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Posted: 11 years ago
Color coding your argument for the ease of mine:

Every time they are showing Assad and zoya hug , that too after marriage. If not elders, at least Assad and zoya are grown ups. What is that they want to express which they can't speak out or express.
Behaving this way after marriage in public, they are conforming every viewerthat their is no love in them, just lust is pulling each other. It's better both zoya and Assad book a room and have sex and get over each other. I am sure next morning they can't even stand each other presence. Such a disgusting couple.

Showing all this they are insulting the marriage institution completely.

Cvs plz take care what you show to audience. Just playing mitwa bg music you cannot create any love magic while showing such type of romance. It's become laughing stock


1. Alright, first and foremost let me get this straight. This "holy institution of marriage" is essentially nothing but a contract for the sake of the judgmental societies present in this pitiful Earth. From the eyes of a couple, marriage is just an emblem the lifelong commitment they made to each other, it can only exists between two people who love each other and are willing to make that commitment to each other. So how is hugging Asad an insult to the marriage institution when A. that "institution" doesn't even EXIST between Zoya and Ayaan when there is no love between them to even call that a marriage and B. Zoya LOVES Asad and a nikah-nama, wedding rings, or 7 pheras can never come above love. Those things only hold value when love is present. So yeah, just seeing how affectionately "marriage institution" was thrown around as justification for the argument, I couldn't get into my main point without clearing this up.

2. First of all the elders they hugged in front of, please, if everyone started giving shits about people like them humankind is all said and done for. "I need to kill Hrithik Roshan's wife so I can get married to him? Why? Because Razia did that to get married to Gafoor?" See how much sense that makes? So please, these elders are not even worth discussing. As for love vs. lust--Asad and Zoya love each other and if you can't see that after 11 or so months, then I can't help you there. The most I can do in that case is suggest that you rewatch the show. When they hugged before the stupidity of this track, it was oh-so-romantic and lovey-dovey. And now just because she's "married" to someone she doesn't even love, the emotions and reasons behind the hugs changed into lust? With all due respect, how can a nikha-nama be given the right to change the name of the one emotion above all that makes us human? And since when did a hug become a sexual gesture? Regardless, they aren't trying to express anything, they are just finding comfort in each other, that's what two people in love do especially when they are going through a difficult phase. Their "lust" is not cheapening the "Institution of Marriage" rather the label of "lust" and suggestions like "booking a room in a hotel for a one night stand" are cheapening the feeling and essence of love.




Maybe I just a big fan of common sense.

-Shweta

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -ForeverYours-

<font size="2" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Color coding yourargumentfor the ease of mine:</font>

Every time they are showing Assad and zoya hug , <font color="#666666">that too after marriage</font>. If not elders, at least Assad and zoya are grown ups. <font color="#333399">What is that they want to express which they can't speak out or express.</font>
<font color="#666666">Behaving this way after marriage in public</font>, they are conforming every viewer<font color="#330099">that their is no love in them, just lust is pulling each other</font><font color="#009900">.</font> It's better both zoya and Assad book a room and have sex and get over each other. I am sure next morning they can't even stand each other presence. Such a disgusting couple.

Showing all this they are<font color="#666666"> insulting the marriage institution completely</font>.

Cvs plz take care what you show to audience. Just playing mitwa bg music you cannot create any love magic while showing such type of romance. It's become laughing stock


<font size="2" color="#666666">1. Alright, first and foremost let me get this straight. This "holy institution of marriage" is essentially nothing but a contract for the sake of the judgmentalsocieties present in this pitiful Earth. From the eyes of a couple, marriage is just an emblem the lifelong commitment they made to each other, it can only exists between two people who love each other and are willing to make that commitment to each other. So how is hugging Asad an insult to the marriage institution when A. that "institution" doesn't even EXIST between Zoya and Ayaan when there is no love between them to even call that a marriage and B<font size="2" color="#ff0000">.</font><font color="#330099"><font size="2"></font><font size="2">Zoya LOVES Asad</font></font><font size="2" color="#666666">and a nikah-nama, wedding rings, or 7 pheras can never come above love. Those things only hold value when love is present. So yeah, just seeing how affectionately "marriage institution" was thrown around as justification for theargument, I couldn't get into my main point without clearing this up.</font></font>

<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000066">2.First of all the elders they hugged in front of,please, if everyone started giving shits about people likethemhumankind is all said and done for. "I need to kill Hrithik Roshan's wife so I can get married to him? Why? Because Razia did that to get married to Gafoor?" See how much sense that makes? So please, theseeldersare not even worth discussing. As for love vs. lust--Asad and Zoya love each other and if you can't see that after 11 or so months, then I can't help you there. The most I can do in that case is suggest that you rewatch the show. When they hugged before the stupidity of this track, it was oh-so-romantic and lovey-dovey. And now just because she's "married" to someone she doesn't even love, the emotions and reasons behind the hugs changed into lust? With all due respect, how can a nikha-nama be given the right to change the name of the one emotion above all that makes us human? And since when did a hug become a sexual gesture? Regardless, they aren't trying to express anything, they are just finding comfort in each other, that's what two people in love do especially when they are going through a difficult phase. Their "lust" is not cheapening the "Institution of Marriage" rather the label of "lust" and suggestions like "booking a room in a hotel for a one night stand" are cheapening the feeling and essence of love.</font>




<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Maybe I just a big fan of common sense.</font>

<font size="2" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">-Shweta</font>



You said it and Say it Again .

I think she is mixing up her vowels ... Seriously .its not LUST it's LOST
They are lost in love for each other .
Damn girl stay away from love .. You will ruin it .


Sorry for the glitch on the post . The phone goes haywire on long threads
Edited by VashH - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -ForeverYours-

Color coding your argument for the ease of mine:

Every time they are showing Assad and zoya hug , that too after marriage. If not elders, at least Assad and zoya are grown ups. What is that they want to express which they can't speak out or express.
Behaving this way after marriage in public, they are conforming every viewerthat their is no love in them, just lust is pulling each other. It's better both zoya and Assad book a room and have sex and get over each other. I am sure next morning they can't even stand each other presence. Such a disgusting couple.

Showing all this they are insulting the marriage institution completely.

Cvs plz take care what you show to audience. Just playing mitwa bg music you cannot create any love magic while showing such type of romance. It's become laughing stock


1. Alright, first and foremost let me get this straight. This "holy institution of marriage" is essentially nothing but a contract for the sake of the judgmental societies present in this pitiful Earth. From the eyes of a couple, marriage is just an emblem the lifelong commitment they made to each other, it can only exists between two people who love each other and are willing to make that commitment to each other. So how is hugging Asad an insult to the marriage institution when A. that "institution" doesn't even EXIST between Zoya and Ayaan when there is no love between them to even call that a marriage and B. Zoya LOVES Asad and a nikah-nama, wedding rings, or 7 pheras can never come above love. Those things only hold value when love is present. So yeah, just seeing how affectionately "marriage institution" was thrown around as justification for the argument, I couldn't get into my main point without clearing this up.

2. First of all the elders they hugged in front of, please, if everyone started giving shits about people like them humankind is all said and done for. "I need to kill Hrithik Roshan's wife so I can get married to him? Why? Because Razia did that to get married to Gafoor?" See how much sense that makes? So please, these elders are not even worth discussing. As for love vs. lust--Asad and Zoya love each other and if you can't see that after 11 or so months, then I can't help you there. The most I can do in that case is suggest that you rewatch the show. When they hugged before the stupidity of this track, it was oh-so-romantic and lovey-dovey. And now just because she's "married" to someone she doesn't even love, the emotions and reasons behind the hugs changed into lust? With all due respect, how can a nikha-nama be given the right to change the name of the one emotion above all that makes us human? And since when did a hug become a sexual gesture? Regardless, they aren't trying to express anything, they are just finding comfort in each other, that's what two people in love do especially when they are going through a difficult phase. Their "lust" is not cheapening the "Institution of Marriage" rather the label of "lust" and suggestions like "booking a room in a hotel for a one night stand" are cheapening the feeling and essence of love.




Maybe I just a big fan of common sense.

-Shweta


The last part, where hugging suddenly became a show of lust, seriously irked me. Excuse me, I hug my friends - male and female - almost everyday. Sorry, I'm straight and really not attracted to any one of them. In fact, I have hugged them in front of my father too. I remember graduating and hugging several of my classmates out of joy and sadness. Those pictures are on a social networking site, where my entire family can see them. I don't think that caused any disrespect to anyone. Neither did my parents feel the need to sit me down and have a chat about my feelings of lust towards my male classmates. A hug is a hug - comforting - and here they needed all the comfort they needed. People need to get over it!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: JustEthereal



<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">The last part, where hugging suddenly became a show of lust, seriously irked me. Excuse me, I hug my friends - male and female - almost everyday. Sorry, I'm straight and really not attracted to any one of them. In fact, I have hugged them in front of my father too. I remember graduating and hugging several of my classmates out of joy and sadness. Those pictures are on a social networking site, where my entire family can see them. I don't think that caused any disrespect to anyone. Neither did my parents feel the need to sit me down and have a chat about my feelings of lust towards my male classmates. A hug is a hug - comforting - and here they needed all the comfort they needed. People need to get over it!</font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">@Bold🤣</font>




You said it perfectly also
It's going in circle and I think we should leave it alone now
Individuals like these usually try to hurt themselves when they do not win. .
Let her fight her inner battles by herself .. Obviously does not need help
Everyone reached out and she declined
Not worth it. .some just like to cheer at others demise .
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Posted: 11 years ago
Naina, you really need to rewatch the show woman, i.e. if you have been watching, which I highly doubt.

Firstly, just one eye lock between AsYa is enough to show people that they love each other with all their might. How can you not see it?? And all you can see is lust. Really now??
Where do you see lust in a mere hug which is a result of AsYa's pent up pining for each other, which is the only source of solace and comfort for them in this situation??

If you have a problem with the hug because Zoya is supposedly married however, you need to understand that her "marriage" isn't real.

Like Asad said, there has been no "vow", no "vaada" OKAY? This marriage was an "accident" and that is what it remains.

A marriage is essentially a vow only, which is bounded by LOVE. A mere piece of paper has no freaking importance, unless you're living in the 17th century! When did a piece of paper become more important than happiness of 4 innocent people??

Ayaan and Zoya both consider it a sham. Zoya WOULD HAVE BEEN wrong if both had intended to be "married" and then even after making a "promise", a wedding "vow" to Ayaan, Zoya had continued to meet Asad.

INTENTIONS matter, Naina. Just the intent of this so called marriage renders it invalid even if you set aside the other glitches in this so called Nikah which does not even deserve to be honored.

Your argument is useless actually because it seems like you haven't really been watching the show. There's a reason why all those who have been watching, disagree with you.

P.S. I'd love to see some lust between AsYa. Oh how I wish we could get a premarital Suhaag Raat!!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

Naina, you really need to rewatch the show woman, i.e. if you have been watching, which I highly doubt.


Firstly, just one eye lock between AsYa is enough to show people that they love each other with all their might. How can you not see it??And all you can see is lust. Really now??
Where do you see lust in a mere hug which is a result of AsYa's pent up pining for each other, which is the only source of solace and comfort for them in this situation??

If you have a problem with the hug because Zoya is supposedly married however, you need to understand that her "marriage" isn't real.

Like Asad said, there has been no "vow", no "vaada" OKAY? This marriage was an "accident" and that is what it remains.

A marriage is essentially a vow only, which is bounded by LOVE. A mere piece of paper has no freaking importance, unless you're living in the 17th century!When did a piece of paper become more important than happiness of 4 innocent people??

Ayaan and Zoya both consider it a sham. Zoya WOULD HAVE BEEN wrong if both had intended to be "married" and then even after making a "promise", a wedding "vow" to Ayaan, Zoya had continued to meet Asad.

INTENTIONS matter, Naina. Just the intent of this so called marriage renders it invalid even if you set aside the other glitches in this so called Nikah which does not even deserve to be honored.

Your argument is useless actually because it seems like you haven't really been watching the show.There's a reason why all those who have been watching, disagree with you.

P.S. I'd love to see some lust between AsYa. Oh how I wish we could get a premarital Suhaag Raat!!



Lol ..you ain't easy . Well said
Remind me not to get on your vengeful side .
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu


Dear TM it is now 21 pages of comments ...lolz oh and btw their Love for each other did not diminish when they were apart for 1 month after the SR. So how is their LOVE physical...


TM is big fan of neeropa roy. out of 100% public, 98% public is with ASYA. dont worry about rest of the public.


we all tried to change her point of view but some dont change .thats fine.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu



And doing it behind closed doors is not indecent???? Oh wow gal you need to grow a brain. Their love is so pure that they are not afraid for the world to see it but you are saying get a room and go have sex if you can't control yourself. How indecent are you here???


Have you never hugged anyone of the opposite sex out of Just Love or to comfort. Well i have and that to infront my husband who knew exactly why . Am i indecent or was i an adulterer???



I have hugged opposite sex to comfort in front of elders. But the person is not my lover. he is my friend. And there is a difference i think na between the hug of friends and lovers. As all of us know here that Asad and zoya are lovers.


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: maha70


TM is big fan of neeropa roy. out of 100% public, 98% public is with ASYA. dont worry about rest of the public.


we all tried to change her point of view but some dont change .thats fine.



Everyone will have their own point of view. so is mine. I know very well Asad and Zoya are lovers. But in this current situation, i didnt like it, and it didnt look correct a bit.

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Posted: 11 years ago
Goodness, this argument is still on 😆

The nikah is invalid. Asad, Zoya and Ayaan know it was a haadsa. Ayaan wants Zoe to go to Asad. Zoe herself wants to go to Asad. Asad wants Zoe to come to him. Asad wants to hug Zoe, Zoe wants to hug Asad. Ayaan does not have a problem with Asad and Zoe hugging.

Disgusting couple? Are you frickin' kidding me? 😲


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