people want to be stuck in a loveless sham of marriage? The reason our country has so many long-lasting yet unhappy marriages is because of this close-minded thinking. Before that creates more controversial topics here, let me just say, I am no one to judge. But being a girl who has to get married some day, I wholly support living for love more than living for the society.

And I saw that you talked about the western world considering hugs to be negative. Let me just state that I have lived in Spain, Italy, USA and Czech Republic. None of these places take hugs as something indecent. If that was the case, well, I have hugged, on an average, 2 guys a day everyday, so I should probably just go and take a bath in the Ganga! Hugging is a form of showing your feelings - be it friendship or love - so just rein your horses before judging people and generalizing a statement to back up your argument. What someone thinks happens across the globe, doesn't actually happen that way. Been there, done that.

Simple Math -->

Asad + Zoya = Love = Hug (More like much more than hugs, but the CVs won't give us that.)

Ayan + Zoya = False Marriage = Eww = What Marriage again? = Throwing up in my mouth a little.

Therefore -- Hug = Who cares what the society thinks? = Not Indecent.

QH turned whole nikAh ceremony into a big fat joke. The holy Muslim man knew that boy woman are unwilling but still forced nikAh. Gul does need to clear this mess and provide nikAh ceremony with some validity.

Originally posted by: Saathfan

QH turned whole nikAh ceremony into a big fat joke. The holy Muslim man knew that boy woman are unwilling but still forced nikAh. Gul does need to clear this mess and provide nikAh ceremony with some validity.

I watch this show mainly for Asya and when zoyaan track happened I stopped watching totally but now that Asya are trying to fix the wrong I have started coming back off and on. Gul better be smart now and give a moralistic fix to the mess she created.