Zoya & Self Respect - Page 9

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

lol nothing happened i never back down when i am debating with someone...happened with a college friend too...we could never agree on anything but i still loved debating with him and same is with Rosh i just love debating with her although we both know ki we will most probably never agree with each other but we still discuss coz well it is good to see other's POV and many a times my discussion with Rosh has indeed helped me understand thing a little better and see her POV

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Yup! It's called true love and matter of fact it does happens in real life too. You see fights and arguments are so common among relationships, not just husband wife or lovers but in fact every relationship there will always be misunderstandings. And that's pretty normal and healthy.

In Zoya's case is the samething. Remember the falling star? How both Asad and Zoya unknowingly ending up wishing what they never wanted in life? It's the destiny. If they hadn't wish at the moment, we probably wouldn't have seen Zoya what she has been now. She has loved Asad the most in her life. And if you love someone truly, you will accept that person with his good and bad habits. And that's what Zoya has done. She was hurt, broken, alone but she knew that her Mr. Khan is there for her to protect. She know he has respect for her. And what Asad did in return was all she was looking for which was forgiveness and realization and it just took seconds for her to melt down in his Arms. 😳

She does care for her self-respect because she knows that Asad won't let her make any stupid decisions.

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

Sangeeta ,

I disagree to a certain extent , will write in detail later.

But tussi bade romantic ho..and also main Sirf umr main 16 Ki hoon...

Aap jeet jaogi Hamara Tennis wala game on.

Sincerely , we should plan on meeting ...

Baaqi details main pm karti hoon.

Originally posted by: -Shayari-

I said it but i dont put more blame on Asad.. I put more blame on Zoya.. so a slight difference in why i wasnt being agreed with .. 😆

I think no one was forcing zoya to fall into the pit.. all of this was a result of her stupidity and

asad too is at fault for his situation as well.. i agree to that. but i wouldnt go as far as to say he was forcing Zoya to do anything.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi Sangi,

Self respect defines an individual...it's plain and simple. Should falling in love change it. The answer is no. IMO, if an individual has to strip of their self respect for the sake of love, I don't think that love is worth it at all.

I don't think Zoya ever had self respect ...she should have walked out of the house the first time Asad insulted her...she wasn't in love then...was she ? Let alone the slap and the very recent trading fiasco.The point is Asad has never prioritized her and she very well knows that,in-spite of that she has trusted him once again which I am afraid will fall back on her face. Why...because once again he is going to prioritize his sister Najma's happiness and dump her. It's just a never ending story and pattern.

She would not return to NYC because the female protagonist cannot leave the country...that about it. I would actually welcome a new man in a woman's life in such conditions...anything other than going back to the man who betrays you at every opportunity he gets. Do you really think any woman deserves that ?

Self respect comes first above everything.

Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

I wouldn't use words like dragged/forced her into a marriage either. The ultimate decision was Zoya's. And she chose to give in to Asad. She wasn't held at gunpoint when she signed the nikaahnama. The Akram fiasco? That would have been a force marriage, because the poor girl was in no condition to think for herself. Such was not the case here.

That being said, I'll continue to give Asad 50% of the blame for not only manipulating Zoya, but also allowing himself to be manipulated by Ayaan. If we can blame Zoya for being manipulated by Asad, then the same idea should apply all around.

Originally posted by: abhi.sweet

Very nice post di,IMO,self respect still matters a lot for Zoya. Equation changes when it comes to Asad because Asad is also included in the circumfrence of self of Zoya.You can go away from world but you cant go away from your self.And love is the only thing in the world which can not only overpower your ego but also can eliminate it.Zoya has given that haq to Asad and thats why i can not digest moving on of Zoya or Asad now.One question di, would you please explain the role of Ayan in dargah scene?

Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Great post Sangeeta! Can't really add much only that I think the love is definitely larger than life 😆 I wouldn't have stuck around a man like Asad, like Zoe has. I would have left him the day he practically coerced me to go meet that douchebag Akram, against my wishes.

Then again I'm not even a fifth as emotionally strong in character as Zoya. She's a fighter and she loves fiercely.

Originally posted by: ...Binish...

👏 I second your opinion.

Zoya runs back to Asad even after getting hurt or getting humiliated from him bcz she knows that he loves her more than his life, he can't live without her and cannot intentionally hurt her.

No matter, how much they fight with each other or disagree with each other's opinions, they sooner or later end up in adoring and loving each other. Their love is stronger enough to overpower all the obstacles and difficulties in their lives.

Even now Asad and Zoya have managed to live separately from each other just bcz they trust the ultimate power of their love.